The Real Chubby Tummies Of Lit

What a Liar You are, you had written your thread, after I showed my body! So I not need to say more, only again You judge me and tell lies about me!

but here for You because You seem the only one, who has the right to decide who is ok to feel hurt!

Listen to the music!

THISISME!

P.S. you are now ignored, but You not win, so stay here and be soooo happy!
You are gorgeous! Wow!!!!
 
Having a theme for a thread or asking people to post photos of a certain type in a thread is not bullying. No person here has ever been individually called out for their posts. Asking posters in general to consider whether their photos meet the theme of a thread is not bullying. My general feeling is that having a tummy that isn't completely flat or concave doesn't mean that one has a chubby tummy. It just means having a normal tummy. However, I want to be supportive of anyone who feels like they have a chubby tummy.

But I also ask people, for this thread, to consider how their post of their empirically normal or mildly chubby tummy will influence the confidence of people with really chubby/fat tummies in posting their photos here, which is the main goal of the thread. Empathy goes both ways. I, as a fat woman, need to have empathy for people much thinner than me who feel like they are fat or chubby. Those people who are closer to the "normal" end of the weight spectrum also need to have empathy for fatter or chubbier people who would like a space to post their photos that is more dedicated to people of similar size.

So let's all try to be empathetic towards each other and not immediately jump to conclusions of bullying or ill intentions on either side. Thanks for reading. 🌷

Dear @AngelicaS1780

I read what You said, and well maybe You and @LaisDeMarieDeFrance should read it and understand!

I not say more, only you both have me, hurt and bullied, but of course because You both have the right to do so because You are here the one, who only have the right „chubby“ tummy and size!

I never would anyone, hurt and be mean as you two do! I respect and love anyone, doesn’t matter what, size, colour, race, anything!

But @LaisDeMarieDeFrance was rude, accused me, that I’m mentally ill and that I was the problem to get banned from other sex forums, she judged me! She can do and say to me, what she wants and get away with it, because she knows you @AngelicaS1780 who here is the moderator!

You both, hurt me, that’s a fact! And sorry, when You both think, I HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE HURT! I apologize for saying now all this but I will send to you two a private message with my story, why I got banned, and after you both can go and report me to the moderator ok, so that I again will be banned from here too!

I allowed for the end, to make a Photo, sorry I know, it is not ok, but I have the same size and tummy like you @AngelicaS1780 but Iam not allowed to be here!

MarilynMonroeFan

https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME16TANG
 
Dear @AngelicaS1780

I read what You said, and well maybe You and @LaisDeMarieDeFrance should read it and understand!

I not say more, only you both have me, hurt and bullied, but of course because You both have the right to do so because You are here the one, who only have the right „chubby“ tummy and size!

I never would anyone, hurt and be mean as you two do! I respect and love anyone, doesn’t matter what, size, colour, race, anything!

But @LaisDeMarieDeFrance was rude, accused me, that I’m mentally ill and that I was the problem to get banned from other sex forums, she judged me! She can do and say to me, what she wants and get away with it, because she knows you @AngelicaS1780 who here is the moderator!

You both, hurt me, that’s a fact! And sorry, when You both think, I HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE HURT! I apologize for saying now all this but I will send to you two a private message with my story, why I got banned, and after you both can go and report me to the moderator ok, so that I again will be banned from here too!

I allowed for the end, to make a Photo, sorry I know, it is not ok, but I have the same size and tummy like you @AngelicaS1780 but Iam not allowed to be here!

MarilynMonroeFan

https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME16TANG
Please show me where I said that you, MarilynMonroeFan, or anyone else is not allowed to be here. You can’t, because I didn’t. You have repeatedly said that you are done with this thread, yet you continue to post. I tried to wrap up the drama of the past couple days by saying that everyone here needs to be more empathetic towards everyone else. I didn’t state that anyone was right or wrong. I did clearly state that “I want to be supportive of anyone who feels like they have a chubby tummy.”

Feel free to post your photos here or not. But let’s wrap up the dramatics.
 
What a Liar You are, you had written your thread, after I showed my body! So I not need to say more, only again You judge me and tell lies about me!

but here for You because You seem the only one, who has the right to decide who is ok to feel hurt!

Listen to the music!

THISISME!

P.S. you are now ignored, but You not win, so stay here and be soooo happy!
That’s so sexy! Thank you
 
Please show me where I said that you, MarilynMonroeFan, or anyone else is not allowed to be here. You can’t, because I didn’t. You have repeatedly said that you are done with this thread, yet you continue to post. I tried to wrap up the drama of the past couple days by saying that everyone here needs to be more empathetic towards everyone else. I didn’t state that anyone was right or wrong. I did clearly state that “I want to be supportive of anyone who feels like they have a chubby tummy.”

Feel free to post your photos here or not. But let’s wrap up the dramatics.


Dear @AngelicaS1780 and @LaisDeMarieDeFrance

Seems you already have forgotten what you have written, and well You and th „big“ one ( again, not mean, not rude, not sarcastic) too, but you also decide, what I shall feel, think do, where you take the right for thi?

Yes, I got the info You wrote me back, so well My good manners, and respect, make that I do that, maybe you and „the big one“. Should accept, you both are not „allow“ all people here, because, you decide.
And You and „big“ (again, sorry only how you act here) are less empathetic as you think! And as long You both, not apologies to the awful things you said, well I will go on and tell what You both are!

Not the sweet innocent empathetic great women!

Here you wrote this, and you both think, I had no right to take it personally, where is this right of You two „big ones“ to decide, what I think or feel?
P.S. maybe you both should now, try to be „empathetic“ and not answer only apologize for all the women, who has not your „big“ chubby!

You wrote this:

AngelicaS1780 said:
It's difficult. I know I'm not the OP, but Honey hasn't been here in a long time and I've taken over the stewarding of the thread. I find it frustrating too. It hasn't come up often in this thread, so I have just chosen to ignore it in the past.
Perhaps these people feel chubby, which I know is different from actually being chubby. I just haven't wanted to discuss the relative nature of people's feelings. It would probably be easier if Honey had called the thread The Real Fat Tummies of Lit. But there are probably size 12 or smaller women who think that their tummies are fat, so maybe it wouldn't. If it becomes a regular thing, I guess I will have to address it with people.




I made it „fat black“ (again, only I talk about the letters here) I wear size 46 (sorry go and look for yourself, wjat size that is) and when someone not wears 38 they are not thin, but you both wrote this after I allowed my pic, not before but after me, and worse was your friend „big two“ (sorry not can remember her long name, fed up to look up!)

She called me, I’m insane, and deserved to be banned and she not meant me, but she wrote after I showed my body not before, and she decided also, that only she, was and is bullied and I made all these up, so I am also called a Liar? And she is mot even strong enough and have enough courage, to write for herself she wrote „we“!

Here you can read it too:

@LaisDeMarieDeFrance
Everything these days is "bullying". We did not mention any particular posters. There have been many, so if you feel we were targeting you, you should probably think about that. Either you feel guilty or you're looking for a fight. It takes a lot to be banned on even sex forums, so I'm thinking you have other issues.

Asking smaller women to show off their beautiful bodies in other threads and leaving this ONE thread for much larger women is not, and never will be bullying.

As far as judging people is concerned, I have had people moo at me in public. Once you have been humiliated like that, you don't judge
. Instead you want a safe space where for once in your life you don't have to defend yourself and you're surrounded by other women with fat rolls.


So again, you two „big“ ones, I showed and could proof in your OWN words, that You both have hurt me, called me a Liar, called me insane, sick and worse!

If You both go one, laugh about my comments, thread me like this and tell lies about me, I am not afraid to fight back! Even you both not empathy „big ones“ will make me get banned here too, then is it so!


But then Non, je ne regrette RIEN!

I forgot, you both say, you not meant me, but who then? Where You take the right, to say, I not can think it is about me? Or it is only written for others? You wrote it, after I posted, so yes You meant me and all the other women, and that means I have the right, to feel hurt and to say what I think!
Where you have the right, to judge people? To say, you decided who is „Fat“ or have a „chubby belly“!
You wrote it and meant me! I allow me to think and feel that, I allow me to say you meant me and hurt me! So now accept it! And as I said, only answer if you both „big ones“ apologize!

MarilynMonroeFan
 
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Dear @AngelicaS1780 and @LaisDeMarieDeFrance

Seems you already have forgotten what you have written, and well You and th „big“ one ( again, not mean, not rude, not sarcastic) too, but you also decide, what I shall feel, think do, where you take the right for thi?

Yes, I got the info You wrote me back, so well My good manners, and respect, make that I do that, maybe you and „the big one“. Should accept, you both are not „allow“ all people here, because, you decide.
And You and „big“ (again, sorry only how you act here) are less empathetic as you think! And as long You both, not apologies to the awful things you said, well I will go on and tell what You both are!

Not the sweet innocent empathetic great women!

Here you wrote this, and you both think, I had no right to take it personally, where is this right of You two „big ones“ to decide, what I think or feel?
P.S. maybe you both should now, try to be „empathetic“ and not answer only apologize for all the women, who has not your „big“ chubby!

You wrote this:

AngelicaS1780 said:
It's difficult. I know I'm not the OP, but Honey hasn't been here in a long time and I've taken over the stewarding of the thread. I find it frustrating too. It hasn't come up often in this thread, so I have just chosen to ignore it in the past.
Perhaps these people feel chubby, which I know is different from actually being chubby. I just haven't wanted to discuss the relative nature of people's feelings. It would probably be easier if Honey had called the thread The Real Fat Tummies of Lit. But there are probably size 12 or smaller women who think that their tummies are fat, so maybe it wouldn't. If it becomes a regular thing, I guess I will have to address it with people.




I made it „fat black“ (again, only I talk about the letters here) I wear size 46 (sorry go and look for yourself, wjat size that is) and when someone not wears 38 they are not thin, but you both wrote this after I allowed my pic, not before but after me, and worse was your friend „big two“ (sorry not can remember her long name, fed up to look up!)

She called me, I’m insane, and deserved to be banned and she not meant me, but she wrote after I showed my body not before, and she decided also, that only she, was and is bullied and I made all these up, so I am also called a Liar? And she is mot even strong enough and have enough courage, to write for herself she wrote „we“!

Here you can read it too:

@LaisDeMarieDeFrance
Everything these days is "bullying". We did not mention any particular posters. There have been many, so if you feel we were targeting you, you should probably think about that. Either you feel guilty or you're looking for a fight. It takes a lot to be banned on even sex forums, so I'm thinking you have other issues.

Asking smaller women to show off their beautiful bodies in other threads and leaving this ONE thread for much larger women is not, and never will be bullying.

As far as judging people is concerned, I have had people moo at me in public. Once you have been humiliated like that, you don't judge
. Instead you want a safe space where for once in your life you don't have to defend yourself and you're surrounded by other women with fat rolls.


So again, you two „big“ ones, I showed and could proof in your OWN words, that You both have hurt me, called me a Liar, called me insane, sick and worse!

If You both go one, laugh about my comments, thread me like this and tell lies about me, I am not afraid to fight back! Even you both not empathy „big ones“ will make me get banned here too, then is it so!

But then Non, je ne regrette RIEN!
I think the issue is a combination of confidence and a bit of a language barrier.

I have no skin in the game, but I guess that as you have said it took you a long time to feel comfortable with your body, you'll remember the difference between how you feel now, and how you felt then.

It's awesome that you feel so comfortable with it now, and I'm genuinely glad. You have a thread that is really popular, and a load of fans who follow you wherever you post. That's both fantastic for you, but can be really intimidating for other people (and I'm not saying that's your fault)

There are a lot of people here who are not nearly as body confident as you. It takes a lot of courage for them to post, and often panic sets in after (hence them removing posts after a time, or when they feel over exposed), but they crave some attention as well, and want to feel sexy and wanted too.

I stopped posting on ampics when my posts were routinely ignored as the thread trawlers came in on every place I posted just to comment on the female pics. It can be really demoralising. I've seen people deliberately post after others consistently just to take the attention. I'm not saying that's what you're doing. I'm just saying it can drive the less confident away.

What you're hearing from @LaisDeMarieDeFrance and @AngelicaS1780 isn't an attack (although I accept you interpreted it that way) but rather it's frustration.

It's not an easy solution to work out as Ang said, and Marie said it wasn't just you, but multiple people. And it's not that smaller people post as such. It's just when they do, virtually all the comments and attention go to the smaller women, so one of the last places where they could post, receive attention and not feel fat and disgusting is lost to them. Have a quick look at MWP's normal nudes and mom bods thread. Every single person on that thread has a tummy. I think what people wanted (and indeed need) was a place they could post as bigger women.
 
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