The point to sex

[nasty]

What's the point of sex if you can't feel below the belt? I was seriously asked this question a few days ago.

 

[MissTaken]

The ability to please a woman. I was very close to someone who was a quadripelegic (sp?). And absent his ability to do many things, he was able to satisfy his wife whom he loved very much.

Outside the bedroom, he was able to flirt, joke about it and move forward with his life as a man. Maybe he couldn't chase her around the house in a French Maid's costume, but according to her, he had other assets.

Hmmm. As I don't know much about you, I hope I haven't put my foot in it!

 

[Calamity Jane]

I agree with Miss Taken... sex isn't only about what goes on between a penis and vagina. I've been known to make a man cum without touching him 'there' even once.

If you can achieve intimacy, can please a woman in other ways, and are open to trying new things that may feel good, then the nerve endings in one part of your body just aren't all that important.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Sex isn't all about the body.....the best sex is about the mind and body.

 

[nasty]

Don't worry about it Miss Taken. No offense.

 

[MissTaken]

None taken!

I just wasn't sure what you were looking for.

 

[nasty]

I was hoping to get reassurance that, even though I can't feel my penis, sex would still be satisfying. You, OUTSIDER, and, pagoncowgirl hit it right on the nose. Thanks all.

 

[Guest]

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[Rambling Rose]

I prefer

my sex well rounded and a little less pointy

 

[Nathon_88]

Don't worry, Nasty. Love is more than physical.

lol, this, coming from a virgin.

It's what goes on emotionally and mentally that matters.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Sex isn't all about the body.....the best sex is about the mind and body.

Right on. If sex were only about the body, cybersex wouldn't be so popular, would it?