The perfect ones are always flawed

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Which flaws are acceptable for you and which do you think are a deal breaker?

Could your Dom be a compulsive gamer? What about the cardinal sins? Sloth? Gluttony? Pride? Or does dominance equal perfection, as nobody would accept a flawed leader?

Acceptable flaws for me depend on what the person's anti-flaws are If the person's flaws are recognized and accommodated, that's fine. For instance, if they say "I know I spend too much time gaming, but let's spend that time together every 3rd night instead..." then they are aware it's a problem and they are willing to compromise. As long as long term expectations are in line (though this is more difficult than it sounds) then this might be an acceptable flaw.

However, if the person is a consummate gamer, and they lie, and they don't care how it affects the other person, not so much.

And lying, IMO, is the total deal breaker.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Endless_Night]

Which flaws are acceptable for you and which do you think are a deal breaker?

Could your Dom be a compulsive gamer? What about the cardinal sins? Sloth? Gluttony? Pride? Or does dominance equal perfection, as nobody would accept a flawed leader?

If dominance is supposed to = perfection, I've been missing out!

The biggest deal breaker for me would be an impatient Dom, one that expected me to produce submission on tap. My submissive side is…elusive. It needs to be enticed, cajoled, seduced into the open. Once exposed it requires nurturing, otherwise it just bolts back under the bed.

What can I say. I’m a high maintenance submissive , only suitable for Dom-ly types that are willing to put in sustained work. Once captured I seem to be fairly pliable, with a strong drive to please, but I don’t get there easy.

Real time, smokers and dog haters would be high on my list of no-goes. :|

And lying. I prefer my information straight up, with a twist of honesty.

 

[staciliv]

Which flaws are acceptable for you and which do you think are a deal breaker?

Could your Dom be a compulsive gamer? What about the cardinal sins? Sloth? Gluttony? Pride? Or does dominance equal perfection, as nobody would accept a flawed leader?

Why would a slave's opinion of her Masters flaws matter in the least anyway? A good slave doesnt fill what little space is in her head with such worries. She should focus on his happiness, keeping his house, cooking his meals, and whether she has given him head in the last ten minutes as she should.

 

[iadr]

Annoying voice
bad teeth
low class aesthetic sense (personal style, music tastes etc)


Plenty more after those- those are just examples.


I've parted with someone because they were convinced they were naturally fat (no such thing)
- and another years before because she was severely dyslexic and had never really tried to work around it (had no knowledge of the greater world)

Went on a blind date through a fetish site and the girl had a tooth sticking out her gum, almost an inch away from the rest of her teeth. Even something like that ... not just only that it's gross, but I can't imagine what frame of mind you have to be in to not get it fixed (shouldn't have been a financial issue to do so in her case).

I'm into middle age and have no interest in travelling- biggest waste of money, a total scam, IMO.
So that's a deal breaker.
And on the whole "outdoors" thing... I have a tiny fraction of the interest many do, apparently.
And spectator ports.... interest in that pretty much is covered by the low class aesthetic category, but yeah...