The Orgasm

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I'm glad. The feeling is mutual. You definitely brighten my day.

You're distracting me you know.... I'll have to tell you about it later. Nothing naughty i promise.

I have to go baby. Need to work on my blog and stuff. Talk at ya later.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Thirty-five votes! Next report on the total when it reaches forty. Care to take a guess?

 

[cyravance]

Ahhh, the orgasm, the big "O". So many myths, so little time...
I think it's helpful to remember that male and female anatomy are actually very similar. We all start out as female in the womb. Instead of growing a clit, a little boy grows a dick, and their testes hang outside instead of being tucked neatly inside like our ovaries. But the basic physiology is the same. It's just a matter of where it ends up in the end.
The female clitoris has the same amount of nerve tissue and blood supply as a cock, and it is erectile. That is the orgasmic tissue. So chances are the orgasm's are similar are far as the brain is concerned.
As for "G-spot" orgasms? Well, if you say so, but I think it's more a function of the extra stimulation in addition to stimulation of the primary orgasmic tissue. Much like a guy who is getting his balls sucked will very likely have a more intense orgasm than one who gets a simple blowjob.
JMHO. I'm a nurse, by the way.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Ahhh, the orgasm, the big "O". So many myths, so little time...
I think it's helpful to remember that male and female anatomy are actually very similar. We all start out as female in the womb. Instead of growing a clit, a little boy grows a dick, and their testes hang outside instead of being tucked neatly inside like our ovaries. But the basic physiology is the same. It's just a matter of where it ends up in the end.
The female clitoris has the same amount of nerve tissue and blood supply as a cock, and it is erectile. That is the orgasmic tissue. So chances are the orgasm's are similar are far as the brain is concerned.
As for "G-spot" orgasms? Well, if you say so, but I think it's more a function of the extra stimulation in addition to stimulation of the primary orgasmic tissue. Much like a guy who is getting his balls sucked will very likely have a more intense orgasm than one who gets a simple blowjob.
JMHO. I'm a nurse, by the way.

Thank you for the heady response, and I'd like to make a few points. First off, I have no time to an exhaustive literature review because of my schedule at school, and second, I have no credentials because I am simply a humble undergraduate. I do ask that any who are knowledgeable on this topic to please comment, and I will stand corrected if proven wrong by hard data.

In my humble opinion, orgasms can be generated by more than just clitoral stimulation (not that it was suggested that they couldn't). Take for example a wet dream, or premature ejaculation before intercourse, when no outward stimulation occurs. Both may occur without any direct vaginal or penile contact. To assume that an orgasm only occurs due to clitoral stimulation should be examined (again, not that it was stated).

The clitoris is certainly the center of it all, or the "big brain" of the orgasm. A brain that loves power, able to circumvent the neocortex to stimulate the pleasure centers of the brain. "The clitoris integrates information from diverse sources, conscious and unconscious, from the cerebral cortex, the hypothalamus, the peripheral nervous system, and it responds accordingly" (pg. 79, Natalie Angier in Woman: An Intimate Geography). If you take it a step further, external stimuli (anal penetration) other than direct contact to the clitoris still stimulates the clitoris, then can be transferred to the brain for orgasm. The potential stimuli include sight, sound, smell, taste (vaginal secretions during cunnilingus).


Angier spends extensive time discussing the clitoris. She writes "...The clitoris is the site where the 8,000 nerve fibers are threshed together into a proper little brain" (bold mine, pg 65). On the multiple orgasm she posits, " . . . a man feels preposterously peakcockish if he climaxes three or four times in a night, compared to the fifty or hundred orgasms that a sexually athletic woman can have in an hour or two" (sorry guys, pg 70). I do agree that the most satisfying orgasms occur through multiple arenas, but to assume that the direct clitoral stimulation is the only source of the orgasm is false. The clitoris is the brain of the orgasm.

One of the main differences in the penis and the clitoris is in function. The clitoris only serves women for pleasure, and is so sensitive that it must hide in its little cloistered home for most of us. While the male penis must also serve to provide semen during ejaculation, and to void during urination. Indeed, as Angier describes the differences in anatomy are vast and the female vagina is much more that a turned in penis.

Again --- thank you for the response, I feel many women know so little about our bodies and why we reach orgasm.

Now, how about someone talking dirty to me?????

 

[SexyLatina19]

Thank you for the heady response, and I'd like to make a few points. First off, I have no time to an exhaustive literature review because of my schedule at school, and second, I have no credentials because I am simply a humble undergraduate. I do ask that any who are knowledgeable on this topic to please comment, and I will stand corrected if proven wrong by hard data.

In my humble opinion, orgasms can be generated by more than just clitoral stimulation (not that it was suggested that they couldn't). Take for example a wet dream, or premature ejaculation before intercourse, when no outward stimulation occurs. Both may occur without any direct vaginal or penile contact. To assume that an orgasm only occurs due to clitoral stimulation should be examined (again, not that it was stated).

The clitoris is certainly the center of it all, or the "big brain" of the orgasm. A brain that loves power, able to circumvent the neocortex to stimulate the pleasure centers of the brain. "The clitoris integrates information from diverse sources, conscious and unconscious, from the cerebral cortex, the hypothalamus, the peripheral nervous system, and it responds accordingly" (pg. 79, Natalie Angier in Woman: An Intimate Geography). If you take it a step further, external stimuli (anal penetration) other than direct contact to the clitoris still stimulates the clitoris, then can be transferred to the brain for orgasm. The potential stimuli include sight, sound, smell, taste (vaginal secretions during cunnilingus).


Angier spends extensive time discussing the clitoris. She writes "...The clitoris is the site where the 8,000 nerve fibers are threshed together into a proper little brain" (bold mine, pg 65). On the multiple orgasm she posits, " . . . a man feels preposterously peakcockish if he climaxes three or four times in a night, compared to the fifty or hundred orgasms that a sexually athletic woman can have in an hour or two" (sorry guys, pg 70). I do agree that the most satisfying orgasms occur through multiple arenas, but to assume that the direct clitoral stimulation is the only source of the orgasm is false. The clitoris is the brain of the orgasm.

One of the main differences in the penis and the clitoris is in function. The clitoris only serves women for pleasure, and is so sensitive that it must hide in its little cloistered home for most of us. While the male penis must also serve to provide semen during ejaculation, and to void during urination. Indeed, as Angier describes the differences in anatomy are vast and the female vagina is much more that a turned in penis.

Again --- thank you for the response, I feel many women know so little about our bodies and why we reach orgasm.

Now, how about someone talking dirty to me?????

I only have two things to say, (mostly because as you know i dont have as much knowledge as i'd like to have on this topic.) Alright 1) You intelligence never ceases to amaze me. You keep me on my toes, I like it. 2) I find it remarkable that even when you talk oh so clinically i still find it oh so super sexy. ..... come on i wouldnt be me if i didnt tease just a little, mi amor.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I only have two things to say, (mostly because as you know i dont have as much knowledge as i'd like to have on this topic.) Alright 1) You intelligence never ceases to amaze me. You keep me on my toes, I like it. 2) I find it remarkable that even when you talk oh so clinically i still find it oh so super sexy. ..... come on i wouldnt be me if i didnt tease just a little, mi amor.

u make me drool

I have HW baby, but PM ya later

 

[SexyLatina19]

u make me drool

I have HW baby, but PM ya later

Drool? oh no, i'll have to clean it up for you but oh wait i dont have a napkin... i'll have to think of something.

Oh no, you're leaving. I've two comments about that as well:
1) Parting is such sweet sorrow [you like poetry well there you go]
2) I hate to see you go but i love to watch you leave...

The promises of PMs, you sure do know how to make a girl feel special.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Drool? oh no, i'll have to clean it up for you but oh wait i dont have a napkin... i'll have to think of something.

Oh no, you're leaving. I've two comments about that as well:
1) Parting is such sweet sorrow [you like poetry well there you go]
2) I hate to see you go but i love to watch you leave...

The promises of PMs, you sure do know how to make a girl feel special.

Shakes pantiless bottom as she exits her bedroom. Check the poems today.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Geeze..I can't seem to multiple like someone can with clit stimulation. It gets too sensitive too fast. Never had a g-spot one though have been told that it's incredible and easier for multiples. Kinda envious.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Geeze..I can't seem to multiple like someone can with clit stimulation. It gets too sensitive too fast. Never had a g-spot one though have been told that it's incredible and easier for multiples. Kinda envious.

The clit is like a brain, with practice it remembers by habit. Kinda like ridin a bike. A damn coolio bike.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

To the G-spot

Oh goodness me, the G-Spot--where do we begin? The question has been posed if the G-Spot orgasm is a result of the clitoral brain, or does it happen in and of itself. I don't know, but it seems that because of the way the clit is wired, then sensations that are derived from G-Spot enticement must pass through the clit.

I again claim I'm not expert, but do state that orgasms emanating from the G-spot feel different. They seem to be from the entire body, and last longer with multiple convulsions, or a steady rolling wave, so to speak. Of course, more than likely they are caused by stimulating multiple arenas.

What Catherine Blackledge (The Story of V), clearly demonstrates is that the female prostate, or G-spot, is literally packed with nerve endings. She further states that the deeper you go in the anterior wall of the vagina, the more nerve endings you find. More nerve endings equal more stimulation to the clitoris brain, so it's all tied together.

Now to the gushing thingy, I've never done it, or seen it except in a porno *blushing*, but I do leak profusely, in fact drip at times. There is debate if women do gush, or is this just urine? Grefenburg concludes that it is a different substance than female urine, but the debate still rages (pg. 200). He states, "I am inclined to believe that the urine reported to be expelled during female orgasm is not urine, but only secretions of the interurethral glands correlated with the erotic zone along the urethra in the anterior wall of the vagina." He adds that the amount of liquid at times can be profuse.

When referring to the types of orgasms, Blackedge posits there are five (pg 277). "I'd say the first is the clitoris, the second the G-spot, the third the cervical, the fourth vaginal and the fifth anal. Important, though, most women will experience a blend of the above." Most orgasms are a delicious combination of multiple pathways being stimulated. Again, this is from her book, and a little of my personal knowledge, and if anyone more learned stands to correct me, no offense taken. I am by no means a medical professional, just a damn horny lesbian.

 

[SexyLatina19]

Oh goodness me, the G-Spot--where do we begin? The question has been posed if the G-Spot orgasm is a result of the clitoral brain, or does it happen in and of itself. I don't know, but it seems that because of the way the clit is wired, then sensations that are derived from G-Spot enticement must pass through the clit.

I again claim I'm not expert, but do state that orgasms emanating from the G-spot feel different. They seem to be from the entire body, and last longer with multiple convulsions, or a steady rolling wave, so to speak. Of course, more than likely they are caused by stimulating multiple arenas.

What Catherine Blackledge )The Story of V), clearly demonstrates is that the female prostate, or G-spot, is literally packed with nerve endings. She further states that the deeper you go in the anterior wall of the vagina, the more nerve endings you find. More nerve endings equal more stimulation to the clitoris brain, so it's all tied together.

Now to the gushing thingy, I've never done it, or seen it except in a porno *blushing*, but I do leak profusely, in fact drip at times. There is debate if women do gush, or is this just urine? Grefenburg concludes that it is a different substance than female urine, but the debate still rages (pg. 200). He states, "I am inclined to believe that the urine reported to be expelled during female orgasm is not urine, but only secretions of the interurethral glands correlated with the erotic zone along the urethra in the anterior wall of the vagina." He adds that the amount of liquid at times can be profuse.

When referring to the types of orgasms, Blackedge posits there are five (pg 277). "I'd say the first is the clitoris, the second the G-spot, the third the cervical, the fourth vaginal and the fifth anal. Important, though, most women will experience a blend of the above." Most orgasms are a delicious combination of multiple pathways being stimulated. Again, this is from her book, and a little of my personal knowledge, and if anyone more learned stands to correct me, no offense taken. I am by no means a medical professional, just a damn horny lesbian.

I must say once again the clinical talk is super sexy. ..... And i'll make a little confession *i watch porn too* but shhhh dont tell anyone.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I must say once again the clinical talk is super sexy. ..... And i'll make a little confession *i watch porn too* but shhhh dont tell anyone.

Hi my sweet latina. You know I need to get off--of lit that is.

And she is only 19

 

[SexyLatina19]

Hi my sweet latina. You no I need to get off--of lit that is.

And she is only 19

I'd like to get off too *pouts*... oh wait I dont think we're talking about the same thing. Maybe we are

And yes i'm only 19. I need someone to help corrupt me. Any takers? (kidding lol)

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Female ejaculation is rare but happens. It's not urine.

From what I've read, the females who do ejaculate are both stimulated on g-spot and clit. Apparently, from what little I've read about g-spot, it feels like you have to pee but don't...that's how you know you've found it. Dunno if that's true but meh...

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I'd like to get off too *pouts*... oh wait I dont think we're talking about the same thing. Maybe we are

And yes i'm only 19. I need someone to help corrupt me. Any takers? (kidding lol)

ur not helpin me any sweetems, fore i know it i'm gonna be all nekky...hey wait a sec, i am nekky

Female ejaculation is rare but happens. It's not urine.

From what I've read, the females who do ejaculate are both stimulated on g-spot and clit. Apparently, from what little I've read about g-spot, it feels like you have to pee but don't...that's how you know you've found it. Dunno if that's true but meh...

I didn't comment on it but the sensation is true with me (although I don't gush, I drip). I feel as if I have to pee when the prostrate is teased, only makes sense I would think. I also agree with you that multiple stimulation is the best way to get the best O (not stated directly but implied). Thanks Jazzy for the heady comment and looksie.

 

[SexyLatina19]

ur not helpin me any sweetems, fore i know it i'm gonna be all nekky...hey wait a sec, i am nekky

Oye who's not helping now? I could tell you what i'm wearing but it's boring and not too sexy.

You all 'nekky' hmmm... i'm getting images of us... some rope... a blindfold... something sweet; warm chocolate or whipped cream, how about BOTH... maybe some ice... Okay i'm going to stop before i end up all 'nekky'.

See i can be just as bad as you

 

[Night_Jasmine]

ur not helpin me any sweetems, fore i know it i'm gonna be all nekky...hey wait a sec, i am nekky



I didn't comment on it but the sensation is true with me (although I don't gush, I drip). I feel as if I have to pee when the prostrate is teased, only makes sense I would think. I also agree with you that multiple stimulation is the best way to get the best O (not stated directly but implied). Thanks Jazzy for the heady comment and looksie.

I did a bit of research but still never felt one *pouts* lol

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I did a bit of research but still never felt one *pouts* lol

PRACTICE makes perfect, and there are toys designed for to stimulate the anterior wall of the vagina, of course a hairbrush will work also (not that I know ant of these things because I have done them ).

Amy, credit card please, let us rush to the friendly neighborhood sex shop. Handcuffs you say? Sounds like a winner.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Oye who's not helping now? I could tell you what i'm wearing but it's boring and not too sexy.

You all 'nekky' hmmm... i'm getting images of us... some rope... a blindfold... something sweet; warm chocolate or whipped cream, how about BOTH... maybe some ice... Okay i'm going to stop before i end up all 'nekky'.

See i can be just as bad as you

No way you are as bad as me, cuz I was nekky first *sticks tongue out and finds a clit*

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

40 votes

Vaginal Penetration 5 12.50%
Clitoral Stimulation 18 45.00%
Anal Penetration 8 20.00%
G-Spot 9 22.50%

Isn't it funny how close it is to what the research suggests?

 

[SexyLatina19]

No way you are as bad as me, cuz I was nekky first *sticks tongue out and finds a clit*

Touche. I'll give it to you, you win that one.... but when i have you screamin my name i think you'll realize i'm the real winner 'round here. So there!

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Touche. I'll give it to you, you win that one.... but when i have you screamin my name i think you'll realize i'm the real winner 'round here. So there!

U R the winner of my heart dear sweetie.

 

[SexyLatina19]

U R the winner of my heart dear sweetie.

Nina bella, everytime i think i have the strong upperhand you say something incredibly sweet and i get all weak again. Dont give me too much of your heart, i might run away with it and never give it back.

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

I did a bit of research but still never felt one *pouts* lol

A friend told me about this information (thanks m), It's from Catherine Blackledge in The Story of V, pg 208.

"There is consensus on the stimulation required to produce ejaculation of prostatic fluids (female ejaculate). A rhythmic deep pressure stimulation (provided by a penis, toy, fingers or etc)-- provided by either rhythmic thrusting or rubbing against the anterior wall of the vagina. Tentative strokes are out," (bold mine)

It appears that you need to go at the front wall of the vagina pretty good. She further states that often, the ejaculate seeps into the bladder, so you may not see much of the outward affect. There is much more discussion as to the role of ejaculate in the book, but suffice it to say, it is the front wall of the vagina that stimulates ejaculation. Some dildos are specifically designed for it, you can find a partner to experiment with (luv ya my Amy) or an object that curves in (don't suggest a banana). Below is a wiki with much more detail in case anyone is interested.

Where is the G-spot?