The not so subtle art of e-fucking

[aussiegeekygal]

Let's get right to it.

Sex!

That's why most of us are here. And why the rest are confused AF. This place is sexy. Everyone has different ideas of what sex is and how to do it. We spend a lot of time talking sex out there, in the physical realm.

But I'm curious.

How is sex had here?
What exactly is e-boning?

Is sending a suggestive picture flirting, or could it be more?
Is it only sex if it happens in real time?
Or if there's cameras?
Or sounds?

Where do you draw the line, dear litster?

What does e-boning mean to you?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I always thought there was a bunch of behind the scenes Skype video action.

Am I wrong?

 

[pandaburr]

I always thought there was a bunch of behind the scenes Skype video action.

Am I wrong?

Yeah, you don’t want to see my behind the scenes. Contorting to get all the right angles and shit. It’s gotta be disturbing.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yeah, you don’t want to see my behind the scenes. Contorting to get all the right angles and shit. It’s gotta be disturbing.

Don't yuck on someone else's yum

I'm so trying to understand the logistics of all this

 

[aussiegeekygal]

LOL is this for real? Or an early April Fool's Joke?

So for real.
People talk about e-boning and for the life of me, I can't put together a coherent idea of what actually is.

 

[Eringobra]

Let's get right to it.

Sex!

That's why most of us are here. And why the rest are confused AF. This place is sexy. Everyone has different ideas of what sex is and how to do it. We spend a lot of time talking sex out there, in the physical realm.

But I'm curious.

How is sex had here?
What exactly is e-boning?

Is sending a suggestive picture flirting, or could it be more?
Is it only sex if it happens in real time?
Or if there's cameras?
Or sounds?

Where do you draw the line, dear litster?

What does e-boning mean to you?

To me it is intimate private messages

 

[aussiegeekygal]

To me it is intimate private messages

What does that mean?
You share your name?
You talk about sex?
You talk about sex with each other?

 

[Eringobra]

What does that mean?
You share your name?
You talk about sex?
You talk about sex with each other?

Yes talk about sex, real experience, fantasies, sex with each other. Sometimes a little imagination and role play...

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yes talk about sex, real experience, fantasies, sex with each other. Sometimes a little imagination and role play...

So here's a conundrum.

When I talk about sex with another person, is it fair for them to assume we're in the throes of e-boning?

Gawd. I share my sexual experiences and proclivities without a thought.

 

[NC_Coastal]

Here's my take on it (from my time on other sites). There's word sex, which can be hot if both parties have a big enough, um, vocabulary. And then there's cam sex, which is basically mutual masturbation. In both cases, it's just that - (cyber) sex.
Beyond that, it gets into online relationships. That's where it gets interesting. And in some cases, emotional. Sometimes it ends well. Usually, it ends with someone getting hurt.
Before Lit, I'd never heard the term 'e-boning.'
If I'm wrong, someone enlighten me.

 

[pandaburr]

For me eboning is sexting (with or without sharing pics), be it an on and off conversation or engaging in phone sex/camming.

Sexting for me = getting off with another while engaging what we would do to the other person, what we wish to do, or just generally chatting about sex and the things we like I’m easily turned on by some hot conversation.

Everyone I have eboned knows my name so maybe that does become a piece of it

 

[Hipshot1554]

Yes talk about sex, real experience, fantasies, sex with each other. Sometimes a little imagination and role play...

Isn't that what used to be referred to as cyber sex?
E-boning is an unfamiliar term for me.

 

[pandaburr]

So here's a conundrum.

When I talk about sex with another person, is it fair for them to assume we're in the throes of e-boning?

Gawd. I share my sexual experiences and proclivities without a thought.

I feel like there would be an underlying tone that would give way you’re both being turned on by said conversation. Not just eboning because you’re talking about sex, if that makes any sense.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

For me eboning is sexting (with or without sharing pics), be it an on and off conversation or engaging in phone sex/camming.

Sexting for me = getting off with another while engaging what we would do to the other person, what we wish to do, or just generally chatting about sex and the things we like I’m easily turned on by some hot conversation.

Everyone I have eboned knows my name so maybe that does become a piece of it

I feel like sharing my name is the deepest form of intimacy in this place.

 

[ydahecnot]

All I have to say on this is that I prefer the term “sexy time.” E-boning makes it sound somehow…less. Maybe too crass a term for me? I can’t quite articulate it, but there it is

 

[NC_Coastal]

I'd love to know who here came up with the term 'e-boning.'

 

[KatieDoes]

I don’t refer to is as ‘e boning’ but when we’re able, my Dom and I will either talk or cam over Skype. Sparing the intimate details, we both cum before we’re done and say goodbye.
When I see people talk about e boning, I assume that’s what they mean.

 

[SunnySideOvum]

I feel like sharing my name is the deepest form of intimacy in this place.

It is.

 

[ydahecnot]

I'd love to know who here came up with the term 'e-boning.'

I am not sure if it was Fara or NRJ OR SNG.

 

[ydahecnot]

I feel like sharing my name is the deepest form of intimacy in this place.

One of the deeper ones to be sure, but there are deeper

 

[Eringobra]

For me eboning is sexting (with or without sharing pics), be it an on and off conversation or engaging in phone sex/camming.

Sexting for me = getting off with another while engaging what we would do to the other person, what we wish to do, or just generally chatting about sex and the things we like I’m easily turned on by some hot conversation.

Everyone I have eboned knows my name so maybe that does become a piece of it

Sounds like I need to get know you a little better hehe

 

[pandaburr]

I feel like sharing my name is the deepest form of intimacy in this place.

Yes I get that. It used to be a big deal to me, to share mine and know the other persons in return.

 

[SunnySideOvum]

I think "e-boning" is just a funnier way of saying "cyber".

Pics, vids, audio, and even Skype calls I think are an extention of that.

I think I figured out the base system at one point, actually.

First base- flirty PMs, chat
Second base- nudes
Third base- vids, audio
Home- live Skype video call, or phone sex maybe?


This is pretty much what it is for me too. High five!

What if you both like each other enough to meet in person? Does this make it a "home-run"?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I am also confused on the definition. My best assumption is live video and audio where there is talk, nudity, and both or all parties involved leave sexually gratified. However, I have no clue.

Is there like a base system like real life, 1st is dirty messaging, 2nd is dirty videos, 3rd is phone sex? Are there loopholes like fuck me in the ass because I love Jesus or blowjobs and mustache rides don't actually count?

I have so many questions.

 

[Eringobra]

So here's a conundrum.

When I talk about sex with another person, is it fair for them to assume we're in the throes of e-boning?

Gawd. I share my sexual experiences and proclivities without a thought.

Not necessarily I share experiences with the other lovely women on this site all the time. It is not always eboning though haha