The need for….need

[MrQuiet314]

I suppose it’s a manifestation of some deeper personal insecurity, but when it comes to sex…I need to know that my partner desires me and their desire is the master key for me to unlock my own. I would never want sex with my wife if she didn’t want it with me. Perhaps this is ultimately unfair, but I never been the kind of guy who can see the lack of a “No” as being equivalent to a “Yes”. Permission alone does nothing for me. I need to see and hear and feel their desire.

I love porn where there are genuine cries of joy, lust, rage or command. I love to see someone driven by emotion to do and say things they would never say and do otherwise. That is my sex drug of choice i suppose….and in seeing other people’s passion I momentarily connect to my own… A buff, hairless dude jackhammering into a starlet with fake tits and even faker gasps and moans leaves me cold. The sex I dream about is not just a specific physical act…but when emotion pushes you to that place of utter abandon where you will say anything, do anything to satisfy yourself and others. Is anyone else a “need junkie?”

 

[daytr1pper]

<raises hand>

 

[Ed_Sumner]

In my case it's my wife who experienced that kind of need with another man, behind my back for years. She was literally addicted to it. Her pure, primal lust is intoxicating to me now.