Verdad
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I don't have time to read the article right now, but I agree with you on the abortion issue. I'm really conflicted over this (so I tend to toss to the back of my mind only to be brought out if it challenges me directly). Intellectually I'm very much with the choice positions, but emotionally I can't escape that I fundamentally believe that a fetus is a person from sometime very early in the process there. And as much "choice" as I would like to be, there are times when I'd like to take the Octamoms of the world and fuse their thighs together so that their choice doesn't impign on my choices and so that that their offspring don't arrive terribly disadvantaged from the get go. I don't pretend I have answers on this issue that would make me comfortable.
My feelings about the woman's right to choose are not mixed one bit—an emphatic yes to that right—but the feelings Pilot expresses here are not foreign to me, so what I'd like to point out is that there's no real dissonance between having these feelings and supporting the woman's choice.
What's often lost in the dichotomization of the issue is that an abortion isn't a joyous event by anyone's standards. The 'pro choice' side is being portrayed as eager to gleefully whack in babies, or at least as seeing the procedure as something akin to having the tartar scrapped off one's teeth. Yet the truth—and I can promise that, even if I haven't been through it myself—is that no woman approaches the decision lightly.
No woman. If there are some that do, one should wonder how they'd treat the actual child.
The issue, however, is not whether abortion is a trivial event in a person's life or an alternative to contraception. No one in their right mind suggests it should be, and no one in their right mind encourages women to count on it because it's so much easier than remembering to use a condom. The issue is what happens after an unwanted pregnancy has occurred, and after the woman, confronted with two painful options, chooses the one she finds bearable.
Anyone willing to support this choice is not asked to jump up and down from joy or wear an "ABORTIONS ARE COOL" tee-shirt. They're merely asked to refrain from meddling in another person's decision—a decision that's as private as can be and as life-changing as can be—and perhaps to consider the world in which that decision would be taken away from the individual's hands.
