The "MIND FUCK" Thread...

[Arden]

The MIND FUCK Thread

LOL !!! Leave it to me to stir up trouble here on a lazy Saturday afternoon... and lord knows I'm going to get razzed about this thread too... Yet, I feel compelled to find out what others have experienced in this rare form of art called the MIND FUCK.

First of all, I have no question that the Mind Fuck exists... and in my humble opinion, it's not all in your head...

I suppose when I think of the term Mind Fuck, I'm attaching it to cyber or phone encounters that can quite unexpectedly blow your mind! How can this happen... the two of you didn't touch, or look into each others eyes, or kiss... Yet the end result may have been even better than the best sex you've ever had in person! How can this be?

I'm convinced that certain people are natural born Mind Fucks... they instinctively know all the right words to use, at the right time, have very charismatic personalities, maybe a sexy voice... but not necessarily... The most important factor, it seems, is their ability to climb inside of your mind and take over... an almost hypnotic state. Every word, every phrase affects you. Your brain produces massive amounts of endorphins, and the mental turn-on factor is absolutely overwhelming. You're completely lost in the moment... you wouldn't even notice if the house was on fire all around you!

Then, think of this... you might sometimes have two natural born Mind Fuck personalities having a go at it together...Wow, there's almost something evil about that one. But think of it! It does happen...



So, is anyone out there brave enough to tell about their most fabulous Mind Fuck experience? LOL... Really! You see so little on this subject anywhere, as if some people doubt the validity of the Mind Fuck. What was your experience, what do you think the contributing factors were, how did you feel after the earth shattered under your feet? What other physical senses got involved? And last, but not least, how long did it take you to come down off the Mind Fuck 'high' before you could function as a human being again?

 

[mbb308]

Now, that's not the image I had conjurred at all. I was thinking more along the lines of that cutting little statement that will camp out in someone's psyche and fester into a resentment the size of Montana, or that little action or snub which leaves the victim screaming obsenities almost incoherently as the deliverer slowly walks away, without so much as a tip of the hat.

But, I can be like that sometimes.

 

[Arden]

Now, that's not the image I had conjurred at all. I was thinking more along the lines of that cutting little statement that will camp out in someone's psyche and fester into a resentment the size of Montana, or that little action or snub which leaves the victim screaming obsenities almost incoherently as the deliverer slowly walks away, without so much as a tip of the hat.

But, I can be like that sometimes.

Yeah, I can see where you'd probably read that into the title... and that you'd love havin' a go at replying to that kind of Mind Fuck thread.

You know what? I bet you can be a really nice person just as often as being the hardcore cynic. That's just a front that you throw out there... even evil Kittie doesn't scare me.

But, no, this is a different type of Mind Fuck...
~laughing~

 

[mbb308]

You know what? I bet you can be a really nice person just as often as being the hardcore cynic. That's just a front that you throw out there... even evil Kittie doesn't scare me.

See? There you go, doing just what I was talking about!!!!

You have hurt me now - I am wounded to my coal-black depths!!!!

 

[HomerPindar]

The MIND FUCK Thread

I'm convinced that certain people are natural born Mind Fucks... they instinctively know all the right words to use, at the right time, have very charismatic personalities, maybe a sexy voice... but not necessarily... The most important factor, it seems, is their ability to climb inside of your mind and take over... an almost hypnotic state. Every word, every phrase affects you. Your brain produces massive amounts of endorphins, and the mental turn-on factor is absolutely overwhelming. You're completely lost in the moment... you wouldn't even notice if the house was on fire all around you!

Well done Arden... This is a thread I shall enjoy watching

The above paragraph neatly conveys what I enjoy doing online, in my writing, or in person, that is, getting "into" the mind of the lady. I like getting the imagination of someone else rolling, as my own imagination is a rather active one all on its own.

As a writer and a shy person in real life, I find I do best at this online. In real life I have to be more comforable with the person, to avoid any body language that I might misinterpret I suppose. Anyways... If any lady doesn't believe in this idea I suggest working on your imagination in erotic terms.

Let me know if you need any help, of course...


HomerPindar

 

[SexyAmber]

I completely agree that people can be natural born mind-fucks. That they mysteriously know exactly what you want..for me it is in the voice too....The sound of a man's voice is so important me to me. The kind you hear and are immediately hypnotized by it. It just does something for you different then other people's voices.

And even though you don't touch, what they are describing whether in written word or voice you can almost feel it on your body. It's mind blowing and beyond intense. In ways more intense then them physically being there because if they were physically there it would be much easier to manipulate your body but to get into your mind is almost a form of control over you.

Great thread..thank you

 

[Arden]

See? There you go, doing just what I was talking about!!!!

You have hurt me now - I am wounded to my coal-black depths!!!!

So your coal black depths have any comments or observations on the featured topic?

 

[mbb308]

So your coal black depths have any comments or observations on the featured topic?

Apparently, I have that effect on some much more so than I am affected by it.

My motor requires that some physical attributes be present to get running. Sweet nothings mean so much more with a set of eyes to go with them.

 

[Arden]

I completely agree that people can be natural born mind-fucks. That they mysteriously know exactly what you want..for me it is in the voice too....The sound of a man's voice is so important me to me. The kind you hear and are immediately hypnotized by it. It just does something for you different then other people's voices.

And even though you don't touch, what they are describing whether in written word or voice you can almost feel it on your body. It's mind blowing and beyond intense. In ways more intense then them physically being there because if they were physically there it would be much easier to manipulate your body but to get into your mind is almost a form of control over you.

Great thread..thank you

Thanks Amber... I think your last paragraph says it all... mind blowing and beyond intense... and the interesting part, not all of them even know that they are exerting control... they think that they're just having fun!

 

[hogjack]

Not quite there yet

I'm adept at a Mind Feel-up, a Mind Heavy Petting session, and minimally of a Mind Cuddle.

Not sure that I can produce an orgasmic experience but believe I can get someone to have sweaty palms and possibly goose pimples.

 

[Angelofsex]

I know as you type the words, you could see and feel it to a point.. With the phone to me, I close my eyes, with his voice and his touch my body feels all of it. Ok so it is my hands touching but in my mind it is his. I guess the mind is so well educated of all sex, that it is easy to feel like the person is there.

Another good threads of yours Arden.

 

[Arden]

Re: Re: The "MIND FUCK" Thread...

Well done Arden... This is a thread I shall enjoy watching

The above paragraph neatly conveys what I enjoy doing online, in my writing, or in person, that is, getting "into" the mind of the lady. I like getting the imagination of someone else rolling, as my own imagination is a rather active one all on its own.

As a writer and a shy person in real life, I find I do best at this online. In real life I have to be more comforable with the person, to avoid any body language that I might misinterpret I suppose. Anyways... If any lady doesn't believe in this idea I suggest working on your imagination in erotic terms.

Let me know if you need any help, of course...


HomerPindar

HI Homer,

Thanks for your reply!. I think you brought something interesting up here... that mind fuck skills could be a great boon to shy folk. Know what - I'm one of them! I also see freedom in being able to express myself online in threads, etc., without the fear factor present in real life. If I blush here, who'll ever know? I don't get too crazy, not crazier than I would at home with best friends that I've known a long time... but yes, trying to get a romance rolling can cause a lot of stress for us with that shy gene.

I think developing those Mind Fuck skills could be a great boost to your self confidence... especially since words are the things that may be hard to say to someone in person.

So, maybe practice makes perfect?

Another interesting thing re/ shyness. I noticed that you said you are a writer. I am, by trade, an artist. These are both very solitary occupations, and offer little communication with others. About 10 years back, I found myself a job in sales on purpose, to hone my communication skills. I loved it so much that I stayed 5 or 6 years!

Thanks again for the reply. And do post more if you care to.

 

[Ukin]

Mind Fuck? Angels AV fucks my mind up...it's HOT.

However, back to the Thread...I have not felt it yet..but I have ladies fuck my mind up hahahaha.

Sorry... I will behave and come back later

 

[Angelofsex]

Mind Fuck? Angels AV fucks my mind up...it's HOT.

However, back to the Thread...I have not felt it yet..but I have ladies fuck my mind up hahahaha.

Sorry... I will behave and come back later

Why thank you........love to fuck some man's mind.

 

[Mysticcal]

Thinking back over my last long distance relationship, I know we would not have lasted the four years we did without some incredible mind fucking. We were totally in each others heads, and took turns being in control. Didn't start out thinking it was one controlling the other, but that was exactly what it was. Words, tone, speed of the speech, everything was said with the one sole purpose of controlling the others response. OMG, sometimes took hours to come down off that high.

LOL the sad part was we weren't near as great in person. Those damn shy genes coming into play on his part.

Mysti

 

[Arden]

Re: Not quite there yet

I'm adept at a Mind Feel-up, a Mind Heavy Petting session, and minimally of a Mind Cuddle.

Not sure that I can produce an orgasmic experience but believe I can get someone to have sweaty palms and possibly goose pimples.

Gotta work on it, that's all!

 

[Arden]

I know as you type the words, you could see and feel it to a point.. With the phone to me, I close my eyes, with his voice and his touch my body feels all of it. Ok so it is my hands touching but in my mind it is his. I guess the mind is so well educated of all sex, that it is easy to feel like the person is there.

Another good threads of yours Arden.

Hi Angel!

Gosh, thanks for dropping in!
Do you think women are more open to the mind fuck phenomena then men? I'm guessing they might be, since men (I think) tend to focus on one thing only... women relax and enjoy the entire ride...

Curious what your thoughts are on this.

 

[prettygrneyes]

I completely agree that people can be natural born mind-fucks. That they mysteriously know exactly what you want..for me it is in the voice too....The sound of a man's voice is so important me to me. The kind you hear and are immediately hypnotized by it. It just does something for you different then other people's voices.

And even though you don't touch, what they are describing whether in written word or voice you can almost feel it on your body. It's mind blowing and beyond intense. In ways more intense then them physically being there because if they were physically there it would be much easier to manipulate your body but to get into your mind is almost a form of control over you.

Great thread..thank you

hypnotized...yes that's what I feel....damn...Amber you couldn't of said it any better....I agree with everything you juss said...wow...GMTA!!!!
great thread and I will be checking back in time to time,Arden,butt then all your thread's are great!

 

[mbb308]

Hi Angel!

Gosh, thanks for dropping in!
Do you think women are more open to the mind fuck phenomena then men? I'm guessing they might be, since men (I think) tend to focus on one thing only... women relax and enjoy the entire ride...

Curious what your thoughts are on this.

Most men, maybe.

Au contraire, mon cherie, for this one, at least.

 

[Arden]

hypnotized...yes that's what I feel....damn...Amber you couldn't of said it any better....I agree with everything you juss said...wow...GMTA!!!!
great thread and I will be checking back in time to time,Arden,butt then all your thread's are great!

The hypnotic feeling seems to be a pattern... being so entranced that the entire world exists only where you are at that given time... Don't you wish you could give that feeling as a gift to others that haven't been there?

My threads great? I can only remember a couple! But I hit 400 posts today at the Bohemian Coffee House & Gallery! I never thought that one would last a week... and it's turned out to be my favorite!

 

[Arden]

Most men, maybe.

Au contraire, mon cherie, for this one, at least.

My god, the man really IS dangerous. Be careful, mbb... French is one of those languages that gets to me.

And now, with that said, I'm almost afraid to ask for further explanation of how my hypothesis about men was entirely wrong in your case...

And thinking of those sore hips... I need some fresh air.

 

[Ukin]

Okay...back to behave lol.

having read the intro again and other posts, I have to admit that I do have..or have had.. ladies phone me for "A Mind Fuck". I think that I must use the right words...and being English, I have an accent that ladies like...so yes, I am guilty (if so charged) of Mind Fucking.

 

[Arden]

Okay...back to behave lol.

having read the intro again and other posts, I have to admit that I do have..or have had.. ladies phone me for "A Mind Fuck". I think that I must use the right words...and being English, I have an accent that ladies like...so yes, I am guilty (if so charged) of Mind Fucking.

So that accent has it's advantages, eh?

 

[Ukin]

So that accent has it's advantages, eh?

For the ladies it appears so It doesn't do much for me..unlike the Southern Drawl of a lady...omg..THAT is horny and Mind Fucking

 

[HomerPindar]

Some points on the shyness and Mind Fucks (although, Mind Fucks also meant confusing, misleading or otherwise fucking with someones head - oddly enough, I'm very good at confusing people too..wonder if theres a corrilation) Anyways, shyness:

Quote of Arden
Thanks for your reply!. I think you brought something interesting up here... that mind fuck skills could be a great boon to shy folk. Know what - I'm one of them!

Compared to:

Quote of Mysticcal

LOL the sad part was we weren't near as great in person. Those damn shy genes coming into play on his part.

While I enjoy the whole online experiance I've learned that it has to be mixed with some actual personal, real life, contact. It's a bit of a balancing act not to become too much of an online-geek.

I can also relate to your getting a public relations job, Arden. For me, if I know how to relate to the person, professionaly, say, it's easy to be relaxed. My dad's a helluva salesman, I think I inherited some of that. It's in being personal we both suck

Great thread...have to see about getting a cup of tea off you, Arden ...

HomerPindar