The Merits of Phone Sex??

[enjoyingitall]

The Merits of Phone Sex?

I was having a conversation with someone today and we were discussing, in general terms , the merits of phone sex.

My mind began veering off course and some questions popped up.

1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?


2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?


Enlighten me, please.

 

[lovemetender]

The Merits of Phone Sex?

I was having a conversation with someone today and we were discussing, in general terms , the merits of phone sex.

My mind began veering off course and some questions popped up.

1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?


2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?


Enlighten me, please.

I guess I'll kick it off...

1. yes it does matter to me....I need to have a connection before I'd get to that stage with someone...

2. sorry if this sounds shallow but if I'm not attracted then it's just not gonna work for me so I'd have to say there would be no interest for me to engage in p/s...

3. a resounding yes for me on this one....if there's a physical as well as emotional connection it's a very real experience & enhanced immensely...

now if you feel the need to go into greater detail by all means just call me...LOL

hope this is what you were looking for

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks for your insight LMT....can't say I was surprised at your answers.....lol

Now..about those details...



Ok.....surely there are others with some thoughts on this.

 

[Angelofsex]

The Merits of Phone Sex?

I was having a conversation with someone today and we were discussing, in general terms , the merits of phone sex.

My mind began veering off course and some questions popped up.

1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?


2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?


Enlighten me, please.

I for one really do enjoy phone sex. A picture is just that...but the voice well that is dfferent.....You could just close you eyes and just feel their touch..

So for all three answers.......the voice you are listening to and the words, that is what makes you warm.......A picture is the outside, it is the inside that counts......Words could melt you.

But this is me.

 

[QuickDuck]

To me, that can all be answered simply by saying that the mind is a very powerful thing.

You have never seen a picture? that really should not matter if you are attracted to them enough to engage (*pun intended*) in phone sex.

That being said though, I couldn;t do it if i was not actually attracted to the person.

Hows that for your answer EJ?

 

[wildrose70]

And for me ....it doesn't do a thing...oh sure I love hearing his voice...and believe me it does wonders for him!!...but guess I'm one of those people....that really need the *hands on* type of love making....and he's my fella....but just doesnt work for me....I'm too private

 

[Arden]

Hi EJ!

2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

Wow, so many possible answers here. I would like to say that for myself, I would have to know the person very well first anyway. It would be too unreal for me to engage in phone sex with someone I didn't know. (Not that it can't be done, all of those 900 numbers tell us otherwise) I also think that it's possible to form a very strong bond with someone that you haven't seen a photograph of. If the two of you have been open and honest in your previous communications, there shouldn't be any surprises when his/her photo shows up in your e-mail one day.

Personally, I fall for a man's mind and heart above and beyond any other factor. There are far too many wonderful people in this world that might get overlooked if judged on looks alone.

 

[SexyChele]

The Merits of Phone Sex?


1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?


2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?


Enlighten me, please.

I like phone sex - but I can't just do it with anyone. I have to feel a connection with the person and have gotten to know them well. Now. On to the questions...

1. No, it doesn't matter if I know what they look like. We would have chatted and talked online beforehand, so I would know a bit about them. That's what is important to me. With phone sex, it's all in the voice.

2. Not particularly, especially if their voice/words can send me over the edge!

3. Yes, perhaps. Although, I've have met a man online and we chatted for quite some time and then engaged in phone sex. I love his voice - it can send shivers down my spine! I didn't know what he looked like until a couple of months later. Although he normally would not be some one I might be drawn to initially, because I had already knew him so well, I thought he was just about the best looking man I'd ever seen. But I knew his inner self - far more important than what is on the outside.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: The Merits of Phone Sex??

I for one really do enjoy phone sex. A picture is just that...but the voice well that is dfferent.....You could just close you eyes and just feel their touch..

So for all three answers.......the voice you are listening to and the words, that is what makes you warm.......A picture is the outside, it is the inside that counts......Words could melt you.

But this is me.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this Angel.

I'm sure there are many that will agree with you.

 

[enjoyingitall]

To me, that can all be answered simply by saying that the mind is a very powerful thing.

You have never seen a picture? that really should not matter if you are attracted to them enough to engage (*pun intended*) in phone sex.

That being said though, I couldn;t do it if i was not actually attracted to the person.

Hows that for your answer EJ?

Hiya QD..thanks for your thoughts.

Your answer....anyone's answer is great. There are no right or wrong answers to this one. I'm just curious as to how others think.

 

[enjoyingitall]

And for me ....it doesn't do a thing...oh sure I love hearing his voice...and believe me it does wonders for him!!...but guess I'm one of those people....that really need the *hands on* type of love making....and he's my fella....but just doesnt work for me....I'm too private

Hiya Rose...yep..to each his or her own...we're all different and that's a good thing.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hi EJ!

2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

Wow, so many possible answers here. I would like to say that for myself, I would have to know the person very well first anyway. It would be too unreal for me to engage in phone sex with someone I didn't know. (Not that it can't be done, all of those 900 numbers tell us otherwise) I also think that it's possible to form a very strong bond with someone that you haven't seen a photograph of. If the two of you have been open and honest in your previous communications, there shouldn't be any surprises when his/her photo shows up in your e-mail one day.

Personally, I fall for a man's mind and heart above and beyond any other factor. There are far too many wonderful people in this world that might get overlooked if judged on looks alone.

Hi Arden! Good to see you here.

As always, you articulate your thoughts so well.
Thank you for sharing them with us.

 

[windycityman]

Well lets see.........I tried phone sex once.......must have got the wrong number.......hung up and the phone shocked me........


WCM










PS EJ...will post the serious one later.

hows the putor?

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: The Merits of Phone Sex??

I like phone sex - but I can't just do it with anyone. I have to feel a connection with the person and have gotten to know them well. Now. On to the questions...

1. No, it doesn't matter if I know what they look like. We would have chatted and talked online beforehand, so I would know a bit about them. That's what is important to me. With phone sex, it's all in the voice.

2. Not particularly, especially if their voice/words can send me over the edge!

3. Yes, perhaps. Although, I've have met a man online and we chatted for quite some time and then engaged in phone sex. I love his voice - it can send shivers down my spine! I didn't know what he looked like until a couple of months later. Although he normally would not be some one I might be drawn to initially, because I had already knew him so well, I thought he was just about the best looking man I'd ever seen. But I knew his inner self - far more important than what is on the outside.

Hi Chele..

I find your idea of "With phone sex, it's all in the voice" interesting.
Thanks for sharing your ideas here.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Well lets see.........I tried phone sex once.......must have got the wrong number.......hung up and the phone shocked me........


WCM










PS EJ...will post the serious one later.

hows the putor?

LOL....silly guy.

I'll look forward to your serious answer then.

The putor is working ok for now..Did you read the yahoo messages I left you about it yesterday?

 

[TantaLiza]

Hmmm... phone sex... I have to say that I like it... maybe more so than I should.

As some have stated previously, it's all in the voice. I've chatted with some men online that have led to the phone... being as I have a good imagination, it's just sprung from there. I have to admit to liking the idea of "strange"... maybe more so towards the anonymity of the situation.... especially if he's not afraid to talk dirty to me!! In real life, I have a tendency to be quiet... on the phone, I'm not so self conscious of what's being said. It's the only way we communicate.... a deep voice can take me over the edge and keep me danglin'!! I also like to set up a scenario and play it for all it's worth...

Yes, I've seen some pics of guys I chatted with... some have changed my mind but most haven't... it's all good when you're out to please the one you're with! I was told that I have a sexy voice that can make a man cum... Plus, I've even been encouraged to set myself up a 900 number so I must not be too bad at it... lol Not braggin, I just get into it so... *weg* Want to call me???? ~smile~

To each his own...

LizA

 

[sweet soft kiss]

EJ I have to agree with Liza and Chele... for me phone sex does not work if I don't know and care about the person on the other end of the line... I have to have a connection and some history with a gentleman before I can share that about myself... its really too intimate for me not to.... as for pictures... for me it doesn't matter... If I like someone I grow to like their looks.... If I don't like someone... no matter how good looking or hunky they may be I am left cold...

That reminds me of something I heard once and I think it fits alot of people... It went something like this... "Men see beauty and they fall in love.... Women fall in love and see beauty."... I think there is a good deal of truth in that... Men are more visual than women generally and women are more aural...although both sexes seem to be very oral...

 

[windycityman]

LOL....silly guy.

I'll look forward to your serious answer then.

The putor is working ok for now..Did you read the yahoo messages I left you about it yesterday?

I have had phone sex.......or geezzzzzzzz was it phone support.......I get the two mixed up......but I must say it was great.....hearing the voice.....feeling or listening to the feelings ....makes you want more....so .....yes would i do it again.......oh hell yes......even if its just support.......opps sex......


WCM.....

 

[Ukin]

The Merits of Phone Sex?

I was having a conversation with someone today and we were discussing, in general terms , the merits of phone sex.

My mind began veering off course and some questions popped up.

1) Suppose you have never seen a picture of a prospective phone sex partner. Does that matter to you in terms of how “real” the experience seems to be? Or is it simply all about words?


2) Suppose you have seen his/ her picture and you know that you simply aren’t attracted physically to that person. Does this cause you to be reluctant to engage in phone sex with him/ her or does that matter to you?

3) Suppose you have seen his / her picture and you feel a physical attraction. Would this enhance the experience for you?


Enlighten me, please.

EJ? STOP phoning me..stop breathing that sultry voice down the phone....you know it turns me off..stop telling me about how hard your nipples are..I am not bothered...stop telling me how you are playing with your pussy....I don't care...stop telling me how you are sucking my cock..all the way down to my shaved balls...because I didn't feel it..



Ej..sexy thing you....a good Thread...never seen one like this before.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hmmm... phone sex... I have to say that I like it... maybe more so than I should.

As some have stated previously, it's all in the voice. I've chatted with some men online that have led to the phone... being as I have a good imagination, it's just sprung from there. I have to admit to liking the idea of "strange"... maybe more so towards the anonymity of the situation.... especially if he's not afraid to talk dirty to me!! In real life, I have a tendency to be quiet... on the phone, I'm not so self consciuos of what's being said. It's the only way we communicate.... a deep voice can take me over the edge and keep me danglin'!! I also like to set up a scenario and play it for all it's worth...

Yes, I've seen some pics of guys I chatted with... some have changed my mind but most haven't... it's all good when you're out to please the one you're with! I was told that I have a sexy voice that can make a man cum... Plus, I've even been encouraged to set myself up a 900 number so I must not be too bad at it... lol Not braggin, I just get into it so... *weg* Want to call me???? ~smile~

To each his own...

LizA

LOL liza....you're gonna be getting some pms from that last line


Good to see you.

 

[enjoyingitall]

EJ I have to agree with Liza and Chele... for me phone sex does not work if I don't know and care about the person on the other end of the line... I have to have a connection and some history with a gentleman before I can share that about myself... its really too intimate for me not to.... as for pictures... for me it doesn't matter... If I like someone I grow to like their looks.... If I don't like someone... no matter how good looking or hunky they may be I am left cold...

That reminds me of something I heard once and I think it fits alot of people... It went something like this... "Men see beauty and they fall in love.... Women fall in love and see beauty."... I think there is a good deal of truth in that... Men are more visual than women generally and women are more aural...although both sexes seem to be very oral...

Hey SSK!
Good to see you here.

I agree completely about the connection aspects.

I'm not so sure of the adage though..At least not so much for me.
But it's very applicable to the idea of p/s for many I would think.

And yes....I think both sexes are indeed very oral..in more ways than one.

 

[enjoyingitall]

I have had phone sex.......or geezzzzzzzz was it phone support.......I get the two mixed up......but I must say it was great.....hearing the voice.....feeling or listening to the feelings ....makes you want more....so .....yes would i do it again.......oh hell yes......even if its just support.......opps sex......


WCM.....

That phone sex....ummmm I mean support.......can be awesome at times! LMAO


Do I dare say it???


You give good support!


As an aside.....WCM helped me through a barrage of computer problems this week.....here is my public THANK YOU!!

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Re: The Merits of Phone Sex??

EJ? STOP phoning me..stop breathing that sultry voice down the phone....you know it turns me off..stop telling me about how hard your nipples are..I am not bothered...stop telling me how you are playing with your pussy....I don't care...stop telling me how you are sucking my cock..all the way down to my shaved balls...because I didn't feel it..



Ej..sexy thing you....a good Thread...never seen one like this before.

OMG......I am so LMAO right now.

I'm trying to stop....really I am.....but ya know.....it's just so HARD to stop with you......LOL


Do I need to do a disclaimer on this post??


You are too funny, my friend.

Glad you like the thread.....but ya know....you didnt answer the questions.

 

[Ukin]

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OMG......I am so LMAO right now.

I'm trying to stop....really I am.....but ya know.....it's just so HARD to stop with you......LOL


Do I need to do a disclaimer on this post??


You are too funny, my friend.

Glad you like the thread.....but ya know....you didnt answer the questions.

Because I am soooooo shy and hate to admit that I have had phone calls lmao.

Not so sure if they understand me though..but they seem to like the accent

 

[enjoyingitall]

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Because I am soooooo shy and hate to admit that I have had phone calls lmao.

Not so sure if they understand me though..but they seem to like the accent

That shy thing isn't gonna play well on a thread I started, sweetie..you forget.....I know you wayyyyyyy too well.

Now answer the questions!!

You love it when I get all demanding dontcha??