tealsphynx
It Goes Both Ways...
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Ok so the title is kinda lame, but my brain is fried at the moment. Killishandra, sphynx's dragon, and myself recently (as in last night) went to the local BDSM group's monthly meeting. Dragie and I have been a part of this group for a few months and Killi although having been to munches has never made it onto the "official" members list, so we sponsored her in (she better not screw up and make me look bad or I swear to god she'll have a spanking she won't like 
) Anyway. She was going to start a thread to talk about....something doing with groups and meetings to kinda get ideas on how we can help our group and be more active, like coming up with discussion ideas, activities and good stuff like that.
(just a note Killi said she'd be chiming in when she could {monday?} so she can clarify a little bit better what the purpose of this thread is)
At the meeting we had some discussion on things like safewords, honesty, and communication. We also did a fun activity invoving improv...kinda. We put our name on a piece of paper in either a Dom or sub bowl (didn't matter our orientation, but just where we wanted to stand for the activity , though most did put their name in the bowls as based on what they were) and then we were paired up randomly in Dom/sub couples, drew a activity and did a mini "scene". Some of it was some real important stuff, llike the right/wrong ways to discuss a scene afte rit happened, or the right/wrong way to ask a person to play at a play party. (I hope this all makes sence, I'm so sorry if it doesn't). so it was interesting because Killi drew her name and mine and we got "Bondage Improve". The "scene" was that we were at a play party, and she as a sub asked me if I would do some bondage with her and I didn't have my ropes with me, what do I as a Dom do. So everyone pitched in their belts and the (at the risk of upsetting D&D fans) Dungeon Master (sorry
) and his slave let me borrow some scarves and have some plastic wrap and I proceded to make Killi look like one of those neate-o mermaid bowspritz you see on Hollywood pirate ships. her arms were bound behind her with belts and a scarf around her wrists, her ankles were bound with a scarf and the plastic wrap was from waist to ankle, it was neat. She might have a pic, I'm not sure though.
So this is kinda our way of asking what do other groups out there do at meetings, what kind of demonstrations, lectures and such, since our small group is running out of ideas (it's still a newer group)
On a non discussion note though, we all had alot of fun, this super Domly man guy got put in a submissive role for a right/wrong way to approach a potential bottom/top at a party. He was funny, so unsubmissive he gave this Domme the excuse that he didn't want to play because he was gay (they're focus was on using honesty in your response whether yes or no and he is sooo not gay)and there were some single Doms there and Killi got like "mini-bumrushed" as she put it in a PM to me this morning, by them because she was the only available female submissive there, and lets face it the chicky is HOT! LoL, she didn't know what to do, she laughed about it on the way home.
) Anyway. She was going to start a thread to talk about....something doing with groups and meetings to kinda get ideas on how we can help our group and be more active, like coming up with discussion ideas, activities and good stuff like that. (just a note Killi said she'd be chiming in when she could {monday?} so she can clarify a little bit better what the purpose of this thread is)
At the meeting we had some discussion on things like safewords, honesty, and communication. We also did a fun activity invoving improv...kinda. We put our name on a piece of paper in either a Dom or sub bowl (didn't matter our orientation, but just where we wanted to stand for the activity , though most did put their name in the bowls as based on what they were) and then we were paired up randomly in Dom/sub couples, drew a activity and did a mini "scene". Some of it was some real important stuff, llike the right/wrong ways to discuss a scene afte rit happened, or the right/wrong way to ask a person to play at a play party. (I hope this all makes sence, I'm so sorry if it doesn't). so it was interesting because Killi drew her name and mine and we got "Bondage Improve". The "scene" was that we were at a play party, and she as a sub asked me if I would do some bondage with her and I didn't have my ropes with me, what do I as a Dom do. So everyone pitched in their belts and the (at the risk of upsetting D&D fans) Dungeon Master (sorry
) and his slave let me borrow some scarves and have some plastic wrap and I proceded to make Killi look like one of those neate-o mermaid bowspritz you see on Hollywood pirate ships. her arms were bound behind her with belts and a scarf around her wrists, her ankles were bound with a scarf and the plastic wrap was from waist to ankle, it was neat. She might have a pic, I'm not sure though.So this is kinda our way of asking what do other groups out there do at meetings, what kind of demonstrations, lectures and such, since our small group is running out of ideas (it's still a newer group)
On a non discussion note though, we all had alot of fun, this super Domly man guy got put in a submissive role for a right/wrong way to approach a potential bottom/top at a party. He was funny, so unsubmissive he gave this Domme the excuse that he didn't want to play because he was gay (they're focus was on using honesty in your response whether yes or no and he is sooo not gay)and there were some single Doms there and Killi got like "mini-bumrushed" as she put it in a PM to me this morning, by them because she was the only available female submissive there, and lets face it the chicky is HOT! LoL, she didn't know what to do, she laughed about it on the way home.
