The leash

Shadowsdream

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Snapping the leash onto the ring of the collar and giving a final tug is one of the most satisfying moments for Me when I begin a new training.

The sharp intake of breath from the one on their knees and the quiver that runs through the body magnifies the electricity in the air.

Placing the leash between their teeth to hold themselves in bondage when I leave the room for a moment is a subtle test of their obedience.

Anyone care for a new conversation.
 
Sounds really nice. I do love being on a leash. Something about being on a leash like that equating total control over me. I can only go in the direction that the leash is tugged and no other lest I choke myself, therefor I am forced to follow willingly.
 
My fav was a gold one, very fine and very pretty. i had a matching collar, gold choker with a ring.
We used to go places and he never clicked the leash on till we got there...friends house and parties and stuff. Once when we were going out to dinner he put it on as we were walking out of the door of the apt, i can still just typing this feel that tingly feeling all over. Gotta love peoples expressions when they see that, but it made me feel nothing but pride because i was owned by this beautiful man and i was the one one the end of his leash. For some reason it made me feel like....even though these ppl dont really get it i could tell they knew i adored him...and that made it a perfect memory.
So anyway, leash means to me....pride. :rose:






i think im finally going to sleep tonight btw Ma'am
 
A favorite memory:

Using a fine link leash with a leather handle to connect my (now ex) boy and girl's collars. I placed them on their knees, facing one another and ran the chain through both of their rings, and then snapped the end onto the girl's ring.

They looked so pretty there, like a matched set of puppies, the small leather handle placed between their puckered lips. (of course, this was a punishment..as they could not ease the tension from their knees without dropping the handle or choking one another)

Another one:
Walking my boy to the local corner store, his leash connected to a clip on my belt. (An exercise in mild humiliation..he is a tall thin white boy, I am a short lil brown skinned chunkita as a certain poster seems wont to point out). He walked two steps behind me, so that passing cars could see the silver links connecting him to my belt.
 
for a university club that i am dictator of, we had a slave auction for a fundraiser. my master (or "O Almighty Master", as i was forced to call him the entire night) walked me to a nearby supermarket on a leash for a booze run. it was kinda late, but not so late that no one was there. we got some pretty strange looks. however, my bf and his slaves went through about 15 minutes earlier, so the checkout girl asked "are you guys from that slave auction party?". then on the way back, still on the leash, we took the long way back past a popular pub, where i had to get on my knees and bow to the bouncer.
 
When I hear the snap of the leash to the O ring on my collar, I am transported to another dimension. It is yet one more symbol that I belong to that person... one more symbol of my acceptance of their possession and my submission.
 
I shy away from leashes in public, because most times I see them, they're attached to quasigoth/pseudopunk teenagers. :(

That said, I've had wonderful experiences being leashed at BDSM clubs. While the clubs do have their gothy kids, the people there are much more respectful of the meaning/use of a leash.
 
Hey, what's wrong with quasi Goth pseudopunk kids and why should they respect the leash more than I respect the sanctity of NIN.

I'm not a giant fan, to be honest, because I'm a lefty, I walk like a directional dyslexic and I'm kind of a klutz.

I like them alone, in the bedroom, with M. I have a little rainbow linked one, just a little chain really, that I can delicately tug his face around. I'd not leash him in public unless we were at Folsom or something, inflicting my perversion on the SuperAmerica people is not my style.

I prefer snapping my fingers and being crawled behind overall.
 
Etoile said:
I shy away from leashes in public, because most times I see them, they're attached to quasigoth/pseudopunk teenagers. :(

That said, I've had wonderful experiences being leashed at BDSM clubs. While the clubs do have their gothy kids, the people there are much more respectful of the meaning/use of a leash.

*ahem*

the only person i've ever seen leashed in public is myself. err... *glances at Etoile's post*


but seriously, are goths less entitled to BDSM and leashes than everyone else?
that, and there is a big difference between walking around leashed in public for the humour and doing a serious scene. people doing it for the fun of it arent trying to mock the serious ones!
 
I guess I don't like the implication that BDSM is temporary, or a game. I take it more seriously than that. Yes, I have fun, both in bed and in life, but leashes worn casually look cavalier to me.
 
Etoile said:
I guess I don't like the implication that BDSM is temporary, or a game. I take it more seriously than that. Yes, I have fun, both in bed and in life, but leashes worn casually look cavalier to me.

Actually, until you mentioned that reason, I had never thought of it that particular way. Most of my friends are involved in gothyc subculture. Quite a few of them are involved in BDSM and have been for as long as I have known them.

As this has been a way of life for me (almost as long as I have been having sex) it just never occured to me that most people don't see the leash the same way I do.
 
AvaAdore said:
*ahem*

the only person i've ever seen leashed in public is myself. err... *glances at Etoile's post*


but seriously, are goths less entitled to BDSM and leashes than everyone else?
that, and there is a big difference between walking around leashed in public for the humour and doing a serious scene. people doing it for the fun of it arent trying to mock the serious ones!

What I find is that a lot of goths, if not most of them are actually into BDSM or later find out that BDSM thing is fine. That's how I met other BDSMers at raves and such.

And the correct term is goths - unless you are refering to the preppy goths who are a total farce to goths.
 
Etoile said:
I guess I don't like the implication that BDSM is temporary, or a game. I take it more seriously than that. Yes, I have fun, both in bed and in life, but leashes worn casually look cavalier to me.

For some people it is a game, but you need not feel that diminishes the special, serious way you use a leash. Should people not collar their dogs and cats, lest they cavalierly offend your sense of sanctity about the special, serious, BDSM-approved use of collars? A little perspective, please.
 
Queen Bee said:
For some people it is a game, but you need not feel that diminishes the special, serious way you use a leash. Should people not collar their dogs and cats, lest they cavalierly offend your sense of sanctity about the special, serious, BDSM-approved use of collars? A little perspective, please.
Uh, I think you are kind of off-base with the comparison to dogs and cats. You seem to be implying that I'm irrationally hypersensitive about this, which is hardly the case.
 
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