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YAY~I have writing due...Must get to work...

and wow, I think I may have found some words, which is always awesome.
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
*wide wicked boi/grrl smile*

Just wait til you start receiving getting to know you fondles...

they are even better than my kisses...

;)
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*stands upright, shoulders loose, quite relaxed*

And how long do I have to wait for your getting know you fondles?

*returning your kisses so that you learn a little bit more about me...or at least a litte bit more about my lips*

I stopped by your haven last night, just before you went to bed. I hope I did not wake you.
 
LTIT:

No matter how much my friends compliment me or guys tell me how great my body is, I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that other people are always going to be more attractive/thinner/more fit than me. I can't seem to love myself as much as I know that I should - and the matter of fact statements from people to "love yourself" or "there's nothing wron gwith you" etc. don't help at ALL.
:/
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
LTIT:

No matter how much my friends compliment me or guys tell me how great my body is, I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that other people are always going to be more attractive/thinner/more fit than me. I can't seem to love myself as much as I know that I should - and the matter of fact statements from people to "love yourself" or "there's nothing wron gwith you" etc. don't help at ALL.
:/
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*understands completely*
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
LTIT:

No matter how much my friends compliment me or guys tell me how great my body is, I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that other people are always going to be more attractive/thinner/more fit than me. I can't seem to love myself as much as I know that I should - and the matter of fact statements from people to "love yourself" or "there's nothing wron gwith you" etc. don't help at ALL.
:/
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The moral of the story is: fuck other people. Come to terms with the fact that you are you and if you are attractive/thin/fit or whatever....then the other people don't matter. It's not about loving yourself. It's about accepting yourself. No one's perfect. There's something wrong with everyone. Imperfection is constant. It is beauty. I'm sorry you feel that way, and I apologize if I'm being too brazen. But I bet you're thinking about it too much, and it's the over-worry that causes the problem.

Just my two cents. Feel free to tell me to shove it.
 
fr33ks33k said:
The moral of the story is: fuck other people. Come to terms with the fact that you are you and if you are attractive/thin/fit or whatever....then the other people don't matter. It's not about loving yourself. It's about accepting yourself. No one's perfect. There's something wrong with everyone. Imperfection is constant. It is beauty. I'm sorry you feel that way, and I apologize if I'm being too brazen. But I bet you're thinking about it too much, and it's the over-worry that causes the problem.

Just my two cents. Feel free to tell me to shove it.
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I am over-thinking it. I've been diagnosed with several semi-bullshit disorders and this and that and sure, it improves the more I exericse, the healthier I eat - but accepting myself is the same thing - it doesn't come as easy as you would think it does. It's not about other people - it's about me.

I will always walk by a thin, perfect looking girl and feel intimidated, no matter how great I feel about myself that day. I'd love for this not to be the case.

The only guy I've ever been with who made me feel completely accepted for who I was - he was wonderful - but he still didn't fix my issues, telling me that being accepted by others doesn't matter that much to me either - all my friends who think I'm thin or beautiful boost my ego, but not my genuine feelings.
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
LTIT:

No matter how much my friends compliment me or guys tell me how great my body is, I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that other people are always going to be more attractive/thinner/more fit than me. I can't seem to love myself as much as I know that I should - and the matter of fact statements from people to "love yourself" or "there's nothing wron gwith you" etc. don't help at ALL.
:/
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Truth.


Came to terms with that a while back. I realised. I dont have to look at me everyday. so fuck it.

And the other thing was. EVERYONE Is more and less beautiful (smart, funny, charming, silly, quirky -anything-) than someone else. In every crowd of people there will be people prettier and uglier than I am. If people would rather love me or hate me over my face or my imperfect tits or my stretch marks or my toes I think are too long or my hands I swear that look like man hands... well then they can. fuck um. I love people for who they are inside and that is what I look for in other people when It comes to me. I dont have the greatest self esteem but the people that love me, love me for me. But this is my attitude and it has nothing to do with what I look like. I was 200lbs for a good while, ive also been 115. been blond, been a red head. had short hair and long hair. I'm not every ones -cup-oh-tea- That would just be wierd. Then I might be my own cup oh tea... I'm kinda glad i dont find myself attractive like that, I might never leave the house.

Um, what was I saying. Oh yea. Fuck all the love yourself shit. Find people that like you for who you are and flush the rest.
 
Nina327 said:
Truth.


Came to terms with that a while back. I realised. I dont have to look at me everyday. so fuck it.

And the other thing was. EVERYONE Is more and less beautiful (smart, funny, charming, silly, quirky -anything-) than someone else. In every crowd of people there will be people prettier and uglier than I am. If people would rather love me or hate me over my face or my imperfect tits or my stretch marks or my toes I think are too long or my hands I swear that look like man hands... well then they can. fuck um. I love people for who they are inside and that is what I look for in other people when It comes to me. I dont have the greatest self esteem but the people that love me, love me for me. But this is my attitude and it has nothing to do with what I look like. I was 200lbs for a good while, ive also been 115. been blond, been a red head. had short hair and long hair. I'm not every ones -cup-oh-tea- That would just be wierd. Then I might be my own cup oh tea... I'm kinda glad i dont find myself attractive like that, I might never leave the house.

Um, what was I saying. Oh yea. Fuck all the love yourself shit. Find people that like you for who you are and flush the rest.
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This made me tear up a little. You are beautiful inside and out, thank you.

Edit: Part of my issues stem from, as SB has said, the "campfire" rule being broken, i.e. a certain ex did some really really horrible under-the-radar things to me, on top of me already having some deep-seated issues, and despite me KNOWING fully that he was a total asshole and I shouldn't care about anything he said or did, they still affect me deeply.
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
LTIT:

No matter how much my friends compliment me or guys tell me how great my body is, I can't seem to come to terms with the fact that other people are always going to be more attractive/thinner/more fit than me. I can't seem to love myself as much as I know that I should - and the matter of fact statements from people to "love yourself" or "there's nothing wron gwith you" etc. don't help at ALL.
:/
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It is cruel that society puts such emphasis on a trait that always changes, always fades with time. Better to learn to see the spirit of people, that only ever grows more beautiful as time goes on.
 
Annisthyrienne said:
It is cruel that society puts such emphasis on a trait that always changes, always fades with time. Better to learn to see the spirit of people, that only ever grows more beautiful as time goes on.
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That's what I always say. Sure, a hot guy is a hot guy. If I meet a great guy and he happens to be hot, woohoo.

But I've never gone for guys because of their looks. Everyone's gonna be wrinkly and old in the end - rather be with someone great than someone who WAS gorgeous or "perfect" or whaaaatever...

Merh.
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
I am over-thinking it. I've been diagnosed with several semi-bullshit disorders and this and that and sure, it improves the more I exericse, the healthier I eat - but accepting myself is the same thing - it doesn't come as easy as you would think it does. It's not about other people - it's about me.

I will always walk by a thin, perfect looking girl and feel intimidated, no matter how great I feel about myself that day. I'd love for this not to be the case.

The only guy I've ever been with who made me feel completely accepted for who I was - he was wonderful - but he still didn't fix my issues, telling me that being accepted by others doesn't matter that much to me either - all my friends who think I'm thin or beautiful boost my ego, but not my genuine feelings.
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Oh, I never said it'd be easy. I hope that the girl inside can be ok with the girl in the mirror, someday.
 
ilikeitlikethat18 said:
I am over-thinking it. I've been diagnosed with several semi-bullshit disorders and this and that and sure, it improves the more I exericse, the healthier I eat - but accepting myself is the same thing - it doesn't come as easy as you would think it does. It's not about other people - it's about me.

I will always walk by a thin, perfect looking girl and feel intimidated, no matter how great I feel about myself that day. I'd love for this not to be the case.

The only guy I've ever been with who made me feel completely accepted for who I was - he was wonderful - but he still didn't fix my issues, telling me that being accepted by others doesn't matter that much to me either - all my friends who think I'm thin or beautiful boost my ego, but not my genuine feelings.
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Me too, 16 or so of them. i'm chronicaly ill, semi disabled (sometimes a lot disabled). I have to be picky about what I eat, do, dont do... all of it. I could argue all day that I'm not pretty. The fact is. I dont have to look at me. and people dont have to see how ugly, ill and heartsick the inside of me is over not being what normal people can be. On the days that I feel like I suck, I do something else. Over time ive acccepted a lot more about me... but its taken time.
 
Hugs a kitty and a pretty girl

Here is the truth as far as i can tell~

I am a chunky, curvy mixed breed girl.

I am busty, hippy, short haired and boi-ish.

I look good nude.

I look better clothed.

No one is ever going to think that they look good enough, not with in themselves. We all look at ourselves and see flaws. ALL of us. Where some of us differ is that some of don't give a fuck about the flaws because we have learned that the flaws are what makes us~memorable, fuckable. WANTED.

I am short and curvy...but I fuck women like I have the biggest penis this side of the Andes.

I fuck men like I am the best whore they have ever gotten for no money.

I dance well.

I sing like an angel when I want to...and I am damned good at cheering other people up.

IOW~all the things that I hate about me body wise don't matter...because They aren't what other people remember about me.

I doubt that your body and the flaws YOU see are all anyone remembers about you.

*steps off soap box and slaps a couple of pretty women's booties*
 
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