The Ladies turn

[rgraham666]

Question for the Ladies.

Filthiness? Do you like your men to be as filthy, or filthier than you? Do you like them to have a dirty mind full of fantasies?

Or would you be intimidated if your b/f had a more sexual mind and a bigger libido than you?

I'm just wondering how different the answers would be from TheEarl's thread.

 

[Goldie Munro]

LOL RG!

I want my partners to be as filthy as me - as the mood takes me really!

 

[minsue]

I just want someone comfortable with what they want and comfortable with what I want and, with a little luck, the two go well together. Makes no nevermind to me who gets to wear the dirty mind crown.

 

[Guest]

 

[sophia jane]

I don't care about his previous experiences. If we "click" and get along, I will be happy whether he is a virgin or a total perv. Makes no difference to me.

SJ

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I used to hope guys I dated were at least as filthy-minded as me. My SO and I have been together almost seven years and he used to tsk tsk me for being such a freak. Just lately he's started to admit that he may be as perverted as I am or perhaps even more. I'm having so much fun.

 

[logophile]

I don't know.
I'm up for pretty much everything.
Except that I had coffee with a guy once who seemed interested in dating me. But he couldn't say masturbation. He said, "The M word." The LogoPhile might need a little more than that!
But not alot really.

 

[sophia jane]

I don't know.
I'm up for pretty much everything.
Except that I had coffee with a guy once who seemed interested in dating me. But he couldn't say masturbation. He said, "The M word." The LogoPhile might need a little more than that!
But not alot really.

Okay yeah. That might be a deal breaker, cuz that would just make me laugh. Ability to communicate like an adult about sex is a must.

SJ

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I don't know.
I'm up for pretty much everything.
Except that I had coffee with a guy once who seemed interested in dating me. But he couldn't say masturbation. He said, "The M word." The LogoPhile might need a little more than that!
But not alot really.

"Logo, I want you to touch my pee pee."

LMAO!

 

[sophia jane]

"Logo, I want you to touch my pee pee."

LMAO!

PMSL.

SJ

 

[logophile]

"Logo, I want you to touch my pee pee."

LMAO!

Laughing so hard I can't quite type.
Love you Scarlett.

I'm not saying he has to be down and dirty, of course.
But a person needs to be able to say words like masturbation and sex.
It's not a lot to ask for.

 

[sophia jane]

Laughing so hard I can't quite type.
Love you Scarlett.

I'm not saying he has to be down and dirty, of course.
But a person needs to be able to say words like masturbation and sex.
It's not a lot to ask for.

It might help if he doesn't freak out if I say "fuck me." But that's something we can always practice.

SJ

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Laughing so hard I can't quite type.
Love you Scarlett.

I'm not saying he has to be down and dirty, of course.
But a person needs to be able to say words like masturbation and sex.
It's not a lot to ask for.

you too!
I totally agree.
also annoying is when a man refers to his dick with a proper name.
example: "Wilbur wants some love tonight."
I'd be so far out the door...

 

[carsonshepherd]

Anyone wanna give little Scotty a kiss?????

 

[herecomestherain]

I've been married to the same lovely "filthy" man for 16 years and we're still finding pockets of filthiness to explore -- I think we're possibly on the same kind of fiilthiness scale but occasionally we surprise each other with a little extra depravity. All rather nice really...

 

[LadyJeanne]

Would I like it? Absolutely. Amdst the beauty of sex there is the dirty-filthiness of it that makes it indescribably compelling to all of us. It's natural and honest, and yes, I expect to find it in a man. I find it endearing in a man I love that he can't get enough of me. It's fun, it's playful, and it's exceptionally erotic to lead and be led into tempation.

 

[rgraham666]

Thanks ladies. It seems you're better people than we men usually are.

But I'm writing a note to revive this thread in a year. We'll see if there are any changes then, what with new experiences and perspectives.

 

[AppleBiter]

I'm a late-comer, as usual. But, my vote is: Filthy, filthy, filthy!!! The dirtier his mind is, the better!!

 

[sophia jane]

I need to amend my original answer. His experiences and his level of naughtiness still wouldn't make much difference to me, but for me to have a happy long term relationship, he would need to be able to Dom me. If he can do that, the rest is just icing on the cake.

SJ

 

[impressive]

Again, I just want a lover who won't flinch when I make a suggestion.

"Filthy" is arbitrary. I want COMPATIBLE.

 

[mlady_france]

You know I really should start thinking about this. I have very little dating experience and I will soon find myself back in the mix. Because I'm so shy, I appear a lot more subdued when I first meet some one. But when I get to know them, and all guards are down, I tend to be pretty forward. And because I haven't explored my own fantasies myself, I'm not sure how comfortable I will be sharing them with a new partner. Yet one more thing I should consider.

 

[sophia jane]

Again, I just want a lover who won't flinch when I make a suggestion.

"Filthy" is arbitrary. I want COMPATIBLE.

Yes, that's exactly it.

SJ

 

[Kassiana]

As I said before, I'm glad the man I married has wider sexual horizons than mine, because I was so inexperienced I doubt I'd have discovered anything other than missionary-position without his love and encouragement.

Of course, he also surprised me when we were engaged. I told him I wasn't going to take his last name. He said, "Okay," and went back to watching TV. The only other man I'd ever told that ranted at me, so I assumed my husband-to-be was mad at me. (He wasn't. He meant it was really okay.)

 

[sincerely_helene]

I prefer mine medium filthy. Any filthier and I miss my favorite TV shows.

 

[logophile]

I prefer mine medium filthy. Any filthier and I miss my favorite TV shows.

PMSL