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I think I want to climb Mt. Fuji this summer. I am an armchair Everest fan, and I will never in my life make it to the Himalayas, but Mt. Fuji is an iconic mountain that's easily within my capabilities, if I can borrow hiking boots somewhere.

Hey rida, ever climbed Fuji-san? Want to go? :)
I didn't climb it, but i was at the base of it.

Actually, i was getting my picture took in a field somewhere, on a slightly misty morning. Someone said; "Oh, look at Fuji-Sama!" and i turned around-- the white snow on the mountain top was shining in the sun and the darker lower slopes were still invisible, so i was looking at a pair of gigantic white wings hovering in midair. They were so soft and delicate looking, and so surprising that I lost my footing and sat right down in the damp earth!
 
I didn't climb it, but i was at the base of it.

Actually, i was getting my picture took in a field somewhere, on a slightly misty morning. Someone said; "Oh, look at Fuji-Sama!" and i turned around-- the white snow on the mountain top was shining in the sun and the darker lower slopes were still invisible, so i was looking at a pair of gigantic white wings hovering in midair. They were so soft and delicate looking, and so surprising that I lost my footing and sat right down in the damp earth!

That is impossibly cool. I haven't seen it up close yet - missed it on train trips across the country - and the only tiny glimpse I've had was from an observation deck in Yokohama. It's so iconic though, I know I will at least go to the base. But I just might climb it...kids, old people, and everyone in between climb it every summer. It's probably the only mountain I will ever climb, and so iconic and (as you say) beautiful...we shall see if I make it to the top!

Hopefully you didn't mess up the clothes by sitting in the dirt! :)
 
I think I want to climb Mt. Fuji this summer. I am an armchair Everest fan, and I will never in my life make it to the Himalayas, but Mt. Fuji is an iconic mountain that's easily within my capabilities, if I can borrow hiking boots somewhere.

Hey rida, ever climbed Fuji-san? Want to go? :)

You know, I've not done it yet and I think if I don't take this chance I might never get to do it! LOL

So, let me think about it! :)
 
You know, I've not done it yet and I think if I don't take this chance I might never get to do it! LOL

So, let me think about it! :)

If I don't take this chance, let me think about it.

More of the former, less of the latter.
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I need to embrace the age difference... Dwelling on it is just annoying me...

I have an ex who is ten years older than me and I really think he let the difference get to him. His own personal mind fuck affected what the relationship could have been.

Age is only a number....... Unless you give it more power than just that.
 
I need to embrace the age difference... Dwelling on it is just annoying me...
HM, my first wife was three years younger than I: in the range of the "normal" age gap. My second, a year older. Still (barely) within "normal." Number three was 26 years younger... 24/50 when we got together, 26/52 when we married, 29/55 when we divorced. None of the divorces had anything to do with the age difference. They all had to do with my inability to focus much on anyone's needs other than my own - my selfishness. My current partner is 32 years younger than I (cue up the Beatles, "When I'm 64" - she'll be 32 when I hit 64), and hopefully, I've learned, somewhat, from experience. I'm trying to do better at being a partner, less of being a *completely* self-centered prick.

Age difference doesn't mean crap if the two of you can focus on each giving to the other more than you receive. That, *I* think, is a main key to long-lasting relationships.
 
I've noticed that large age differences seem to be more common in Mdom D/s relationships than in Fdom or non-D/s relationships...we must all have a Daddy complex. :eek:
 
I've noticed that large age differences seem to be more common in Mdom D/s relationships than in Fdom or non-D/s relationships...we must all have a Daddy complex. :eek:

This is Fdom... My sub/girlfriend is 15 years younger than me... She was born when I was a freshman in high school...:rolleyes:
 
This is Fdom... My sub/girlfriend is 15 years younger than me... She was born when I was a freshman in high school...:rolleyes:

I was born when my lover was a freshman in college. I think I'm only a couple years older than his eldest child; my youngest child is only a few years older than his oldest grandchild. If I *think* about it, it feels a little weird, but I rarely think about it. He just is who he is, just like I am who I am. :)
 
There's nine years between me and K. I think it's funny, and enjoy tormenting him.

See....so does she!!! And it really annoys the fuck out of me. I know I need to just put an end to it once and for all, but I keep hoping I will get comfortable with it...
 
I guess I've never really understood other people's problems with age differences in relationships. Do you fall in love with the number, or the person? :)
 
See....so does she!!! And it really annoys the fuck out of me. I know I need to just put an end to it once and for all, but I keep hoping I will get comfortable with it...

Honestly, if you can't change it it's better to laugh about it. That she's kidding you about it tells you that it's no big deal to her. Start kidding her back. Call her 'kiddo' or the like.
 
Damn. I need to learn to read Dutch.

Christian Sex Toy Store Offers Smut-Free Dildo Shopping Online

This should give a new meaning to the term "passion play."

Marc Angenent, a Dutch priest turned sex therapist, has started an online store for Christians who want to shop for sex toys, but don't want to be inundated with pornographic images and crude language.

The website is called Liefdestuin -- "The Love Garden," and it caters to the long-ignored niche market of consumers interested in purchasing dildos, but offended by photos of people using dildos.

Angenent says he hopes the Love Garden will help nurture the idea that Christians can take pleasure in sex without feeling dirty or shameful.​
More at the article linked in the headline, and for those who read Dutch, or want to take the time to Google-translate it, the Liefdestuin website is linked in the above clip from the article.
 
I just use Chrome and told it to auto-translate Dutch. :)

Blowfish has been doing the same thing for YEEEEEARS though. I've been surfing their website for, gosh, at least 10 years - and they have only ever had pictures of just the products.
 
This is Fdom... My sub/girlfriend is 15 years younger than me... She was born when I was a freshman in high school...:rolleyes:
Along with the comments from others above, HM, think about this: My partner was born 15 1/2 years after I graduated from high school, when I was 8+ years into my first marriage. She often kiddingly calls me "old man," and I return the favor by calling her "child" and similar chuffs.
 
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