the ever-alluring threesome

[Mustang Sally]

Whenever I get around to discussing fantasies with a man, (not that this happens very often, mind you!) they always bring up the threesome idea. One friend said "It's gonna happen sometime in my life even if i have to PAY for it!" and went on to joke (I hope) about getting his girlfriend and her friend drunk one night and talking them into it.

So guys, what's up with that? Why is this such a common male fantasy? What about you women - do you fantasize about threesomes? If so, does it involve two women or two men?

How many of you with that fantasy have made it a reality? Was it as good as you imagined?

 

[R Nitelight]

Men fantasize about threesomes because twentysomes are impossible to arrange.

 

[Guest]

3somes are okay. I've been in both FFM & MMF ones before. I prefere an even # of people though. (Be it 2, 4, 6..)

~Tiggs~
http://www.freebackgrounds.com/kit12.gif

 

[insideShiraz]

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,Tiggs...

Trying to Catch my breath...

 

[Mr_Neb]

I suppose there are several reasons:

1. Ego. It would be an unbelieveable boost to a man's ego if he could sexual satisfy two women instead of the customary one (at a time).

2. Ego. It would be an unbelieveable boost the a man's ego to have two women with the single goal of providing him with such unequaled sexual pleasure.

3. Guilt. Or a way to eliminate it. How could it be bad if a guy has sex with another woman when his spouse or girl friend is right there too!

4. The look of a woman. Men LOVE the look of the female form. If one nekid woman looks good then two look twice as good. It is better all the more that the women are in the throws of sexual satisfaction.

5. Territorial. Given all the above, the second woman isn't seen as a threat as a second man would. It's the extra sex without the primal concept of a mating ritual with competition with other males getting in the way.

6. The bonus. Men love lipstick lesbians. Given the male concept of the threesome, both women would most likely be attractive to him. Seeing two beautiful women sexually please each other is frosting on the cake, non-metaphorically speaking.

How's that for dime store psychology.

Mr. Neb

 

[Samuari]

hell with the theroy

lets fuck

 

[Jester]

I don't know, but sometimes things are better as fantasies, it seems. Like most people, I've thought about it, but I don't know how much farther it would go. If you were with someone who you knew wouldn't be a forever thing, it'd probably be okay, cause neither of you is in for the duration. For me, when I really love someone, I've discovered that I don't want to share them. A serious gf and I once talked about it, and the more that I thought about it, the more that I realized that I didn't know if I could deal with either of us being with someone else or not, be they M or F. I just wanted her/us.

That probably puts me on some sort of aberration list, but honestly, that's how I feel.

 

[Mustang Sally]

Thanks for the input - this is good, keep it coming!

Mr. Neb, you have a couple of points there I hadn't thought of. The territorial one is interesting.
Jester, I absolutely agree with you. I certainly hope you're not an aberration! Maybe a minority, but not an aberration.

And just for you Sammy - ORGY!!!!!

 

[Roll-One]

I have been in a couple of threesome's, FF and me. actually they wore my ass out, to be perfectly honest with ya, but it was worth it...whewwwwwww

 

[Cheyenne]

How's that for dime store psychology.

I was waiting to see the answers to this thread because I've always wondered myself why this is such a common fantasy for men. Your theory has a lot of logic to it.

And my answer is that no, I don't think about FMM or FFM combinations with me involved. My fantasy life is centered on just two of us at a time.

 

[Fenris]

threesomes are good,but a foursome is better!!

 

[TN_Vixen]

not a man, but..

I've often thought about 3-somes. Haven't done it yet, but have discussed it with a couple of men I dated and haven't thrown out the possibility. I'm more open to the two men I think than the two women and one man... but who's to say? I think women are extremely beautiful and I appreciate the allure... however I think I'd rather have the option of two dicks. hehe

 

[Mr_Neb]

Just to qualify my answer a bit....

I plead guilty to having just about all of those issues regarding threesomes, some to a lesser and some to a greater degree. But in all honesty, I don't think I would every really want to actually participate in one. Oh sure. I love watching FFM or MMF threesomes in a porno (FFM preferred) but that is about the extent of it.

Neb

 

[Mustang Sally]

I agree with those who said sex is best one-on-one. I mean, I guess I understand why a threesome is a hot fantasy, but it's not one I would ever share or seriously consider acting out for ANY man. I don't think.

 

[Latina]

Can't speak for other women, but have occassionally fantasized about threesome with a man and another woman. Thought about it more when I was single, not so much now that I'm married again. But never a fantasy I cared to act on, or I would have by now.

-- Latina

 

[kathy stl]

This is a riot. But I think the first post by R Nightlights was so funny and SO said it all, am not sure the rest matters!

I have "lived" in a threesome arrangement for a while, not any more, and if everyone loves each other without any crap, it is fantastic. Way fantastic. But I don't think it can go on too long, no matter how well intended. We had no jealousies or evilness, and we all knew it was gonna end and how it would end. She brought the guy into it, and she took him out of it. I actually still live with them but not "in that way". She is the best friend I will ever have. Him second.

The sex was dynamite and the cuddling was even better. I slept in the middle causs she gets up to to pee six hundred times a night. Me only three hundred. But waking up on a dark and stormy night in between two people who love you is a pretty nice place to be.

 

[Stormystarr]

I've been in several threesoms, and tiggs is right, it's better when there are an equal number, that way you don't feel as though you're neglecting the other one.

 

[Samuari]

Because we had a secure relationship, we were able to invite others to our bed. We have always made a distinction between sex and love. There is no one with whom I can have the kind of emotional ties that I have with Madam S. For one thing they have been 30 years in the making. She KNOWS me as no one else can (thank God).
When we do manage to conect its almost telepathic, and I don't think that is possible in causal sex.

back to th topic... Yes we have had some wonderful expernces with others in our bed. The best was consoling a widow who had just lost her love. but thats another story.

 

[Dragonlady]

I sleep in a Threesome every night ... MY boyfriend and my bofriends dog (that has to sleep in between his legs) so its great but I don't want to know what she does when we have sex .http://smilecwm.tripod.com/asian4/ptrose.gif And on the dark rainy nites i love to cuddle with the big lunk head..


HAve fun cuddlin'http://smilecwm.tripod.com/asian4/pacting.gif
DL

 

[Mustang Sally]

And on the dark rainy nites i love to cuddle with the big lunk head..

Would that be your boyfriend or the dog?? lol

 

[rightbobsure]

well

 

[insideShiraz]

So Lot's Love Finally Let's Us In...

This is a riot. But I think the first post by R Nightlights was so funny and SO said it all, am not sure the rest matters!

I have "lived" in a threesome arrangement for a while, not any more, and if everyone loves each other without any crap, it is fantastic. Way fantastic. But I don't think it can go on too long, no matter how well intended. We had no jealousies or evilness, and we all knew it was gonna end and how it would end. She brought the guy into it, and she took him out of it. I actually still live with them but not "in that way". She is the best friend I will ever have. Him second.

The sex was dynamite and the cuddling was even better. I slept in the middle causs she gets up to to pee six hundred times a night. Me only three hundred. But waking up on a dark and stormy night in between two people who love you is a pretty nice place to be.

Sorry about the Salt thing...

Seriously, this sounds about Fleetwood Mac kinda' right...

I'd never go for the other Guy thing, and ffm iz my Fantasy, yet becuz it's a Fantasy, I don't share too well in this area...Besides, the women always
dump the Guy and go on Jenny Jones...

 

[rightbobsure]

Wives who let other guy's CUM inside them ..and end up PREGNANT !!

Playing HERO you woman will let some other guy dump it onup
inside you....is it the thrill of just well let's see or do you must play hero and let that guy have his fun..and usually it's a best friend of either you or your husbands..right..LET'S HERE FROM A FEW WOMAN ON THIS IF IT'S
THE THRILL OR WHAT GOES THRU YOUR MIND LADIES AS YOU DO SOME PRETTY WILD THINGS AT TIMES...YEAH THEY DO..!!

 

[kathy stl]

Well Sammy, and all, I didn't have thirty years experience. My gf and me were both 25 or so. He was a little older. No better/worse thing. The love that is there is not about how many/what way/whatever. Is just about the love.

 

[Samuari]

Well . No better/worse thing. The love that is there is not about how many/what way/whatever. Is just about the love.

Absublutly