Mamid
Literotica Guru
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- Nov 28, 2004
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Do you really want to be this guy's beck and call girl? Especially when he isn't being truthful with you?
Everything about BDSM is about Safe Sane and Consentual. How can your relationship be SSC if he isn't telling the truth and is playing games?
Drop him.
You would be much better off in a different relationship. One where the spouse knows and consents as well maybe? Or a long distance relationship? Or one without any bdsm at all in it?
Hell, go do the bar scene for a while. Go hang with some gfs. Go do something, anything to get out of the house.
But whatever you do, don't put that collar on you. He doesn't deserve that right anymore.
Everything about BDSM is about Safe Sane and Consentual. How can your relationship be SSC if he isn't telling the truth and is playing games?
Drop him.
You would be much better off in a different relationship. One where the spouse knows and consents as well maybe? Or a long distance relationship? Or one without any bdsm at all in it?
Hell, go do the bar scene for a while. Go hang with some gfs. Go do something, anything to get out of the house.
But whatever you do, don't put that collar on you. He doesn't deserve that right anymore.