the elusive g-spot...

[hannah]

my g-spot:

Only one man I've been with seemed to have any idea of what it was, where it was...and *daayum* did I know when he found it.

I think finger size must help, because I can't seem to do anything with my tiny fingers...his were larger and seemed to find it immediately. The effect was incredible, all these new sensations made instantly lose control and juice up completely, I'm sure many of you can relate...

But I'm not WITH him anymore (worse luck), and I can't find it myself! Where do I go? What do I do? How do I teach my partner?

*whimper*

Thanks, you're helping one very frustrated girl without the experience she craves ...

 

[MissTaken]

I found it long before I knew what it was.

However, a sex radio show really shook my husband's self esteem. The whole point to the discussion was that it was NOT the man who had control over the g spot. The woman learns how to contract and control her vaginal canal to the degree to which it responds. I would agree with that, based only on my experience.

My best advice, practice using pressure during intercourse.

Oh! And it doesn't do me a damn bit of good when masturbating.

Hope this helps.

 

[Guest]

Finding the G-spot.

Typically the length (or thickness) of one's fingers shouldn't matter. Take one or two fingers and curl it/them into the "come here" gesture. Insert. With your finger(s) curved like that, you should feel a spongy area that is directly "behind" your pubic bone. That is the female G-spot.

If you, or your lover, have trouble locating the G-spot, there are G-spot vibrators and dildos out there that are already curved. And, they can be a lot of fun!

Good luck.

 

[happyparadox]

Originally posted by hannah
my g-spot:

Only one man I've been with seemed to have any idea of what it was, where it was...and *daayum* did I know when he found it.

I think finger size must help, because I can't seem to do anything with my tiny fingers...his were larger and seemed to find it immediately. The effect was incredible, all these new sensations made instantly lose control and juice up completely, I'm sure many of you can relate...

But I'm not WITH him anymore (worse luck), and I can't find it myself! Where do I go? What do I do? How do I teach my partner?

*whimper*

Thanks, you're helping one very frustrated girl without the experience she craves ...

Hanna, the best way for a man to find your 'G' spot is under your tutelage. If an encounter is a one time thing don't bother. But if it is ongoing start teaching. Once you've had that first lovely night you can get an idea about how receptive he will be. Guide him with moans, words of pleasure, and gentle nudging during extended foreplay. See how he responds and how aware he is of you during this. Then you lure him into your bedroom one evening and say "Let's make tonight the great 'G' spot discovery night".

If he gets a confused look on his face or worse, a look of displeasure you probably aren't going to have success the first try. If he gets a bright look, go boldly forth. Talk to him telling him you've only had one brief 'G' spot experience and you are craving another and you want it to be with him. That you want to have such an orgsm that he will have to tether your ankles. Tell him how wet you got the time your magic button was touched so briefly that first time and how much you want to get that wet for him. Talking is good and always directed towards his good girl being dripping wet out of control naughty. We like that. Some guys may not but the odds are in your favor.

So he's fondling and rubbing your pubic mound and has found your aroused clitoris. Start teaching. Get him doing just what you want. Right pressure, tempo, hood squeezing, etc. If that goes well then it's time for the more difficult. Getting the tip of his finger on that ganglion of nerves inside your vagina at the base of your clitoris. Be patient but don't be afraid to be precise.

Once he finds it get the pressure just right and give him an orgasmic reward he won't soon forget. It won't be long after that and you will be getting the ultimate. Tongue on clit, fingers on the magic button. But don't blame me if you loose all control at that point.

 

[Mr.G]

FOR ALL KINDS OF GREAT IDEAS AS WELL AS

A sure fire "technique" (as you've already found the GSpot with one lover) for your new love finding and properly stimulating your GSpot. There are a variety of positions and scenes to try. Print some of those posts and give them to him to read and just tell him you think you had a G-gasm before and you want him to try doing this to/for you. When it works (surprise!!) he'll feel like the worlds best stud and you will have to peel yourself off the ceiling!

ENJOY !!

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=70892

 

[happyparadox]

By-the-way

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANNA hope you have a 'G' spot day.

 

[Jenny _S]

Re: By-the-way

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANNA hope you have a 'G' spot day.

I believe it is physically very difficult for women to find their own G-Spots because of it's location. I don't know about other women but I do have long fingers but my hand just doesn't quite bend enough in the "curled" position required to reach it for more than a few moments at a time.

(I do sell G-Spot Road Maps though )

 

[Wideopen]

The female 'G-Spot' is located just behind the clitoris -- right?

The prostate is located just behind the penis in the rectum. Guys only have one opening unfortunately. The more the merrier!

Might it be that we all just want someone who can hit all of your "spots"?

We all start out the same and genetic/hormonal changes take over.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

The female 'G-Spot' is located just behind the clitoris -- right?

No, it isn't. It's up inside the vaginal canal, usually 2/3rd of the way up.

It's almost impossible for a woman to find it on her own...but I think this has more to do with angles. However, when i used a dildo with a revolving head, that did the job.

During intercourse, I've found it most easily accessed in the doggy style position. The penis is in the perfect position to hit the gspot. It's more difficult to do in standard missionary, unless his dick is slightly curved, or the angle is modified.

 

[happyparadox]

Originally posted by deliciously_naughty
No, it isn't. It's up inside the vaginal canal, usually 2/3rd of the way up.

It's almost impossible for a woman to find it on her own...but I think this has more to do with angles. However, when i used a dildo with a revolving head, that did the job.

During intercourse, I've found it most easily accessed in the doggy style position. The penis is in the perfect position to hit the gspot. It's more difficult to do in standard missionary, unless his dick is slightly curved, or the angle is modified.

The sense that the clit is behind the clitoris is illusory but if it's described as such it will get someone close enough to find it don't you think?

Dildo with a revolving head....yike! Boy would I like to have a cock with a revolving head

 

[Stiffy Says...]

G Spot...

If your man is worth keeping, he will gladly help you - help him find your G-Spot. Any lover worth keeping will keep an open mind, and be willing to try new things to assist in making lovemaking an exercise in continual growth and learning, leading to better and better sex as time goes on.

Just be respectful and tender, patient and loving, and he should be eager to help. A little rewarding him for his successes is not a bad idea either, maybe offer to learn something to make his sex life more than it was (I don't want to say make it better, for it most likely was awesome to begin with)

Maybe share perusing this site with him? Might give him ideas and spice it up...

 

[Phil333]

Go to Mr. G's thread. I was able to give my ex about 15 orgasms in 15 minutes.

 

[WARMACHINE]

On my wife, I have to press very very hard to affect her G spot. I have to start off very easy at first but as she gets closer to climax I have two fingers in there and am pressing upwards so hard that I am sure it is hurting her, but it doesn't, usually she comes so hard that I am sure she is going to wake the neighbors.

I agree that it would be very very hard for a woman to reach her own G spot with her fingers, it would be like buttoning the sleeve of your shirt with the same hand your sleeve is on....