The Duke of Oral
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The Duke of Oral's first personal ad - Part 3
So often in life people forget what their original purpose in life was, and for that matter the kind of person they wanted to meet as well. The result can be quite catastrophic as things only deteriorate from the beginning. Things do start out well though don't they? Well they always do at that point or you wouldn't start seeing them in the first place.
I don't need a mom, or servant to wait on me hand and foot. I'm quite capable, and while I'm also confident of myself to be happily independent, I never stray from where the lines are drawn, and likewise would respect your freedoms, as well, trusting you're being as aware of our place in not just swinging, and sharing sex were concerned but in everyday life. My role isn't inquisitor, or to neglect my own needs in trying to keep up with all activities of someone else. However I would be a best friend, and someone who is there at those junctures in life where being a companion is more assistance than someone who challenges the methods constantly. I would not stop being your friend just because I'm not the foremost thought on your mind at times, or because you needed an outsiders opinion. I would look upon such thinking as being responsible, and making sure you may not have forgotten something, and only one opinion can leave so many things overlooked. I would only require that you did not lead interest to someone else, thinking that doing so reflected a lack of my consideration and compassion in your personal life for doing so, and would hope that they knew it was the extra friend that could make the difference in how you handled some things.
And just as equally important in open relationships where so many other factors can come into play, how you each other handle anger, and those disagreeing moments, is the key to how solid your foundation of the relationship is...if you're not careful at these points and you unbury what was thought forgiven, or how you address your mate when times are tense, you could shake some of the foundation loose, and it's a lot harder to rebuild a foundation once the house is on it..
So often in life people forget what their original purpose in life was, and for that matter the kind of person they wanted to meet as well. The result can be quite catastrophic as things only deteriorate from the beginning. Things do start out well though don't they? Well they always do at that point or you wouldn't start seeing them in the first place.
I don't need a mom, or servant to wait on me hand and foot. I'm quite capable, and while I'm also confident of myself to be happily independent, I never stray from where the lines are drawn, and likewise would respect your freedoms, as well, trusting you're being as aware of our place in not just swinging, and sharing sex were concerned but in everyday life. My role isn't inquisitor, or to neglect my own needs in trying to keep up with all activities of someone else. However I would be a best friend, and someone who is there at those junctures in life where being a companion is more assistance than someone who challenges the methods constantly. I would not stop being your friend just because I'm not the foremost thought on your mind at times, or because you needed an outsiders opinion. I would look upon such thinking as being responsible, and making sure you may not have forgotten something, and only one opinion can leave so many things overlooked. I would only require that you did not lead interest to someone else, thinking that doing so reflected a lack of my consideration and compassion in your personal life for doing so, and would hope that they knew it was the extra friend that could make the difference in how you handled some things.
And just as equally important in open relationships where so many other factors can come into play, how you each other handle anger, and those disagreeing moments, is the key to how solid your foundation of the relationship is...if you're not careful at these points and you unbury what was thought forgiven, or how you address your mate when times are tense, you could shake some of the foundation loose, and it's a lot harder to rebuild a foundation once the house is on it..