The Deal Breakers

[kissntell43]

The girls and I were discussing the merits of the males we saw today. One of them said something that struck a cord for me. She said she would never date a man with tattoos. That's her deal breaker. So tell your litster friends, what is your deal breaker? Must be something physical like a tattoo, piercing, facial hair, hair cut, love handles, too much body hair . . .

Mine is the 70's porn star mustache. Nope, just can't go there!

 

[Edensgarden]

The girls and I were discussing the merits of the males we saw today. One of them said something that struck a cord for me. She said she would never date a man with tattoos. That's her deal breaker. So tell your litster friends, what is your deal breaker? Must be something physical like a tattoo, piercing, facial hair, hair cut, love handles, too much body hair . . .

Mine is the 70's porn star mustache. Nope, just can't go there!

I can't honestly say that I have a physical deal breaker. Lord knows I wouldn't want to know what the deal breaker was about me.

A physical habit maybe, like a buger eater or something.

Can't see the forest for the trees......

 

[Asian_Flower]

It would be a man who was really overweight.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Long hair, piercings, facial hair, bad breath/hygiene, shyness, being a "momma's boy"

 

[GimpyIntellect]

Chicks with dicks.

Oh, and smokers.

 

[crazy4cock]

stretched out earlobes....yikes

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[Sensualdreamer]

Chicks with dicks.

Oh, and smokers.

Need to add smoker to my list of no-no's as well - ugh the odor is SO nasty, and the sad part is most smokers don't know how bad they smell

 

[fire_breeze]

"weak" hands. And bad hygiene.

But those flip-floppy fish hands... sorry.

My non-physical deal-breakers is much much longer, though.

 

[Bluespark]

These....
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[ydahecnot]

Racist or full of themselves are about my only theoretical dealbreakers. Can't think of anything physical that qualifies

 

[Midnight_Man]

Women with multiple tattoos

 

[Zelphyn]

Shaved heads, it's like okay I know it worked for Sinead O'Connor (just) but it simply does not work on anybody else.

Bad hair generally. I don't have the time for a woman who can't identify when their hair is a shocker.

 

[Midnight_Man]

Women with big feet

 

[kissntell43]

Here's a hypothetical; what if she is fighting cancer?

True, sometimes you don't have a choice when it comes to your hair . . .

 

[kissntell43]

Yeah I know because my sister had leukemia.

I take medication for an auto immune issue that made about 1/3 of my hair fall out. I had to cut off 15 inches of hair. It was a lot more traumatic than I ever would have thought. I hope your sister well or on the road to remission.

 

[JennyNo1]

Bad teeth, obesity, and smoking.

 

[DaddysSatine]

Bad kisses, inability to converse ... not liking my dogs

 

[Miles Long]

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[MAF84]

Bad teeth. If they can't clean their teeth properly who know what else they can clean correctly.

Plus having multiple kids by multiple partners (like 3+ kids from 3+ different partners)

 

[kissntell43]

She is doing very well and has been in remission for a while, thank you.

I am very glad to hear it. Too many don't make it.

 

[raiguy]

I honestly can't abide women who chain smoke. If you have it under control, and you aren't getting worse, I'm okay with that. But it's a deal breaker if you are going through a half a pack a day.

 

[EctoJohn]

I'd have to say there's a weight limit on extremes.
I don't mind a BBW, but at a certain point there's a "just too fat".
It's just gross and there's no excuse for it.
No amount of pretty face can make up for it.

A bigger and more common dealbreaker for me is facial piercings.
The stuff outside the basic pierced ears.
I don't want to see crap through your nose or lip, or the worst, tongue.
That's a pass.
Even those large gauge earrings are a pass.
Those things that look like dollhouse serving trays.
Just no.

Not so much a dealbreaker, but I'm not one for really short hair on women either.
If you gave me identcal twins with the only difference being short hair vs. long hair, I'd pick the long hair.

Tattoos... it really depends.
If her body is a "canvas" and you're hard pressed to find empty skin, she's not for me.
I could be fine with a couple smaller ones, but any girl that's covered is a turn off.

The dealbreaker for me personality wise (and, I know, not what the thread i about) is any girl that's skinny or pretty and complaining to me she's fat or ugly.
Digging for compliments like that is a turn off and a detestful trait.

EDIT: The post above me was a good one and reminded me.
Smoking and drugs are filthy.
I don't want to be smelling ash any time we're close, and drugs are just a terrible habit.

 

[jet_nebula]

Excessive vanity/insecurity.
No sense of humor.
Racism.
Alcoholism.
Vanilla lover.

Hair on her body where it shouldn't be.
Too much metal (Piercings)
Poor hygiene.
Red zone weight.

 

[Pixxi]

Homophobia

 

[Sexy_Me0508]

Homophobia

i second that...

an inability to hold a conversation...no common sense...

arrogance that is mistaken for confidence...