The cuckold lifestyle

[Brickdaley]

I interested in writing a story on the cuckold lifestyle and like to hear from cuckolds , hot wifes, bulls and want-to bes about their experiences or fantasies.

Particularly how you got started and why.

Thanks reply on the thread or PM

 

[tomtomtim]

cuckolding is such a huge turn on for me. i think what makes it particularly exciting and hot for me is the humiliation aspect. being powerless and having to serve the hotwife and bull, being enslaved in the new role as submissive husband.

looking forward to reading your story

 

[RipRespon]

I interested in writing a story on the cuckold lifestyle and like to hear from cuckolds , hot wifes, bulls and want-to bes about their experiences or fantasies.

Particularly how you got started and why.

Thanks reply on the thread or PM

This is a link to my stories, some explore why and how cuckolding started, https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=1548735&page=submissions

 

[Brickdaley]

Thank you

Hi
Thank for reply I will check it out !
Sound hot !
Best Brick

 

[PaxNurgle]

I believe there is an element of voyeurism to it. Like if you get turned on by watching porn, that is, two strangers having sex, then watching someone you PERSONALLY KNOW and are attracted to, having sex with someone you believe to be more physically well endowed than you is an even greater turn on. Sort of like watching a "real live" porno starring the girl you are crushing on (or are dating/married to.)

I've never actually experienced anything like this, and it may be different for others, but for me, I can understand how some men would find it arousing to see their partner getting fucked right in front of them by a hypothetical "male porn star."

For others, it may be a deep-seated insecurity about sex, and deep down believe that if they cannot be a good enough lover to satisfy their partner's needs. So then they are open to it only on the grounds that they want their partner's sexual needs to be met one way or another. Or maybe a combination of both.

Again, I've never been in a relationship like this so I can't speak from experience, only from a standpoint of understanding why some people have fantasies like this.

 

[liqueur]

There are SO many very active threads already running on cuckoldry and cheating. I encourage you to explore existing threads. There's a wealth of stuff here.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

I believe there is an element of voyeurism to it. Like if you get turned on by watching porn, that is, two strangers having sex, then watching someone you PERSONALLY KNOW and are attracted to, having sex with someone you believe to be more physically well endowed than you is an even greater turn on. Sort of like watching a "real live" porno starring the girl you are crushing on (or are dating/married to.)

I've never actually experienced anything like this, and it may be different for others, but for me, I can understand how some men would find it arousing to see their partner getting fucked right in front of them by a hypothetical "male porn star."

For others, it may be a deep-seated insecurity about sex, and deep down believe that if they cannot be a good enough lover to satisfy their partner's needs. So then they are open to it only on the grounds that they want their partner's sexual needs to be met one way or another. Or maybe a combination of both.

Again, I've never been in a relationship like this so I can't speak from experience, only from a standpoint of understanding why some people have fantasies like this.

Or for others, a medical condition (most likely ED) occurs. In our case, my husband suffered from it for many years. It got to him physically and even more so emotionally and mentally. Pillow talk for us was often centered on me taking a lover. It took a long time for me to agree. I was one of those truly "devoted" wives that loved her husband 'for better or worse, sickness and health' .

I was counseled that this might be the answer to his 'self worth' if done correctly. We chose to go the route where he is in bed with me. Holding me and feeling the effects of a lover on my body.

His take on our first date was very revealing to me. So was the attention that he paid to me for weeks afterward. It was like I had my old husband back. He put the night into words in his story. He captured it perfectly.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Well then, that is beautiful. See, I wish more people would be like you and your husband, and less narrow minded / judgemental of cuckoldry. (Or of other people's sex lives in general!) In your case it was a positive thing, for both of you as a couple, and for your mutual sex lives, and for re-kindling your romance. Sure it is not for everyone, but if the extramarital affair is consensual for both partners (the wife and the cuckold) then your story is proof that it can be a very positive thing.

I would be very open to it with my partner, mainly for the voyeuristic reasons I described above, especially if it made her happy. And with the mutual understanding that it would mean that we would continue to be together, love and respect each other, and be romantic toward each other while my partner and I engaged in these steamy cuck/bull sessions.

 

[LuciousLadyMary]

Well then, that is beautiful. See, I wish more people would be like you and your husband, and less narrow minded / judgemental of cuckoldry. (Or of other people's sex lives in general!) In your case it was a positive thing, for both of you as a couple, and for your mutual sex lives, and for re-kindling your romance. Sure it is not for everyone, but if the extramarital affair is consensual for both partners (the wife and the cuckold) then your story is proof that it can be a very positive thing.

I would be very open to it with my partner, mainly for the voyeuristic reasons I described above, especially if it made her happy. And with the mutual understanding that it would mean that we would continue to be together, love and respect each other, and be romantic toward each other while my partner and I engaged in these steamy cuck/bull sessions.

When speaking to potential lovers, the first thing we bring up is respect. Both for me and my husband. He is allowing this man to 'replace' him in my body and I won't stand for him to be disrespected. Once that is agreed to and understood the rest is easy. While he is a "cuck" in the truest definition of the word, he is a very long way from the popular connotation of the word. Also, we don't look upon the other male as a "bull". I guess in a nutshell I look at it as I own the pussy, it's my bed. Keep it happy and everyone is happy.

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

When speaking to potential lovers, the first thing we bring up is respect. Both for me and my husband. He is allowing this man to 'replace' him in my body and I won't stand for him to be disrespected. Once that is agreed to and understood the rest is easy. While he is a "cuck" in the truest definition of the word, he is a very long way from the popular connotation of the word. Also, we don't look upon the other male as a "bull". I guess in a nutshell I look at it as I own the pussy, it's my bed. Keep it happy and everyone is happy.

Well said! That's pretty much how we have been exploring it all, too.