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There is a difference between "yes, I will have sex with you if you wear a condom, no I won't if you don't have one"--and the man doing it to her without even thought she said "No glove, no love!"--and accusing a man of rape if the condom broke. Please, let's not confuse the one with the other.But I have to wonder when "rape" now means "oops, the condom broke", isn't that a different sort of personal trespass than forcible assault with intercourse?
Um, what has this to do with whether these women consented to sex with this man or not? They could have consented to being tied up, whipped and gang fucked--and yet if they still said "no thanks" the next night when he wanted plain vanilla sex that hardly makes it right for him to have forced himself on them and had sex with them against their wishes.Yet, women are attracted to "confidence" more than any other trait. The infamous Duke University coed's fuck report rated the men on their "aggressiveness". Women's erotica is rife with bodice-ripping cliches of upstanding men who are so consumed with passion that they become sexual animals under the spell of the heroines' beauty or something.
So...what's your point? Should the fact that you read porn about women fucking men up the ass negate your right to ever say, "No thanks" to a woman who wants to do that to you? And does it excuse a woman who rapes you because everything you read and the sort of women you like says you want it that way?
And this has....what to do with the rape charges against this guy?What recourse is there for men who have impregnated women who they thought were on the pill? Is not telling your sexual partner that you forgot to take your birth-control pill last Tuesday and Wednesday also "rape"? What of women who, having been told "no" plead and tease men to bed them until the men become erect, then take that reflex as "consent"? Is that somehow less traumatic than other date-rape scenarios?
Regarding the birth control scenario, for all you or I know, a man saying, "Yes, I will if you're on B.C., but no I won't if you're not--" and the woman lying might be an equal offense in Sweden to her saying, "Yes with a condom, no without" and him doing her without. Don't you think you should find out if men in Sweden can bring women to court on the same charge in that case before bitching that women have rights there that men do not?
Because if we're talking the U.S., then I don't know that women do have a case in the "condom yes, bare no" instance. So you can hardly compare the B.C. scenario that happens to Americans to this law in Sweden. Sweden might be equal opportunity in upholding this sort of scenario as a violation as the U.S. is equal opportunity in ignoring it as a violation.