hardtaskmaster
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I agree with Stella and ameliajax as regards the Beauty series. Terribly written, terribly repetitive, but quite arousing to some of us with strong BDSM inclinations. Hope you enjoy.
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By far my fav books have been The Kushiel Series by Jacqueline Carey.
One of the most extraordinary stories I've read recently is this one; Tell Me To Stop based on some guys from some band that I have no idea who it is actually-- M/m, slow burn and would read absolutely well if it were written as hetero, IMO.
And what about the Laurel Hamilton? Is that the Vampire Hunter series? It is well written?
Really? Can you figure out why?Y'know, sometimes I feel like the only person in fandom that Tell Me To Stop fell flat for, and I was in bandom.
Really? Can you figure out why?
I have to say, one reason I liked it was because I could envision Brendan being female-- it seemed all the way through, that the dynamics would model really well onto a het couple.
Needless to say, when I asked permission to remix it that way, I got an earshattering no response.![]()
. . . confident woman who enjoys bottoming. There simply isn't much of that out there in fictionland. There's way too much 'She' finding her rightful place under 'He' type shit. Too much Christian Grey, Arrogant Man Tames Tempestuous Woman. I want to see a model of two people who consider themselves equals by default, before the power exchange.
Oh I certainly think it would be of interest! You do, of course have to provide conflict and stuff.Interestingly, that is the larger work I write as I spin off short stories to hone my voice. I wanted to write a story with a confident, intelligent and secure female bottom and male dominant, both without childhold trauma, or other such tropes as excuses, but explore the emotional quandries of submission, masochism, dominance and sadism. After Fifty Shades I began to wonder if where I wanted to explore was not fictional or trivial or dismissive enough to be of interest.
Interestingly, that is the larger work I write as I spin off short stories to hone my voice. I wanted to write a story with a confident, intelligent and secure female bottom and male dominant, both without childhold trauma, or other such tropes as excuses, but explore the emotional quandries of submission, masochism, dominance and sadism. After Fifty Shades I began to wonder if where I wanted to explore was not fictional or trivial or dismissive enough to be of interest.
I would say that its a reality. I am a educated confident woman that happens to also be submissive. I have had no childhood trauma. Thats my thoughts. And I can't be the only one.
I want to see a model of two people who consider themselves equals by default, before the power exchange.
Spencer's need to dominate and own isn't out of male privilege, it's presented as something that is unique in his experience and that he has to process.
Yes, it would be the case with a lot of M.M stories, and because those stories are written by women, mostly, you have to think that there is a reason why women write them. And in my opinion-- and this is an educated opinion-- it's because the dynamic is not modeled in het fiction, which is dominated-- not to say Dommed-- by Romance tropes, and those were created back in the day when men were unquestionably the rulers of the world. Much of Romance has moved onawrds, but BDSM Romance seems like an excuse to backslide, for most writers. If they don't want to go back to those simpler days, they map the whole thing onto two men so as to avoid the fucking tropes.I agree that it would be nice to see M/F stories with similar dynamics, it just struck me as odd as something to single out here. Would that not be the case with a lot M/M stories? (I actually also would like M/M explorations of gender in terms of male submission vs. the culture of dominance as masculinity, but that's a lot more nuanced than I've seen most fiction let alone most fanfic get).
yeah, I understand the feelingI think I'd have been more forgiving of Tell Me To Stop if it hadn't been universally praised.
Yes, it would be the case with a lot of M.M stories, and because those stories are written by women, mostly, you have to think that there is a reason why women write them. And in my opinion-- and this is an educated opinion-- it's because the dynamic is not modeled in het fiction, which is dominated-- not to say Dommed-- by Romance tropes, and those were created back in the day when men were unquestionably the rulers of the world. Much of Romance has moved onawrds, but BDSM Romance seems like an excuse to backslide, for most writers. If they don't want to go back to those simpler days, they map the whole thing onto two men so as to avoid the fucking tropes.
It's not universal, indeed. But most of the time, women don't write many stories that focus on the fucking alone, they write context and relationship around the action-- even the kink-bingo short stories will usually include either specific or commonly assumed relational context. We don't only want to see two guys fuck.I think that's the case for some people, but it's hardly universal. I think a lot of them (and by them I mean specifically slash/yaoi--there's plenty of M/M in other traditions and styles, much of written by men) write it because they want to see two dudes fucking. I know that's my reason.
Well yeah, that's what I said?And frequently they're doing the opposite of escaping gender roles; seme/uke and weepy passive "feminine" bottoms abound. They write M/M stories and still map traditional gender roles on them; that stuff's not any less of a backslide than het would be.