The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[subdudeme13]

Thank you. I’m stable right now. But it’s motivated me to live life a bit harder than I might have before.

Wish I could spell!

 

[subdudeme13]

Most guys are just too "thirsty." I totally get this is sex site, but if you dig into the threads you'll see so many women who are actively looking to engage in conversation - most not even considering sexting, RP, etc... just looking to connect. Could it turn into something more? Possibly! But if you don't try, you'll never know.

Casual sex is fun for many people but it's obvious that the men to women ration is.... well, it's not good. Lol. If the goal is simply sex, well, just like in the real world, you're going to have a challenge on your hands. Lit is just a small sample of the real world after all.

It is the testosterone poisening that causes men to be men. Most men don't realize it. I had treatment for postate cancer and went thru therapy that eliminates testosterone. WOW! I could walk down the beach full of hot bodies and my head didn't turn once! I usually would have to conciously not look and of course women are doing what they can to get you to turn your head.
Carmina24, one of the founders of this room, could not continue on Lit and she did say goodby. Life happens!
All this is to say I agree with you but hormones are hormones.

 

[jacfox]

It is the testosterone poisening that causes men to be men. Most men don't realize it. I had treatment for postate cancer and went thru therapy that eliminates testosterone. WOW! I could walk down the beach full of hot bodies and my head didn't turn once! I usually would have to conciously not look and of course women are doing what they can to get you to turn your head.
Carmina24, one of the founders of this room, could not continue on Lit and she did say goodby. Life happens!
All this is to say I agree with you but hormones are hormones.

I know what you're saying but guys shouldn't use hormones as an excuse. Knowledge implies the potential to make choices. I've been led by the nose by my own testosterone too, it's true, but there's always the scope for at least making a special effort to deserve attention and not just expect it when your hormones are banging on that door.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

I know what you're saying but guys shouldn't use hormones as an excuse. Knowledge implies the potential to make choices. I've been led by the nose by my own testosterone too, it's true, but there's always the scope for at least making a special effort to deserve attention and not just expect it when your hormones are banging on that door.

How you treat others is always a choice. Sure, hormones can be powerful influencers.... just ask my husband when the Red Monster shows up every month....

Understanding yourself, your desires, passions, and weaknesses and knowing how to handle yourself in any given situation is what truly matter.

 

[subdudeme13]

How you treat others is always a choice. Sure, hormones can be powerful influencers.... just ask my husband when the Red Monster shows up every month....

Understanding yourself, your desires, passions, and weaknesses and knowing how to handle yourself in any given situation is what truly matter.

Testosterone in not an excuse but it is the driver and it surprised me how much! It was a light switch moment. I recall reading about using castration as a cure for pedophilia. A man was castrated and could live a normal life but for some reason a Dr. gave him testosterone shots and he ended up molesting children again.

I totally agree that we must treat others with respect. The Red Monster, I can't believe that is the first time I have heard that!

 

[subdudeme13]

I know what you're saying but guys shouldn't use hormones as an excuse. Knowledge implies the potential to make choices. I've been led by the nose by my own testosterone too, it's true, but there's always the scope for at least making a special effort to deserve attention and not just expect it when your hormones are banging on that door.

I totally agree. Forme the change was eye opening. I had no idea how much of a mental effect it had. Prostate cancer feeds on testosterone and that is the reason for the treament. It is basically just an injection and last for about 6 weeks. You also get hot flashes and night sweats just like women do when they go thru menopause. It was nice not to have my head on a swivel.
I have always been a gentleman.