The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[DeeDeeX2]

Crafting the Sensual Message

Writing a sensual message is an exercise in creating anticipation and using the power of suggestion. Unlike a spoken conversation, the written word demands a slower, more deliberate buildup, turning the message itself into a tangible form of desire. The core principle is to focus on evoking the senses without giving everything away.

Begin by setting a scene or recalling a shared, intimate memory. Use vivid adjectives—velvety, warm, electric—to describe touch, temperature, or atmosphere. The goal is to make the reader feel the sensation immediately. For instance, instead of saying "I want to kiss you," try "I can feel the warmth of your breath just before our lips meet."

Crucially, the message must be personal and focused entirely on the recipient. Use strong, immediate verbs and the pronoun "you" to make the recipient the absolute center of the fantasy. Maintain a seductive rhythm by employing short, evocative sentences interspersed with longer descriptions. End with a subtle, open-ended question or a statement that hints at a future encounter, leaving the reader with a sense of longing and a burning desire for your next message.

Aunt DeeDee

 

[LadyLickity]

I am in the USA in the deep south on the Mississippi Gulf Coast in a small town about 1 hour from New Orleans, LA If you are a single man aged 45-65 who would like to meet and date please check out my profile or go to the LitChatroom I would like to make friends 1st and then perhaps become lovers?

 

[jacfox]

I am in the USA in the deep south on the Mississippi Gulf Coast in a small town about 1 hour from New Orleans, LA If you are a single man aged 45-65 who would like to meet and date please check out my profile or go to the LitChatroom I would like to make friends 1st and then perhaps become lovers?

Welcome, LadyLickity! I hope you're not now overwhelmed after that very inviting offer...

 

[hugh_jarce69]

Crafting the Sensual Message

Writing a sensual message is an exercise in creating anticipation and using the power of suggestion. Unlike a spoken conversation, the written word demands a slower, more deliberate buildup, turning the message itself into a tangible form of desire. The core principle is to focus on evoking the senses without giving everything away.

Begin by setting a scene or recalling a shared, intimate memory. Use vivid adjectives—velvety, warm, electric—to describe touch, temperature, or atmosphere. The goal is to make the reader feel the sensation immediately. For instance, instead of saying "I want to kiss you," try "I can feel the warmth of your breath just before our lips meet."

Crucially, the message must be personal and focused entirely on the recipient. Use strong, immediate verbs and the pronoun "you" to make the recipient the absolute center of the fantasy. Maintain a seductive rhythm by employing short, evocative sentences interspersed with longer descriptions. End with a subtle, open-ended question or a statement that hints at a future encounter, leaving the reader with a sense of longing and a burning desire for your next message.

Aunt DeeDee

I reckon hearing you read that out would be one of the most sensual things my ears had ever experienced

 

[Shygentleman2]

Crafting the Sensual Message

Writing a sensual message is an exercise in creating anticipation and using the power of suggestion. Unlike a spoken conversation, the written word demands a slower, more deliberate buildup, turning the message itself into a tangible form of desire. The core principle is to focus on evoking the senses without giving everything away.

Begin by setting a scene or recalling a shared, intimate memory. Use vivid adjectives—velvety, warm, electric—to describe touch, temperature, or atmosphere. The goal is to make the reader feel the sensation immediately. For instance, instead of saying "I want to kiss you," try "I can feel the warmth of your breath just before our lips meet."

Crucially, the message must be personal and focused entirely on the recipient. Use strong, immediate verbs and the pronoun "you" to make the recipient the absolute center of the fantasy. Maintain a seductive rhythm by employing short, evocative sentences interspersed with longer descriptions. End with a subtle, open-ended question or a statement that hints at a future encounter, leaving the reader with a sense of longing and a burning desire for your next message.

Aunt DeeDee

Those magical words sent in messages can paint the most vivid picture in her mind. The complexities of the written word can create a feeling of euphoria in the reader when they're chosen correctly. To be open and honest allows both the author and reader to feel desired.

Without being physically present your words fill in what the reader would normally see in your eyes and physical reactions. Help her see those things in your words. In real life you wouldn't rush.

Men, remember that foreplay begins with the word "hi" and is woven throughout the entire conversation. And the dance of your conversations and messages could lead you to finding something beautiful.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Crafting the Sensual Message

Writing a sensual message is an exercise in creating anticipation and using the power of suggestion. Unlike a spoken conversation, the written word demands a slower, more deliberate buildup, turning the message itself into a tangible form of desire. The core principle is to focus on evoking the senses without giving everything away.

Begin by setting a scene or recalling a shared, intimate memory. Use vivid adjectives—velvety, warm, electric—to describe touch, temperature, or atmosphere. The goal is to make the reader feel the sensation immediately. For instance, instead of saying "I want to kiss you," try "I can feel the warmth of your breath just before our lips meet."

Crucially, the message must be personal and focused entirely on the recipient. Use strong, immediate verbs and the pronoun "you" to make the recipient the absolute center of the fantasy. Maintain a seductive rhythm by employing short, evocative sentences interspersed with longer descriptions. End with a subtle, open-ended question or a statement that hints at a future encounter, leaving the reader with a sense of longing and a burning desire for your next message.

Aunt DeeDee

This! Taking the time to really dig in and show that you can't stop thinking of the recipient with the right use of words is part of the excitement.

 

[Shygentleman2]

This! Taking the time to really dig in and show that you can't stop thinking of the recipient with the right use of words is part of the excitement.

When you receive a message like that...you get that burning desire to reciprocate. To let them know how it makes you feel. And soon you look for every chance to check your messages. Hoping you bring that same feeling to them.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Men, remember that foreplay begins with the word "hi"

Damn, I guess I participate in foreplay way more than I thought

Seriously though thanks for sharing your wise words and perspective.

 

[Shygentleman2]

Damn, I guess I participate in foreplay way more than I thought

Seriously though thanks for sharing your wise words and perspective.

I almost spit out my coffee when reading this sir!

It's the little things that you do and not just the big things. In real life...do the laundry, change the oil, watch her choice of movies, care for all the things. If she feels your love and care she knows it by not only your words but your actions. Her mind is her sexiest organ. Entice that.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I almost spit out my coffee when reading this sir!

It's the little things that you do and not just the big things. In real life...do the laundry, change the oil, watch her choice of movies, care for all the things. If she feels your love and care she knows it by not only your words but your actions. Her mind is her sexiest organ. Entice that.

Yes I have always been more of an action guy and not a wordsy guy.

But I am getting better

 

[Shygentleman2]

Yes I have always been more of an action guy and not a wordsy guy.

But I am getting better

Men and women are definitely wired differently. Thank God. And yet it makes it challenging sometimes to understand the opposite. My biggest shortcoming is that I'm a problem solver. If she is saying something I love to give advice on how to fix it. In reality she just wants me to listen. For empathy. I've shoved both feet in my mouth numerous times in my life just trying to fix it.

As I get older (and the grey hair is proving that). I'm working on listening.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

A sounding board is something they enjoy but I like thinking about solutions also. It's difficult

 

[Shygentleman2]

We are all a work in progress my friend. As long as we continue to learn from every experience we become better humans, better friends, and better lovers. I'm definitely not the same person I was at 20 years of age. I thought I knew everything. Three decades later I realize I have so much to learn.

 

[jacfox]

Men and women are definitely wired differently. Thank God. And yet it makes it challenging sometimes to understand the opposite. My biggest shortcoming is that I'm a problem solver. If she is saying something I love to give advice on how to fix it. In reality she just wants me to listen. For empathy. I've shoved both feet in my mouth numerous times in my life just trying to fix it.

As I get older (and the grey hair is proving that). I'm working on listening.

So right! Never stop learning, keep listening

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

We are all a work in progress my friend. As long as we continue to learn from every experience we become better humans, better friends, and better lovers. I'm definitely not the same person I was at 20 years of age. I thought I knew everything. Three decades later I realize I have so much to learn.

The drawback about this place is how slow the exchange might be. But instead of seeing it as a draw back, I choose to think of it as a tease of what is to come (pun intended).

Taking the time to get to know the other person is more than just saying "Hello." It's also about the follow up parts of the conversation. It's reading the cues and asking clarifying questions.

 

[jacfox]

This! Taking the time to really dig in and show that you can't stop thinking of the recipient with the right use of words is part of the excitement.

Great quotation! This is the place to explore minds. We play too, though. Why not have it all?