The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[Hornymwtxn]

Middle of December and 10 days till Christmas.

Everybody done with their gift shopping yet?

Happy and safe travels if you are going anywhere

 

[EasyBrad59]

Bingo! This is exactly how I have approached it from the beginning. We become friends first, get to know each other, and figure out where we fit in each other's life. Progress from there.

It HURTS when you've done that with someone for a long length of time and they can't be bothered to answer your texts - a simple - give me a bit, I need some time, things are in flux...whatever. It's easy enough to do. Especially when it's obvious that you're posting on here at the same time!!! WTF?

I have Stage IV cancer, I have days I feel like garbage, but I'd NEVER ghost someone I really like. Ever. It's too painful to be on the other end.

Just read this today and am sending you a hugs emoji! I hope today finds you well.

 

[EasyBrad59]

Joining this discussion late as well. It has been enlightening to read the everyone’s heartfelt views. This site has helped me to explore my sexual desires, wants, and needs as I near 60. I certainly feel, though, that it is even more important to be respectful of others. We all have different desires and seek different ways of connection here.

 

[jacfox]

Middle of December and 10 days till Christmas.

Everybody done with their gift shopping yet?

Happy and safe travels if you are going anywhere

Thanks for the good wishes Horny. Travelling north for Christmas and Portugal for New Year, all for family. Almost all prepared!

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Thanks for the good wishes Horny. Travelling north for Christmas and Portugal for New Year, all for family. Almost all prepared!

Oh that sounds like a lot of fun!

That takes a lot more planning than some realize and I hope it all goes smoothly for all in your family

 

[CoureurDesBois]

The Art of Getting Lit Laid:
The Gentleman's Guide (Disclaimer: cobbled together from the entirely fallible, slightly mischievous mind of Carmina).

1. The Real Game (presence) - above

2. The Secret Weapon (attention) - above

3. The Hidden Key (vulnerability) - above

4. The Dangerous Edge

Gentlemen, come closer.
Let me tell you about the edge that makes her ache.

It’s not about giving her everything at once.
It’s not about stripping the mystery bare.
It’s the art of holding back - just enough.

Restraint.
That’s where the fire builds.

When you linger on the word instead of rushing it.
When your hand stops just short of where she’s desperate for it.
When your silence lasts a second too long, and she leans in to fill it.

That edge is dangerous because it sharpens everything.
The tease becomes torture.
The anticipation becomes unbearable.
And when you finally give, it feels like surrender - hers and yours.

Gentlemen - here’s your lesson:
Don’t flood her with everything. Drip it.
Let her hunger rise until she’s begging to know what comes next.
Because in that ache, desire stops being casual and becomes unforgettable.

Ladies - you know this thrill.
The torment of being almost touched, almost kissed, almost undone.
It’s the moment that burns hotter than release itself.

So don’t be afraid of restraint.
Play with it. Wield it.
Make her tremble on that dangerous edge until she can’t stand the waiting.

That, gentlemen, is where anticipation turns into obsession.

The last part: https://forum.literotica.com/threads/the-art-of-getting-lit-laid.1639025/post-101407876

Very well written. But, another thing for the gentlemen to remember, cherish her when you have her.

You think you’ve seen her naked
because she took her clothes off?
Tell me about her dreams. Tell me
what breaks her heart. What is she
passionate about, and what makes
her cry? Tell me about her childhood.
Better yet, tell me one story about
her that you’re not in.

You’ve seen her skin, and you’ve
touched her body.
But… you still know
as much about her as a book you
once found, but never got
around to opening.

- unknown author

 

[Shygentleman2]

Very well written. But, another thing for the gentlemen to remember, cherish her when you have her.

You think you’ve seen her naked
because she took her clothes off?
Tell me about her dreams. Tell me
what breaks her heart. What is she
passionate about, and what makes
her cry? Tell me about her childhood.
Better yet, tell me one story about
her that you’re not in.

You’ve seen her skin, and you’ve
touched her body.
But… you still know
as much about her as a book you
once found, but never got
around to opening.

- unknown author

So true. If you truly want her you will never stop studying her to learn all the pieces that make her...her.