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TGIF!!! Long day but it's over :nana:
Circus Kitty?!? Sure hope someone named that cutie Summer or Salty ;)
Yep... she had one bad day. Air conditioning helped
Air conditioning helps so much in hot, humid weather.
I always carry one of these around in my bag. They've saved my 🥓 more than once.
Max Plus Cooling Towel by Mission
Stressed....
Hate that... I use deep breathing. I find it's always helpful but even when you can't step away or take a break? You can still breathe and imagine a mental oasis. 🧠 🧘‍♀️
I pretty much stick to this thread. I have no idea what's going on in the rest of Lit!
Same - mostly because I don't have time for more. :LOL:
I'd just like to see if he could survive my trainer! 😆😆
Ooh... hear that... Challenge Issued
Who will answer the call? 🤨 😏
Not after Chili Night it doesn't :oops: IYKYK
I hope you stick around, Quim. You can't compare yourself to others. Your experiences will always be different but they are yours.

Lit is a sex site but this thread is a FRIENDS thread. We're different here. There's no pressure to be anything other than what you are. 🤗💕
I started writing something similar.
But you explained it far more eloquently than I.
I agree, @Wonderer67 - beautifully stated
Dy-no-mite! 🧨💣💥
It's those half minutes that make ALL the difference! 🤣🤣🤣
True - it took me several half minutes to stop choking after I inhaled a mouthful of tea reading this :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
Been putting this off…not sure why
🫂 It's the flip-side of watching someone actively make choices that effect wanted change... and it's so hard to watch those we love having to endure these other types of changes.
What is that thing? Is it a bed for standing up and sleeping?
OK, did anyone else see something different with their first glace at this? :oops:
I saw a live-size body pillow... wait - what did you see? :unsure: 🤨
I think what I would like is to find someone to talk to about these things. But I'm mindful this forum might not be the place. As you say it's for friendliness and that's a good thing:)
You could start your own thread on one of the topics you want to discuss... but that puts it all out there on the web for anyone to see 🤷‍♀️
Then again, Lit has been around for so many years... with a bit of searching you might be able to find a thread or five already out there. :oops:
The wife is asking to go on the boat tomorrow, an activity she normally looks upon with disdain. Maybe she has decided to collect on my life insurance policy, lol. I kid...I kid...
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causing low grade chaos
New band name just dropped 🎸 🥁
I can promise you that She will NEVER be neglected or taken for granted!
Well... definitely not from this point forward...
I mean - witnesses at the café, dude 😏 :ROFLMAO:
These little things are starting to pop up in the pasture again...
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Internet says: The image shows a flower from the Sisyrinchium genus, commonly known as Blue-Eyed Grass. Despite its name, it is not a true grass but belongs to the iris family.

Well just pissed off for no reason is more like it
:unsure: Bonus Freebie or Total Rip-Off?
Irritating either way 🫂
...and just like ALL of you ladies and gentlemen here at the Spoon, they're BEAUTIFUL!!!
I give good hugs 🫂 too! (So I'm told)
Good hugs are 🧑‍🍳🤌
They’re cute. And I’m sure the bees love em!
But just the fat, happy bumblebees, right?
Riiiiight, @Wonderer6??? 🤨
Break out the maids uniform! 😂
It looks so nice. Thank you to whomever had it cleaned last. 🤭
I think that i would enjoy drinking while at work.
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Remember D-Day folks
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Still can't sleep....

I had a vacation and came back to the sane bullshit I had before I left.... worse at work.... I am at the end of my fucking rope

I wish people would just stop using me as an emotional crash test dummy...

As soon as my parents are no longer on this earth... I am selling my house, throwing away my phone, and moving away..... I am not kidding
 
Still can't sleep....

I had a vacation and came back to the sane bullshit I had before I left.... worse at work.... I am at the end of my fucking rope

I wish people would just stop using me as an emotional crash test dummy...

As soon as my parents are no longer on this earth... I am selling my house, throwing away my phone, and moving away..... I am not kidding
Im sorry.
 
You could start your own thread on one of the topics you want to discuss... but that puts it all out there on the web for anyone to see 🤷‍♀️
Then again, Lit has been around for so many years... with a bit of searching you might be able to find a thread or five already out there. :oops:
Good point, thanks.

I had considered starting a thread. In fact I did, then deleted it and let it sink without a trace. I'm not sure how much is sensible to share on here tbh.
 
Thank you.

I think what I would like is to find someone to talk to about these things. But I'm mindful this forum might not be the place. As you say it's for friendlinessand that's a good thing:)
You just need to find a like minded soul and from the U.K. will make life easier but it’s not essential. Be patient and you will.
 
Still can't sleep....

I had a vacation and came back to the sane bullshit I had before I left.... worse at work.... I am at the end of my fucking rope

I wish people would just stop using me as an emotional crash test dummy...

As soon as my parents are no longer on this earth... I am selling my house, throwing away my phone, and moving away..... I am not kidding
It’s so sad you feel like that but I know how you feel. It’s why I am in Scotland. Got fed up of the busy south, stress people traffic and development. Fell in love with this place; thought stuff it and went home and sold up! You will get your time it’s just perhaps not yet. So in the meantime transatlantic hugs @Missk_2022
 
You just need to find a like minded soul and from the U.K. will make life easier but it’s not essential. Be patient and you will.
That's exactly what I need. Whether here is the venue for that, who knows? I didnt expect it to be nor do i still.

I have chatted to a few from the UK, including the lovely lady I mentioned before, but she is too far to get to sadly (ain't life a stinker sometimes!)
I'm chatting to another right now, but while it's very flirty, she and I have really not much in common, plus she's actually going out and getting laid in the meantime. I'm not sure how I feel about that, ie it's her life and she should live it but it sort of leaves me feeling kinda left out. That sounds awful but its the truth. Dirty chat over PM's with someone actually out living their best life makes me feel a bit silly really.

So people on here are cool, but they and I are quite different ppl. Unfortunately in the real world I live in a very socially isolated and disconnected region. Covid, as with so many aspects and for so many ppl, has not helped.
 
I have been quiet as it’s been a sort of busy week. Had a colonoscopy screening which is not the best 24 hours of my life. All the usual concerns about it but fortunately all seems okay. Yesterday I took time out for me and went fishing to switch off. It’s another busy week ahead with my mums 90th birthday so a trip there Wednesday. In the meantime it’s jobs around the house and garden.
 
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