The 3 Essential food groups of Love

[Prince Romeo]

Posted this under another thread but given today's mood decided to make it, it's own thread.

You've heard of the 3 essential food groups well this is about the 3 essential food groups of love.

I call them:

Spirit
Mind
Body

For me, a true love would be a proper balance of these three essential groups - an ideal partner can provide a balance of all of these nutrients.

But, when I first meet someone. I think the balance tends to be out of whack. I might find that the attraction starts because of a physical need - Body. I'm getting so much of that one thing, that it clouds the needs of Mind and Spirit. A lasting relationship would have the proper balance.

This all sounds so good when I see it written down but why is it so hard to achieve in real life?

 

[DéjàNu]

All I can say is that it is never really balanced, sometime its the Body other time it Mind and so on, the trick is to be synchronised with your partner.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Synchronized as in being in the same state as they are in or balanced like yin and yang? It probably makes most sense that if they are operating on a physical level that you are as well, etc. But what happens when you are out of synch? Maybe really good relationships have a rythym to them that keep both partners dancing to the same beat.

 

[Vlad da Inhaler]

This all sounds so good when I see it written down but why is it so hard to achieve in real life?

maybe because you get distracted by a great big pair of swinging tits

 

[DarkAngel]

What the hell for..

All you need is the body.. I don't want to fuck her mind or her spirit.

 

[Freya]

Synchronized as in being in the same state as they are in or balanced like yin and yang? It probably makes most sense that if they are operating on a physical level that you are as well, etc. But what happens when you are out of synch? Maybe really good relationships have a rythym to them that keep both partners dancing to the same beat.

And a good relationship can accomodate both partners in different states.