That old anal question

Is analsex part of your BDSM play

  • I'm a Dom, yes

    Votes: 21 18.3%
  • I'm a Dom, no

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm a Domme, yes

    Votes: 4 3.5%
  • I'm a Domme, no

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm a male sub, no

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm a male sub, yes - but I don't like it

    Votes: 2 1.7%
  • I'm a male sub, yes love it

    Votes: 16 13.9%
  • I'm a female sub, no

    Votes: 4 3.5%
  • I'm a female sub, yes - but I don't like it

    Votes: 7 6.1%
  • I'm a female sub, yes love it

    Votes: 61 53.0%

  • Total voters
    115

Croctden

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A question on another thread got me thinking. How many of us include anal sex in our activities.

It's something that is present in my relationships. I won't bend over a sub sub on on the first date, especially if she's never done it before, but it is something I insist on sticking into our play. I enjoy it and beyond that I don't like the concept of a sub denying me a part of her. Sometimes I just want to ream an ass out.
 
I love being fucked in the ass... however, I will not allow him to lick me there. He insisted I try it once, and I was not able to overcome the revulsion I felt, so it has become a hard limit.
 
Originally posted by Croctden
... How many of us include anal sex in our activities ... Sometimes I just want to ream an ass out ...
Well, damn. Why wasn't that a choice in the poll?
Originally posted by Croctden
... I won't bend over a sub sub on on the first date, especially if she's never done it before ...
What about the second night of the first date. i'm not speaking of gentle, working with anal sex. See red above?
Originally posted by Croctden
... but it is something I insist on sticking into our play ...
Loved the pun ... http://www.1st-vets.org/forum/images/smiles/icon_twisted.gif
Originally posted by Croctden
... I enjoy it and beyond that I don't like the concept of a sub denying me a part of her.
Smiling and not blinking.
 
Sure do ............Bend her over and tie her to a spanking bench play with her do as you wish and do a little anal also........

We love it..........;)
 
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I enjoy anal sex, but it isn't always part of BDSM play, necessarily.

Sometimes, depending on the partner and the situation, it is just good clean fun!


Errrrr


And with the right preparations!

:eek:
 
Wizard said:
Sure do ............Bend her over and tie her to a spanking bench play with her do as you wish and do a little anal also........

We love it..........;)


Hi Wizzie!


Hmmmmm

care to demonstrate? ;)
 
MissTaken said:
Sometimes, depending on the partner and the situation, it is just good clean fun!

And with the right preparations!

Made me spit my dew out. :D

I have not done anal in any way, shape, or form. So nope, I dont include it.
 
Yes, love it, I and my wide collection of dicks.

Also sometimes enjoy it as a reciever.

There's nothing inherently submissive about liking one's ass stimulated, I just think of it as being adventurous.

I tend to get rather bossy once my skirt gets hitched up.
 
I don't think your poll will provide much information when you look at the "who are we" poll and find 66% of the people here are female submissives. 20% are male Doms, that leaves only about 14% to divide among Female subs, male subs, and switches. We're a little short on male subs and FemDommes. I have seen male subs pop in with a personal ad, which doesn't go over well with the welcoming committee and they usually don't come back.

Edited to add that I'm not the spokesman for male subs, male Doms, straight men, gay men, tall men, short men, white men, black men, grit eating men, or damn yankees. Just my opinion.


The anus isn't my favorite hole, but it's in the top 3.
 
Nice, WD.

Do it. Sometimes love it, sometimes really wish he would slip a little and end up elsewhere, but it really isn't my choice--and that, I DO love.
 
You needed one more choice.. I'm a female sub, yes we do it, no, I'm not sure I like it, but it pleases him and it's not a hard limit so we do it.
 
i am a fem sub and yes we do it and yes i love it......i would always make it a part of everything if i had the choice because, as Master calls me, i am an anal slut. Any kind of anal stimulation tends to turn me on and make me beg for more, but its not as much a part of everything as i would like and thats probably a good thing.
 
Love it now as much, if not more, than my first experience 29 years ago.:nana: Master also enjoys it (giving that is..LOL)immensely so it is part of our play in a variety of ways. :D

Catalina
 
i have a love/hate relationship with anal, at this moment it is love seeing how many of many recent toy purchases have been for anal fun. in a month or so it maybe hate you just never now
 
I love anal play and always incorporate it into my sex life, whether in a scene or out of it.


I also have an "all holes on demand" philosphy. It works quite well for me! ;)
 
I chose I love it, however, I can really take it or leave it. I don't dislike it, it just isn't very erotic for me. The thing I like about it is the pleasure that He gets.
 
alot more females said they love it, then I thought. I'm wowed. Keep on loving it :)
Personally I'm not a huge fan.
 
i love anal because it hurts soooo good. as long as i have been with Daddy, and as long as he has been anally training me with his fingers, various sized butt plugs, and of course his rather um "plump" cock, it still hurts nearly everytime we have anal sex. especially recently. more often than not i bleed afterwards, sometimes for several days. i just don't seem to be able to stay stretched. but this is fine, as Daddy has absolutely no problem with forcing his way inside of me. He will usually try to go the slow, easy gentle route at first, and then he will become frustrated because he won't be making any progress, and he'll quietly tell me, "Daddy's just going to have to rip you open"...and that is precisely what he will do, as i gasp and involuntarily leap 6 inches in the air. and then when i think the pain just cannot get any worse...he will cum, and then after resting he will slowly slide himself out of my bum....that is pain like i never imagined, like giving anal birth...*shuddering*...and then i'm shivering and in tears and my bum is on fire, at that moment i just want to rest and never have to experience that again....but at the same time i revel in the feeling of being so forcefully and brutally used, by a man who did what was necessary to satiate his own needs, despite whatever harm or pain it may have caused me. it makes me feel so feminine and sexy and just....natural. right. yes, i like anal. :)
 
I slow to get where I'm going

AngelicAssassin said:
What about the second night of the first date. i'm not speaking of gentle, working with anal sex. See red above?

Mainly because if she doesn't have experience and I hurt her enought it lingers I get annoyed. I like to have a "clean" sub to work with everyday. Are their times I'm rough...could be...but then it's by my design.
 
Jesus, ever hear of lube

ownedsubgal said:
i love anal because it hurts soooo good. as long as i have been with Daddy, and as long as he has been anally training me with his fingers, various sized butt plugs, and of course his rather um "plump" cock, it still hurts nearly everytime we have anal sex. especially recently. more often than not i bleed afterwards, sometimes for several days. i just don't seem to be able to stay stretched. but this is fine, as Daddy has absolutely no problem with forcing his way inside of me. He will usually try to go the slow, easy gentle route at first, and then he will become frustrated because he won't be making any progress, and he'll quietly tell me, "Daddy's just going to have to rip you open"...and that is precisely what he will do, as i gasp and involuntarily leap 6 inches in the air. and then when i think the pain just cannot get any worse...he will cum, and then after resting he will slowly slide himself out of my bum....that is pain like i never imagined, like giving anal birth...*shuddering*...and then i'm shivering and in tears and my bum is on fire, at that moment i just want to rest and never have to experience that again....but at the same time i revel in the feeling of being so forcefully and brutally used, by a man who did what was necessary to satiate his own needs, despite whatever harm or pain it may have caused me. it makes me feel so feminine and sexy and just....natural. right. yes, i like anal. :)

Interesting. For me it's mental as well as phyical. Usually a girl struggles with the taboo, but I calmly explain this is the way it's going to be. Some like it, others don't, but they all take it.
 
I love anal play. It has humiliation, pleasure and taboo values - why not like it? Having a big, grown man on the floor on all fours, watching his disturbed and a bit frightened expression as he spreads his butt cheecks to receive the plug he so hates and loves... Hearing him whimper with discomfort and pain as I fuck him in the ass with my strap-on, crying out of humiliation and confusion about whether to feel pleasure or pain... Just love it.
 
yaspis said:
crying out of humiliation and confusion about whether to feel pleasure or pain... Just love it.

Good call. Subs who do it for the first time are always hesitant. It hurts, then it feels good. They are embarrassed to be taking it in the ass, but "kinda like it." It's of a mental fuck in a way.
 
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