Thanks...

its a hard place some of us have been put in. not knowing what the deal is...not knowing how to say, even what to say. Dran, i count you as friend.
 
You're the best Dragon I know.

Thanks for your help at that barbeque where we forget to bring the charcoal.
 
vella_ms said:
its a hard place some of us have been put in. not knowing what the deal is...not knowing how to say, even what to say. Dran, i count you as friend.

Yes.

Best wishes, Dran.

:rose:
 
vella_ms said:
its a hard place some of us have been put in. not knowing what the deal is...not knowing how to say, even what to say. Dran, i count you as friend.
Exactly. :rose:
 
vella_ms said:
its a hard place some of us have been put in. not knowing what the deal is...not knowing how to say, even what to say. Dran, i count you as friend.

Yes, I agree with this completely. Also want to add that I don't want you to leave. I don't think you should. I understand why you feel the need and why you're angry, but please reconsider.
 
sophia jane said:
Yes, I agree with this completely. Also want to add that I don't want you to leave. I don't think you should. I understand why you feel the need and why you're angry, but please reconsider.
My feelings exactly....

Dran... Please stick around.... you're good for the place...
 
Love ya, Dran. :kiss: :heart:

I don't know what the hell is going on either. I don't want you to go, that's certain. I count you among my friends. Not sure what to say. I just don't want you to go. But it's not about what I want is it...

:eek:

:kiss: :kiss: Big hug, love.

~Minx
 
As per the ususal, I don't have a bleedin' clue whats going on, and I'm sorry you feel like this. I don't know you that well, but i do hope it gets resolved :rose:
 
Dran,

You need to be fair. To both yourself and the people here.

Many of us here, count you both as our friends.

When two people I consider friends have a fight, I don't take sides. I can like both A and B, even if A and B hate each other.

Similarly, if A nd B are an item, and they have a falling out, I don't take sides. I loved Des. I loved renza too. And even though their break up was particualarly horrific, I never ceased to love them both. Even though I haven't spoken to either in months, I still love them both.

When two people are together, and things don't work out, it's easy for the friend of A or the friend of B. But the freind of both is put in a particularly untenable position. Not interveneing, is practically the only way for such a friend of both not to choose sides.

When two of my friends are at war, I refuse to get involved, refuse to take a side. In general, refuse to even discuss the situation with either. Ditto when to of my freinds are an item. I maintain a steady neutrality. I consider you both my friends.

I'm sorry things worked out as they did for you here. But if you will give it due consideration, you'll see there was no course of action I, or any of us in the middle, could have taken, that wouldn't have been taking sides.

When your freinds are fighting, it sucks. When they are together and break up, it sucks even worse. The middle is no fun place to be. And the choices made from the middle are never as satisfactory as the ones made from one side or the other. Circumstance, however, sometimes places us in the middle and while we may hate it, we have to play the hand we are dealt.

:rose:
 
Don't know you. You seem cool, overall. Don't know the situation. I was certainly never nasty to you. I hope that no one was nasty to you and vice versa. And I hope that you don't leave. I almost left a couple of times, over petty shit, and I'm glad that I didn't. It would have been a mistake. Hope that you aren't making that mistake. Clearly, you do have plenty of friends who would miss you. Just a thought before taking a rash action. When I almost left, people urged me not to go, and I'm glad that I listened to them. :rose: I'm doing the same favor for you as they did for me.
 
I'm in the dark as well, but fire breathing dragons are always welcome here, as far as I'm concerned.

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Um... you're welcome?

So much here seems to pass me completely by. I wasn't aware of any controversy 'bout anything at the moment. It's not easy getting what's going on when everyone seems to be just assuming that we all do.

So I'll add my :confused: to the pile.
 
Liar said:
Um... you're welcome?

So much here seems to pass me completely by. I wasn't aware of any controversy 'bout anything at the moment. It's not easy getting what's going on when everyone seems to be just assuming that we all do.

So I'll add my :confused: to the pile.

My thoughts exactly.
 
Damn, Dran, I hate for the place to lose a fellow motorhead. There are so few.

Regardless, best regards.
 
Mm.
Pleasant thoughts are always nice.
Respect to others. It can be hard, can't it Len? :rolleyes:
 
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