Text hookups are so hit and miss

[BiAndShy]

So many are just two or three exchanged pms that fizzle.

But I have had some of the most intense orgasms of my life chatting with other guys (or exchanging stories written just for each other).

I wish I was better at judging who I was compatible with.

 

[BiAndShy]

And having sulked about it, I just met the most glorious, loving man.
Some hookups are amazing!

 

[BiAndShy]

Well short-lived. I think he's ghosting me.
Ah well - a fun few sexting sessions!

 

[cdstefi]

The problem is it's a very short-term dopamine hit, as easily disposed of as the Kleenex he probably ejaculated into.

Barely anybody is capable of sustaining a text-only relationship. It needs in-person chemistry.

 

[BiAndShy]

Youre probably right. I've been lucky in the past though (ive had a few that lasted a couple of years) and so I keep chasing that compatible, longterm penpal.

Going through a drought is probably the norm.