I’m new here and not really sure what I’m looking for 🫣

[BiAndShy]

I’m a straight presenting, married Australian man who has always been pansexual although I’ve never acted on anything other than heterosexual urges.

My wife and I haven’t had sex in ten years - the passion long since faded. And more and more, I feel like life is slipping by without ever really sharing or even knowing ‘the real me’. I’ve wondered if I’m gay, if I’m trans, if I’m bi….

I have no idea what kind of relationships/advice/hookups are possible here. I’ve been reading stories for years but only recently ventured over here. I’ve had a few sexting experiences and exchanged erotic stories. But more and more, I feel like I need something more.

Is this the right place?

 

[Greekguy1963]

I’m a straight presenting, married Australian man who has always been pansexual although I’ve never acted on anything other than heterosexual urges.

My wife and I haven’t had sex in ten years - the passion long since faded. And more and more, I feel like life is slipping by without ever really sharing or even knowing ‘the real me’. I’ve wondered if I’m gay, if I’m trans, if I’m bi….

I have no idea what kind of relationships/advice/hookups are possible here. I’ve been reading stories for years but only recently ventured over here. I’ve had a few sexting experiences and exchanged erotic stories. But more and more, I feel like I need something more.

Is this the right place?

As good as any

 

[Kiho001]

I’m a straight presenting, married Australian man who has always been pansexual although I’ve never acted on anything other than heterosexual urges.

My wife and I haven’t had sex in ten years - the passion long since faded. And more and more, I feel like life is slipping by without ever really sharing or even knowing ‘the real me’. I’ve wondered if I’m gay, if I’m trans, if I’m bi….

I have no idea what kind of relationships/advice/hookups are possible here. I’ve been reading stories for years but only recently ventured over here. I’ve had a few sexting experiences and exchanged erotic stories. But more and more, I feel like I need something more.

Is this the right place?

Happy to chat with you, if you'd like. PM me, if you're interested.

 

[write_or_wrong]

If it's any consolation, I think at least half of the men who read and write here are in almost the same situation you are. I know I was until a couple decades ago when I finally said 'enough'. It's tragic how so many couples degrade from lovers to roommates as they grow older. I'm not saying you need to be single to explore possibilities, but if you're not it will take a lot of open-minded support from your spouse or you'll have to do it on the down-low.

Which ever route you take, I wouldn't worry about labels. When I started exploring I just called myself opportunistic. Even after trying almost everything there is, I can't come up with anything more accurate than pansexual hedonist. I'll reveal myself to be an old guy by quoting a phrase from the 1960's "If it feels good, do it." And whatever 'it' is, it doesn't 'make' you anything (like gay, trans, bi, or any other label).

If you'd like to chat further, give me a shout.

 

[wideboybrown]

Right now!? I would like to be talking dirty and super pervy with a naughty SexMommy while we masturbated together. Phone or person or while on the phone while we watched each other masturbate in the dimly lit bedroom while some hot cummy suitably pervy porny cum and squirt and sperm play continues...

SW On Canada area west of the GTA...

Looking seriously, among other things, for someone to go to a sex club with.

Thoughts?

 

[SPARTAN047]

I’m a straight presenting, married Australian man who has always been pansexual although I’ve never acted on anything other than heterosexual urges.

My wife and I haven’t had sex in ten years - the passion long since faded. And more and more, I feel like life is slipping by without ever really sharing or even knowing ‘the real me’. I’ve wondered if I’m gay, if I’m trans, if I’m bi….

I have no idea what kind of relationships/advice/hookups are possible here. I’ve been reading stories for years but only recently ventured over here. I’ve had a few sexting experiences and exchanged erotic stories. But more and more, I feel like I need something more.

Is this the right place?

Very much. I've chatted to so many in your position I feel like a therapist. So if you want to bring your problems and your cock or pussy to my place, feel free.

Just kidding. Feel free to PM me for any kind of discussion.

It's possible you're just straight and horny, not trans, gay or bi.

 

[Tasman69]

I’m a straight presenting, married Australian man who has always been pansexual although I’ve never acted on anything other than heterosexual urges.

My wife and I haven’t had sex in ten years - the passion long since faded. And more and more, I feel like life is slipping by without ever really sharing or even knowing ‘the real me’. I’ve wondered if I’m gay, if I’m trans, if I’m bi….

I have no idea what kind of relationships/advice/hookups are possible here. I’ve been reading stories for years but only recently ventured over here. I’ve had a few sexting experiences and exchanged erotic stories. But more and more, I feel like I need something more.

Is this the right place?

Tasmanian mid 50s here.
Feel ya