Terminology.

[welshman]

Terminology.

Hi to all. I'm writing a story where the female character is staying at a hotel and is on-line with her Master. Without giving too much away about the story, she is obedient to his instruction. What I would like from you (because I am no expert in BDSM) is some correct terminology. Tell me some 'in' words and their correct usage so I can include them in the story to make it more realistic. Thank you.

 

[WriterDom]

http://www.erotic-bdsm.net/dictionary.html

http://uk-mistresses.com/dictionary.html

You can find lots of dictionaries for bdsm terms if you search.

I'd suggest you read a few stories. There are plenty on online bdsm.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

You might even want to check out OUR Library. There is a category for Terms.

Also, run a search on Google for the Deviant's Dictionary. It'll give you more terms than you ever wanted to know LOL.

Happy hunting.

~anelize, the local Librarian

 

[Etoile]

Just because a story has "in" words doesn't mean it's going to be a good BDSM story. Why are you writing it, if I may ask? I'm just curious.

 

[welshman]

Just because a story has "in" words doesn't mean it's going to be a good BDSM story. Why are you writing it, if I may ask? I'm just curious.

Just because a story has "in" words doesn't mean it's going to be a good BDSM story. Why are you writing it, if I may ask? I'm just curious.

True, but it should make it more believable. I've written a 'soft' BDSM story already (Their Special Evening) and although I'm an outsider as it were I find the subject fascinating and erotic. This story is written from the point of view of a voyeur observing a submissive having an erotic scene with her on-line Master who is neither seen or heard in the story, he exists only from the reaction of the submissive to his commands and words through her headset. So accurate terminology is necessary I think.

Why have I written it? because the thought of a woman being willingly commanded into erotic situations is certainly arousing to me. However if I am a character in the story I am the voyeur because I have not experienced this. I appreciate that to spank, apply nipple clamps, etc. because SHE is aroused by it is very erotic.

 

[MissTaken]

Sounds like an interesting story.

It may be difficult to give you the help you need "off the cuff" though.

Take a look around. If there is an activity you intend your character to participate in, do a search of teh forum and that may help.

Also, feel free to pm me or send me a draft. I would be happy to help as much as I can.

Oh, and there are plenty of curious posters and authors who write about the subject without any experience in BDSM. Maybe some of them would step forward with suggestions concerning how they became comfortable writing about this.

 

[welshman]

Just because a story has "in" words doesn't mean it's going to be a good BDSM story. Why are you writing it, if I may ask? I'm just curious.

I’ve taken the opportunity to read your profile… fetishes: language words listening….. the female character in Room ~158 (tho straight) is most aroused by her Master’s voice(HMV!) tho' she's straight. She becomes very aroused listening to her Master, um, 'hands-free' via her headset. Just like the voyeur in the story, the reader cannot hear him so must imagine what arouses her so. Perhaps you will enjoy my story if you share the character's predilection?

 

[welshman]

Sounds like an interesting story.

It may be difficult to give you the help you need "off the cuff" though.

Take a look around. If there is an activity you intend your character to participate in, do a search of teh forum and that may help.

Also, feel free to pm me or send me a draft. I would be happy to help as much as I can.

Oh, and there are plenty of curious posters and authors who write about the subject without any experience in BDSM. Maybe some of them would step forward with suggestions concerning how they became comfortable writing about this.

Thank you, I will send it to you when it's ready. I'd welcome any suggestions you'd make for better use of words. Don't hold your breath tho (unless you like that kind of thing ) I have to write it in bits and pieces, time allowing. Its got a 'hands free' in there, wonder who inspired that?