markchamberlain
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2001
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When I first discovered masturbation, I did it with the muscles "down there" all tense. Then later I discovered that if I made effort to leave them relaxed as long as possible, it was much more enjoyable. It feels so delicious when that first wave of involuntary contraction flashes over the entire relaxed area. I cum this way all the time now, during masturbation or sex.
I never thought about this much, but suddenly today have questions. Does anybody else notice this? Do you prefer to approach orgasm relaxed or tensed? Does it apply to women also? And what muscle(s) are involved? I briefly looked for info online, but it seems there are many muscles in that general area (I mean just behind the testicle, prostate-ish area). But I don't feel like I have individual control of many muscles. I cannot play the piano or do cardistry tricks with my balls. I feel like I can only control tense vs relaxed in that entire general area.
I never thought about this much, but suddenly today have questions. Does anybody else notice this? Do you prefer to approach orgasm relaxed or tensed? Does it apply to women also? And what muscle(s) are involved? I briefly looked for info online, but it seems there are many muscles in that general area (I mean just behind the testicle, prostate-ish area). But I don't feel like I have individual control of many muscles. I cannot play the piano or do cardistry tricks with my balls. I feel like I can only control tense vs relaxed in that entire general area.
