About 20 years ago I was in a relationship with a gorgeous blonde girlfriend who had been made to feel she wasn't sexy by her ex hubby. It was his way of trying to control her and keep her in place. We met through work, had a couple of drinks one night after work and pretty soon we were in the sack and having a fabulous time together. I got her to believe in herself and recognise just how gorgeous and sexy she was. We discovered she loved wearing sexy lingerie that showed off her wonderful figure and allowed her to express herself.
One enjoyable night at our place, with a good friend of mine who encouraged her to go put some of her sexiest lingerie stockings, miniskirt and high heeled boots on, he let on that he loved wearing sexy panties too. She got him dressed up in white lace stockings and panties and then had me wear a set of red fishnet stockings and panties. It became clear that I was incredibly turned on by the whole thing. Instead of being annoyed or upset, she loved it. Ever since then I've been very open with girlfriends about the fact that I love wearing girly things. If they are really dead against it then it's clear the relationship won't be going anywhere. By far the majority of girls are really into it.
Far more women are really turned on by guys dressing up in sexy lingerie and sucking cocks. You must make sure that you build their trust and ensure they don't feel threatened by it. Patience, honesty, and some care for her and how she feels, works every time for me so far.
The same is true of many guys too. By being a bit brave and opening the door for private, non judgemental, erotic chat with friends of mine, boyfriends of girls I know or even work colleagues, I've found dozens of "straight" guys who are already into or wishing to explore the opportunity of hot kinky sex especially wearing sexy lingerie, panties, lipstick etc.
One enjoyable night at our place, with a good friend of mine who encouraged her to go put some of her sexiest lingerie stockings, miniskirt and high heeled boots on, he let on that he loved wearing sexy panties too. She got him dressed up in white lace stockings and panties and then had me wear a set of red fishnet stockings and panties. It became clear that I was incredibly turned on by the whole thing. Instead of being annoyed or upset, she loved it. Ever since then I've been very open with girlfriends about the fact that I love wearing girly things. If they are really dead against it then it's clear the relationship won't be going anywhere. By far the majority of girls are really into it.
Far more women are really turned on by guys dressing up in sexy lingerie and sucking cocks. You must make sure that you build their trust and ensure they don't feel threatened by it. Patience, honesty, and some care for her and how she feels, works every time for me so far.
The same is true of many guys too. By being a bit brave and opening the door for private, non judgemental, erotic chat with friends of mine, boyfriends of girls I know or even work colleagues, I've found dozens of "straight" guys who are already into or wishing to explore the opportunity of hot kinky sex especially wearing sexy lingerie, panties, lipstick etc.
