Tell Them what you think about them, Good or Bad.

[OldDirtyAltGuy]

I think you could be a cool dude and well liked, maybe just pump the brakes a bit

https://ibb.co/zVjch7vH

 

[cheekygirl75]

Maybe let your actions and interactions speak for themselves instead of insisting on your decentness so hard. Makes me suspicious that you’re not that decent.

 

[angelofthenorth]

To the people who have been my champions and have gone out of their way to help me with my tech issues. You have been absolutely amazing, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I'm not sure if it's fixed, and I'm unsure if the problem will persist until I receive a replacement. But, on one crazy level, it doesn't matter because you were there. You didn't leave, you didn't stop me from venting. You came up with ideas and plans. And to my furry little friend who helped me with my (and it has to be said) smoking hot AV. I'd love to share some pizza with you. You know who y'all are. I love you so much, and thank you.

 

[F3x0r]

If your posts are making my skin crawl, imagine what it does to the people you post after constantly

 

[Xerxes82]

I find myself incredibly worried for you. I'm glad you're self aware, and seeing your therapist. But it breaks my heart to see you struggling the way you are. I just want to sweep you up in a big bear hug so you know you aren't alone. Lean on your friends in times like these, even when the urge is to ice them out.

We care about you!

 

[BeautifulShadows18]

Thank you for the lessons — genuinely. I believed the promises, the potential, the charm. I gave time, compassion, and chance after chance, hoping your words would eventually become consistency.

But the disappearing acts, excuses, and future-faking — paired with your constant “struggles” over your feelings for me and calling me your “gravity” — were just breadcrumbs dressed up as depth. And somewhere along the way, I realized the real loss was happening inside *me*.

Some people come into our lives to show us exactly what we will never again settle for. You were that for me. A karmic lesson. A catalyst.
A full-on dark night of the soul that forced me to wake up.

The last time you disappeared…
that was the moment I decided it was time to walk away — and choose myself again.

I’m better for it — clearer, stronger, and done repeating old cycles.
You taught me my worth by never being able to meet it.

I wish you the best.
Mercury retrograde is doing the rest.

 

[Girly_girl]

I feel your pain with a lot of the lessons you just posted

 

[Chillygirl]

sadly I think most of us learn that lesson here…people play too much and think hearts are disposable.

 

[MedicalMuse]

It’s sad that we tend to forget that just because it’s the internet, doesn’t mean there aren’t real feelings involved. People are still people, even through a screen.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

sadly I think most of us learn that lesson here…people play too much and think hearts are disposable.

This is part of the reason why I approach my dalliances (if you can call them that) here in what I call a "platonically sexual" manner. I'll flirt, and may even get sexual every once in a while, but I don't expect any serious emotional involvement on my end or from others. While I am single, a significant number of folks on here are attached in some manner, so I wouldn't allow anything deeper just based on that fact.

I know that some folks are looking for a deeper connection, and unfortunately, people are going to people, and bozos exist online just like in real life. Emotions can get super messy, especially when a person (or people) are saying/doing things that make you think you're on the same wavelength, then all of a sudden the rug is pulled from under you. It sucks that some are left scarred by their interactions on here. Sucks even more that folks won't be straight up about their intentions. But then, they likely wouldn't get what they want if they did.

 

[BeautifulShadows18]

This is part of the reason why I approach my dalliances (if you can call them that) here in what I call a "platonically sexual" manner. I'll flirt, and may even get sexual every once in a while, but I don't expect any serious emotional involvement on my end or from others. While I am single, a significant number of folks on here are attached in some manner, so I wouldn't allow anything deeper just based on that fact.

I know that some folks are looking for a deeper connection, and unfortunately, people are going to people, and bozos exist online just like in real life. Emotions can get super messy, especially when a person (or people) are saying/doing things that make you think you're on the same wavelength, then all of a sudden the rug is pulled from under you. It sucks that some are left scarred by their interactions on here. Sucks even more that folks won't be straight up about their intentions. But then, they likely wouldn't get what they want if they did.

Took me 18 months almost to figure that out. And we’ve had discussions about being on the same wavelength and what we wanted. Anyway, lesson learned and I won’t ever be making that same mistake again. But be careful girls he’s still out there lurking masquerading as someone is not

 

[Girly_girl]

kinda makes me wonder if any of us has stumbled upon him

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Took me 18 months almost to figure that out. And we’ve had discussions about being on the same wavelength and what we wanted. Anyway, lesson learned and I won’t ever be making that same mistake again. But be careful girls he’s still out there lurking masquerading as someone is not

It's funny, I think being a domme has really come in clutch in helping me identify behavioral patterns in some people. I'll notice something that will immediately trigger a "Danger, Will Robinson!" response in me, and I'll remove myself from the situation.

I suppose it also helped that I had a charming narcissist as a father (LOL), so I saw the signs (shout out to Ace of Base).

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

It's funny, I think being a domme has really come in clutch in helping me identify behavioral patterns in some people. I'll notice something that will immediately trigger a "Danger, Will Robinson!" response in me, and I'll remove myself from the situation.

I suppose it also helped that I had a charming narcissist as a father (LOL), so I saw the signs (shout out to Ace of Base).

I'm singing it now. Loved that album!

 

[BeautifulShadows18]

kinda makes me wonder if any of us has stumbled upon him

you probably have under one of his usernames. Or you will soon.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I'm singing it now. Loved that album!

It was a freaking banger; I think "Don't Turn Around" was my fave out of the singles they released.

 

[sister jenny]

Please stop trying bring me down everytime I’m doing well.
Stop shitting on me being a mom, I am doing my best.
Please, stop telling me what a bad writer I am. I know what you think, you tell me every single time.

Thank you for always supporting me. Always having a kind word. Always making me feel better.
Thank you for never leaving, even though I always disappear.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

It's funny, I think being a domme has really come in clutch in helping me identify behavioral patterns in some people.

I predict increased pm for you

 

[cocokittysurprise]

I predict increased pm for you

Nah, it's not a secret, and my profile specifically states that I'm not looking for online subs.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Nah, it's not a secret, and my profile specifically states that I'm not looking for online subs.

You always been a domme? Or is it something recent?

 

[Chillygirl]

you probably have under one of his usernames. Or you will soon.

I’ve joked about starting a spreadsheet but it would be ultimate chaos and hurt more than help. But it could be fun lol.

 

[LatinaCarmen1980]

Your words were soothing when I needed them the most. You weren't around often, but when you were, it was at the perfect time. I still visit you and leave flowers. I hope you get to see and enjoy them.

 

[Cat]

I’ve joked about starting a spreadsheet but it would be ultimate chaos and hurt more than help. But it could be fun lol.

Spreadsheet or "I am not going to touch any Lit guy with as much as a crowbar" keeping myself and my fragile heart safe.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

You always been a domme? Or is it something recent?

I've been a domme for about 20 years LOL

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

It was a freaking banger; I think "Don't Turn Around" was my fave out of the singles they released.

I randomly start singing "All that she wants is another baby" often. My niece was forced to listen to the CD so many times she knows them by heart too.