Hi, all! Last night, I gave my husband a blow job for the first time. Even though we've gotten into a lot of kinky shit, this was something I was always afraid of. It wasn't half bad, although I'm sure it wasn't totally fabulous for him. I'm sure I need practice ; ) Anyway, At the last moment, I panicked, and I just couldn't let him cum in my mouth. It was the mechanics of the whole thing that really confused me. I mean, how do you breathe and swallow when there's a big dick in your mouth? This may sound silly, but I'd love some advice on this. Also, how do you keep from gagging when he's thrusting? Thanks!
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While you're waiting to be noticed by the ladies of Lit, check out the how to stories category. If I remember correctly, Hullo_nurse posted a very graphic description of how she gives blowjobs.
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Kat,
There is a little secret to giving a blowjob with out gagging. First let your husband know your going to swallow, but you need his help the first time. This will excite him to no end, and it will help you. Have him tell you when he is going to cum so you can prepare... As he is pumping in your mouth you breath when he pulls out, if you feel like your going to gag hold on to the base of his cock and pull your head back, breath through your nose and go back down. Practice makes perfect. Don't expect perfection the 1st time.... Your husband will be thrilled that your trying. You can also practice.... Use a dildo, bannana or cucumber slide it in your mouth to back of your throat, no where you start to gag and then go past that point until you can actually touch the back of your throat without gagging.
By the way...there's no law that says his cock has to be all the way in the back of your throat when he cums.... My husband loves it when I suck on the head of his cock while cums. Hell for that matter he likes it when I lick it off him after he cums. All they want is for your mouth to be there while it's happening.
Hope this helps....
SL
Kat,
There is a little secret to giving a blowjob with out gagging. First let your husband know your going to swallow, but you need his help the first time. This will excite him to no end, and it will help you. Have him tell you when he is going to cum so you can prepare... As he is pumping in your mouth you breath when he pulls out, if you feel like your going to gag hold on to the base of his cock and pull your head back, breath through your nose and go back down. Practice makes perfect. Don't expect perfection the 1st time.... Your husband will be thrilled that your trying. You can also practice.... Use a dildo, bannana or cucumber slide it in your mouth to back of your throat, no where you start to gag and then go past that point until you can actually touch the back of your throat without gagging.
By the way...there's no law that says his cock has to be all the way in the back of your throat when he cums.... My husband loves it when I suck on the head of his cock while cums. Hell for that matter he likes it when I lick it off him after he cums. All they want is for your mouth to be there while it's happening.
Hope this helps....
SL
And I will also check out those stories!
