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[SylphOne]

ok i hope i didn't miss anyone with all those responses. if i did i am truly sorry

i thought i would leave u a little piece of what i have been thinking about lately. It seems i have a 'bit' of a problem with jealousy ( go figure ). This has become more apparent to me of late. Its really not a bad thing....but it can be when its completely unfounded and well just generally ridiculous. Anyway i am trying to work on this problem...build my self-confidence about things....let go of my insecurities etc. So far i have been less than successful, lol. But i am continuing to try. At least i am able to admit to it which seems like a small step forward

Regardless, it has inspired me to post a little ditty that seems appropriate for the topic of 'jealousy'
All i can say is thank god i have never reached this level of jealousy....(i don't think)

The Killers-Mr.Brightside

I'm coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibis
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside

I’m coming out of my cage
And I’ve been doing just fine
Gotta gotta gotta be down
Because I want it all
It started out with a kiss
How did it end up like this
It was only a kiss, it was only a kiss
Now I’m falling asleep
And she’s calling a cab
While he’s having a smoke
And she’s taking a drag
Now they’re going to bed
And my stomach is sick
And it’s all in my head
But she’s touching his—chest
Now, he takes off her dress
Now, let me go

I just can’t look its killing me
And taking control
Jealousy, turning saints into the sea
Swimming through sick lullabies
Choking on your alibi
But it’s just the price I pay
Destiny is calling me
Open up my eager eyes
‘Cause I’m Mr Brightside

I never...
I never...
I never...

 

[ShavedGuy]

I am and thank u. Hope u are too...any more dates with your 6ft redhead?

Hello Sylph

I had a fantastic weekend Saturday afternoon was my 4yr old son's birthday party....that was a madhouse....lol.....but luckily the weather was stunning, so it turned into a pool party.

Dates with my 6ft Redhead...hehehe....you bet.....Had sundowners (champagne) sitting on the beach with her on Friday, then she came to visit Saturday night....stayed from midnight till 5am......hehehe

Have a lovely monday hon....smile and laugh lots

 

[mac340]

So i have decided after attempting to clean up my index etc. that i simply have way too many pictures on Lit. Also i clearly have been spending way too much time on Lit too I will be attemptingto take a little 'Lit' holiday ( at least from am pics), for the next little while.

as u may have noticed i have removed all the photo attachments with the exception of the very last series which i will finish off first....
I am aware that there are a number of u with copies of most of my photos...i really don't mind if u share them with one another, but i would ask that u do not 'repost' them in a thread format....thank u

Thanks for all the laughs and good times ,
Yours always,
Sylphone

I think many of us go through that same thing once in a while Thank you for sharing your pics (this one is very sexy btw)

 

[ShavedGuy]

ok i hope i didn't miss anyone with all those responses. if i did i am truly sorry

i thought i would leave u a little piece of what i have been thinking about lately. It seems i have a 'bit' of a problem with jealousy ( go figure ). This has become more apparent to me of late. Its really not a bad thing....but it can be when its completely unfounded and well just generally ridiculous. Anyway i am trying to work on this problem...build my self-confidence about things....let go of my insecurities etc. So far i have been less than successful, lol. But i am continuing to try. At least i am able to admit to it which seems like a small step forward

Hey there Sylph

Well reading between the lines, it sounds like someone else thinks that you have a problem with jealousy.

Now you get different forms of jealousy and different degrees. You might feel jealous cause your best friend just bought a stunning new car, or jealous that your friend has a boyfriend and you dont.....then it's more envy really.

Then you get the relationship jealousy.....you see your boyfriend flirting or staring at another girl and you get jealous. Now if it's just a little bit of jealousy, no problem, cause you would only be jealous cause you cared.....if it is a lot jealous and you want to grab a kitchen knife and stab the bitch in the heart then it's a bad thing......

At the end of the day everyone gets jealous about something or someone....as long as you control the jealousy and the jealousy doesnt control you, then you dont have a problem.

I dont know what insecurities you have and what part of your self confidence you need to build up......but one thing that i can tell you, from seeing your pics here, is that you definately dont need to have any insecurities about your body, cause you have a stunning body.

Self confidence is all about attitude hon and the first step is to dress for success. Power dress your way to self confidence.....might sound strange, but when you feel good about the way you look, it makes all of you feel good. So what you do is put on your favourite undies, now i'm not talking about the ones that feel comfortable to wear, i'm talking about the ones that you put on and when you look at yourself in the mirror, you think damn i look and feel sexy in these. Then put on whatever clothes you want to wear....be it casual or work, or going out. You will feel good about what you are wearing and that will rub off on your self confidence and self image (hope i'm making sense).

Then what you do is you read this poem below, every morning. Print it out and stick it on your refrigerator.

There are two days in every week about which we should not worry,
two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension

One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares
its faults and blunders, its aches and pains
Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control

All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday
We cannot undo a single act we performed
we cannot erase a single word we said
Yesterday is gone forever

The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow
with all its possible adversities, its burdens
its large promise and its poor performance

Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control
Tomorrow's sun will rise
either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise
Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow
for it is yet to be born

This leaves only one day, Today
Any person can fight the battle of just one day
It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities
Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down

It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad
it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened
Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring
Let us, therefore, Live but one day at a time

 

[SylphOne]

Then what you do is you read this poem below, every morning. Print it out and stick it on your refrigerator.

There are two days in every week about which we should not worry,
two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension

One of these days is Yesterday with all its mistakes and cares
its faults and blunders, its aches and pains
Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control

All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday
We cannot undo a single act we performed
we cannot erase a single word we said
Yesterday is gone forever

The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow
with all its possible adversities, its burdens
its large promise and its poor performance

Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control
Tomorrow's sun will rise
either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise
Until it does, we have no stake in Tomorrow
for it is yet to be born

This leaves only one day, Today
Any person can fight the battle of just one day
It is when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities
Yesterday and Tomorrow that we break down

It is not the experience of Today that drives a person mad
it is the remorse or bitterness of something which happened
Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring
Let us, therefore, Live but one day at a time

I love this SG Thank u so much... it is just what i needed to read.
i do tend to beat myself up over my Yesterdays way too much. So i was jealous yesterday...so what . u are right it was only cause i cared and that shouldn't be a bad thing.....( here would be where u could insert my insecurities ). Anyway u r right whats past is past. and jealousy yesterday...does not need to = jealousy today. thx for helping me look at things a little clearer.
sylph
*goes to printer and prints poem asap*

 

[laaag]

ok i hope i didn't miss anyone with all those responses. if i did i am truly sorry

It's ok, I'll let it go! (sniff) You just need to post some of your great colorful pics on my thread and all is forgiven.

 

[tealeaves1984]

Beautiful,
I just want you to know,
you're my f f f favourite girl....

 

[SylphOne]

It's ok, I'll let it go! (sniff) You just need to post some of your great colorful pics on my thread and all is forgiven.

Oh No!!!!!
Laaag.....i am so sorry
*goes immediately to colour thread to post a forgive me pic*

 

[ShavedGuy]

I love this SG Thank u so much... it is just what i needed to read.
i do tend to beat myself up over my Yesterdays way too much. So i was jealous yesterday...so what . u are right it was only cause i cared and that shouldn't be a bad thing.....( here would be where u could insert my insecurities ). Anyway u r right whats past is past. and jealousy yesterday...does not need to = jealousy today. thx for helping me look at things a little clearer.
sylph
*goes to printer and prints poem asap*

Glad i could be of some help Sylph

That poem helped me deal with my marriage break-up and divorce.....i was spending way too much time thinking about the past and the what if's....what if i had done this or not done that, etc etc......but like the poem says, yesterday is history and we cant change it......so each morning i read that poem and funny thing is that since i've been doing that......99% of the time i'm in a good positive frame of mind....

Sometimes it's amazing how changing something as "small" as worrying about the past can have such a positive effect on your life......

So gorgeous Sylph LIVE FOR TODAY AND BE HAPPY.......SMILE AND LAUGH LOTS

 

[ShavedGuy]

would i love myself?


if i was loved
would i love myself?
would i see something in me
that i never saw before?
something good
beautiful
worthy of love
or would the hate remain
and seeds of doubt grow
"why does he love me?
what does he see?"

if i was thin
would i love myself?
would i look in the mirror
and like what i see
would i feel beautiful?
or would i find something else
another flaw
eyes
lips
hair
it doesn't matter
imperfections without to reflect
the imperfections within

if somebody praised me
would i love myself?
would i finally feel good enough?
intelligent
talented
somebody special
somebody who matters
would i smile and feel finally at peace?
or would i keep going
wondering why the praise is never enough
to silence the voices within

and sometimes i wonder
why i look to all these things
to make me feel worthwhile
when all i really need
is to love myself.

 

[curious_me]

Just wanna say hi!

hey Sylph, how are you?
How are things going?
Missing you!
HOpe all is well!

 

[curious_me]

Just bumping you Sylph!
Missing your presence!

 

[SylphOne]

would i love myself?


if i was loved
would i love myself?
would i see something in me
that i never saw before?
something good
beautiful
worthy of love
or would the hate remain
and seeds of doubt grow
"why does he love me?
what does he see?"

if i was thin
would i love myself?
would i look in the mirror
and like what i see
would i feel beautiful?
or would i find something else
another flaw
eyes
lips
hair
it doesn't matter
imperfections without to reflect
the imperfections within

if somebody praised me
would i love myself?
would i finally feel good enough?
intelligent
talented
somebody special
somebody who matters
would i smile and feel finally at peace?
or would i keep going
wondering why the praise is never enough
to silence the voices within

and sometimes i wonder
why i look to all these things
to make me feel worthwhile
when all i really need
is to love myself.

i love this too SG. I am going to have to find more space on my fridge for all of these ( seriously). They are very helpful. Thankfully i seem to be over that and happy with things right now...but it won't hurt to make them my daily mantras just incase the green eyed monster rears its ugly head again

 

[SylphOne]

hey Sylph, how are you?
How are things going?
Missing you!
HOpe all is well!

Thanx for stopping by to say hi and give me a little bump curious_me.
i miss all of u too, but i am enjoying my little vacation and relaxing quite a bit I hope all is well with u too?
I have decided its time for u to get an av curious....i think it should be something funny ..like a curious cat about to get into mischeif or something.....
i will let u know if i come across anything interesting
Sylph

 

[SylphOne]

So i found one more of the better photos lurking about. I know at least one person anyway who will enjoy seeing this one again

 

[mischevious eye]

I enjoy any pic you would post of yourself.

 

[BigAndTall]

Finger licking good. Just call you KFC?

 

[SylphOne]

Finger licking good. Just call you KFC?

tee hee hee. yummy

 

[curious_me]

Thanx for stopping by to say hi and give me a little bump curious_me.
i miss all of u too, but i am enjoying my little vacation and relaxing quite a bit I hope all is well with u too?
I have decided its time for u to get an av curious....i think it should be something funny ..like a curious cat about to get into mischeif or something.....
i will let u know if i come across anything interesting
Sylph

LOl! Hey beautiful one! Good to hear from you! I'm so happy you're enjoying your vacation. Next time I'll even add a little grind to the bump. Lol!
Well, I'll be here waiting on my av. And I do trust your taste.
And thx for the last pic!

 

[tealeaves1984]

bumping my favourite girl to the top! xx

 

[ShavedGuy]

i love this too SG. I am going to have to find more space on my fridge for all of these ( seriously). They are very helpful. Thankfully i seem to be over that and happy with things right now...but it won't hurt to make them my daily mantras just incase the green eyed monster rears its ugly head again

Pleasure as always Sylph. Glad to hear you are a happy lass now

Well if the green eyed monster comes knocking at your door, just send him my way and i'll kick his ass and send him back to monsterville

Hope you having a lovely weekend

 

[reconnecting]

Hmm... I'm new here and couldn't help getting fascinated by your pics.... however it seems most of the index is gone. Any chance you make them available for the newly arrived?

 

[SylphOne]

LOl! Hey beautiful one! Good to hear from you! I'm so happy you're enjoying your vacation. Next time I'll even add a little grind to the bump. Lol!
Well, I'll be here waiting on my av. And I do trust your taste.
And thx for the last pic!

Possible av's for curious_me.......i'm sure some of these are copyrighted but shhh i won't tell if u don't.
they should already be the right size ( 150 pixels), so if u like one just paste it to your browse button on your av page.

http://img338.imageshack.us/img338/2328/10206227web5yo.jpg

http://img490.imageshack.us/img490/4900/99334045web3ok.jpg

http://img490.imageshack.us/img490/4013/curiosityweb6xa.jpg

http://img490.imageshack.us/img490/9094/curiousweb3zf.jpg

http://img490.imageshack.us/img490/6978/curiousbaboonbaby7yb.jpg

 

[SylphOne]

Just a joke i found while googling 'curious".....i Far Side,

http://img404.imageshack.us/img404/731/curiositycats9sx.jpg

 

[ShavedGuy]

Hiya Sylph

Here is a good pic.....the best reason why woman shouldnt get breast implants