Tease / Denial / Orgasm Control

[redheadedtxn]

Been playing with this for about 18 months. Delicious torture. It is fascinating to be stretched to such a degree, and have my orgasms / touching controlled by someone else.

ETA:If there's no objections, I'll be posting my own experiences in O Control/Denial as sort of a journal.

 

[kellieanne]

this also does things to me too I get very worked up when Im denied orgasm/touching oh yes I do

 

[ncm50]

this is something that I too respond to

 

[redheadedtxn]

Master has been doing a lot more edge play with me since...oh...Septemberish...
Mean!

Love it!

 

[ncm50]

drives me wild to be taken to the edge and then hold back, I get to the point I will do about anything..........

 

[redheadedtxn]

Recently I suffered thru a 2 week period of no-cums. I was actually.....being punished for taking his gifts of cums for granted.

Daily edging; constant teasing, almost there, then "NO!" for 14 days! I was in a constant state of intense sexual buzz.

I won't be taking those orgasms for granted ever again.

Yet at the same time I would love to do that again.

 

[FantasySlut]

After constantly denying myself, there is nothing sweeter than to finally enjoy the release of the emotions and sensations that have built up over the time I've teased and denied myself. I do this quite often. Very yummmmy

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Ummm how the hell is this even possible?! I mean I've tried to control mine and well yeah it doesn't happen...like one guy has told me "You get too excited" lol

 

[redheadedtxn]

Ummm how the hell is this even possible?! I mean I've tried to control mine and well yeah it doesn't happen...like one guy has told me "You get too excited" lol

For me it's possible because of the nature of my relationship with my Master. And it's deliciously fun and very trust-building.

 

[PenIsMightier1]

I have trained my girl well, she can't orgasm without my permission.

Now usually I give her permission without building it up too much, but when I'm feeling a bit more sadistic than usual I like to make her try and cum without my permission, and it is delicious watching her try.

And when she is being punished I withhold her orgasms completely

 

[FantasySlut]

Ummm how the hell is this even possible?! I mean I've tried to control mine and well yeah it doesn't happen...like one guy has told me "You get too excited" lol

It's knowing the end result D

 

[redheadedtxn]

I have trained my girl well, she can't orgasm without my permission.

Now usually I give her permission without building it up too much, but when I'm feeling a bit more sadistic than usual I like to make her try and cum without my permission, and it is delicious watching her try.

And when she is being punished I withhold her orgasms completely

I think you went to the same Master School as mine did

 

[PenIsMightier1]

I think you went to the same Master School as mine did

It's a good school Go Panthers!

 

[zumpkin]

My life is a state of constant denial...just when I think I am about to I get interuppted by the rigors of my life. I will go for days with out finishing. Mostly self inflicted, but many times as a result of not wanting to deal with the clean-up.
Never knew that people actively sought out this feeling....

 

[redheadedtxn]

My life is a state of constant denial...just when I think I am about to I get interuppted by the rigors of my life. I will go for days with out finishing. Mostly self inflicted, but many times as a result of not wanting to deal with the clean-up.
Never knew that people actively sought out this feeling....

I love it. I love feeling sexual all the time. Rubbing out a quick one is effortless. Orgasms have a bigger meaning for me now than they used to.

And for D/s control / trust building, it's phenomenal. I'm glad it's a kink we share.

Probably my hugest fetish

 

[zumpkin]

Perhaps I am addicted to my own endorphines and walk around high on my own chemistry all the time. My cock is constantly dripping pre-cum always at halfmast, ready for action.
The sad part, I'm so in tune with myself that others never seem to get it right.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Perhaps I am addicted to my own endorphines and walk around high on my own chemistry all the time. My cock is constantly dripping pre-cum always at halfmast, ready for action.
The sad part, I'm so in tune with myself that others never seem to get it right.

It took me a looooong time to click with the right one. Some things I wish were different...but sexually, it's kismet.

 

[spankableBelle]

Master has been doing a lot more edge play with me since...oh...Septemberish...
Mean!

Love it!

This is such a delicious, torturous, angst-filled, frustrating, blissful feeling... Giving yourself over to the control...

I used to hate the denial, but have grown to love it, even crave it. It is cruel and mean, but can be so very rewarding in the end.

 

[Surreal469]

While I'm as sadistic as to hold a woman off for weeks. But ever since I started fucking, I was a big fan of holding off a woman's orgasm just to make them more intense. It's like telling a good story. You don't get Ross & Rachel together in the first episode. You build and rebuild.

There's also an intense feeling of power and making a woman beg whille watching her pussy involuntarily drip in antici.....pation.

 

[jenniferbaby]

How long has this area been here and how come I didn't know about it??? I've got to do a better job of keeping up with such things.

I love orgasm denial almost as much as I love orgasms. Something about the frustration and the tension leads to an unbelievable release. I've found myself resisting my tormentor, asking why he wouldn't let me cum, begging, pleading, crying....and then he gives it to me, and I understand. In that moment of needing to cum I'm incoherent and restless and angry, but as soon as it's over, I'm glad he maintained control.

 

[Emerald_Lilly]

I love orgasm denial almost as much as I love orgasms. Something about the frustration and the tension leads to an unbelievable release. I've found myself resisting my tormentor, asking why he wouldn't let me cum, begging, pleading, crying....and then he gives it to me, and I understand. In that moment of needing to cum I'm incoherent and restless and angry, but as soon as it's over, I'm glad he maintained control.

Well said

 

[NCfunguy30000]

Great thread

I've experimented a little with orgasm denial games and find it incredibly exciting, I love watching a woman squirm, plead and beg and watching the look of gratitude in her eyes when I finally let her cum. I really want to find a girl who wants to experiment with this more.

 

[Guest]

I was taking a LIT break when I ran into this thread....I couldn't resist!!!

I am neither Master or Slave, rather I can be either,or both, when called upon.

I discovered this fetish long ago but was re-introduced a couple years ago and have found it insanely exciting, the release when I do cum is so hard it borders violence.

I touch on this subject in most of my stories and some poems too....
here on my author page

I'll be watching this thread closely!!!

After constantly denying myself, there is nothing sweeter than to finally enjoy the release of the emotions and sensations that have built up over the time I've teased and denied myself. I do this quite often. Very yummmmy

Exactly...ditto and uhh-huhhhh!!!!

This is such a delicious, torturous, angst-filled, frustrating, blissful feeling... Giving yourself over to the control...
I used to hate the denial, but have grown to love it, even crave it. It is cruel and mean, but can be so very rewarding in the end.

ah, yes!!!
Spoken like a true Sub.....
Hello, my friend!

 

[taborgirl]

Orgasm denial was tried on me and in the long term it doesn't work. I spent two weeks edging several times a day and as soon as the edge wore off, I was fine. It didn't bother me at all.

The short term works for me extremely well though. I had someone count down from whatever arbitrary number he chose that day and I could maybe cum when he got to zero. I was begging, pleading, crying three numbers down; because I never knew if he would grant that blessed orgasm at the end or start again with some other number. That works for me and I love it.

 

[malstroem]

I just love the power-rush from keeping a guy right on edge, making him go insane with desire and need and then after a long time maybe, maybe allow him to cum...