Teacher, classmate crushes?

[Torreyjs]

well im in college doin a computer major cuz im big computer junkie

anyways in my cpt-257 class (computer hardware service)
this guy his name is Alejandro (alehandro for non spanish knowers)

hes married sadly over the age of 30 obviously and jesus i cant get enough of him, his acent god damn i go nuts over it
i got a crush i know cuz i think of him daily a lil bit
plus hes like super smart with programing so that another turn on

im ony 18 tho so hes very well twice my age and married
*le sigh*



and for my teacher crush

my marketing 130 class (customer support/relationships)
My teacher his name is Marty and hes irish
this guy could very well be 40 and man hes hot (and his accent also eats me alive)

hes tall and extra slender and dresses so professionaly/sexy all the time
i duno if hes married i havent gotten a good look at that weddin hand yet

and what makes all this better is they are both pretty handsome (and Alejandro always sits by me if he has the option i dunno why, might be my ultra sexy laptop)

 

[symbolicflame]

I had my first teacher crush in 7th grade. I just loved her and even wrote her notes without signing my name. (I am sure she knew who it was from handwriting I think back now..lol) I knew early I was attracted to same sex! Never had a crush a boy teacher.
I was always attracted to some of my classmates. My first g-friend was in 8th grade. We never held hands in front of people, but would write notes and spend the night at each other houses.

 

[Torreyjs]

maybe im just desperate to have Marty but he looks at me sometimes and i get this vibe

like his look are almost normal just eyes happenin to make contact

but i swear everytime they make contact its for a second longer then usual
and i sometimes almost can make out a smirk smile

maybe he wants me!
i can only hope

 

[Spilled ink]

Don't lose hope!!!
Well, the married part is a bit of a downer >__> I'd avoid that, honestly.


My first teacher crush was on my 2nd grade teacher. I remember thinking he was cute because he had dark skin and hair and hairy arms and a 5-o'clock shadow n_n

First same-sex teacher crush was on my 9th grade spanish teacher n_________n

 

[Torreyjs]

well alejandro is married

and i dunno about marty im going to have to be agressive and stage someway for me to see his weddin hand to see if hes married (hes never ever spoken of a wife, plus he talks about gettin groceries all the time on the way home so he may be single, and a loner)

 

[SweetCherry]

Well, as simple as it sounds, why not go to his office and ask a questino on something he said in lecture, or some assignment he gives out? When he gives you an answer and you're done with what you need, just shake his hand. You should be able to feel if there's a ring, and get a look at his hand while he's reaching to shake yours.

 

[H_Meyerer]

My first teacher crush was in 10th grade. I had the biggest crush on my biology teacher. As a senior I took another class with him and got the courage to write him an anonymous letter. It was very innocent and he was very sweet, we wrote back a couple of times but nothing ever came of it. I think he knew it was me but was too nice to say something about it. He was married with kids so I knew nothing could ever happen but it was still such a fantasy.

So my advice is go for it. Try sending him an anonymous note. Who knows it might work out for you.

Good Luck

 

[Etoile]

You'll have to be extremely careful - teachers and professors can be fired for having relationships with students.

 

[Torreyjs]

i know

i feel kinda funny tryin to stage a scene so i can see his weddin hand

i dunno ive never been anything other then upright about things but even for me itd be akward to just ask him in the middle of class (which is televised so maybe a few hundred other peeps in the state would watch me ask him if hes married)
thatll make any1 shy

 

[Torreyjs]

well i finally found out tonight in our class that he isnt married

i went to his office and asked his advice on test givin since i teach too and got a good vew of his hand and bam no ring

but im totally stuck on what to do
hit on him and try and find out if hes gay and or availabe and or interested

but hes a co-worker and at least 20 years older then me

im intimidated
what to do?

 

[Etoile]

Well, that depends. Are you looking to get him fired?

 

[webber1998]

My thoughts are that if he was interested, he would have gotten the vibes from you when you were in his office given that you have expressed that you have the hots for him.

Best bet in my opinion?

Some things are better left alone....Find yourself a guy who isn't attached and who is available.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Etoile]

If they aren't going to be in a permanent student/teacher relationship, they could get together afterwards couldn't they? I suppose some places may prohibit relationships with FORMER students. Why should the student worry excessively about this possibility? Isn't the teacher going to know what is or isn't prohibited?

Sure, that's a good point, after the semester it would be okay. The OP seemed to be interested in the here and now, though, and I was worrying about him setting himself up for disappointment by working up the nerve on someone who can't reciprocate.

I would say go slow so no one gets hurt or embarassed. I wouldn't put it the way Etoile does, but I have to agree that it would suck to get someone you cared for fired.

You said it much better than I, thank you. That's what I should have said.

Don't discount the idea that someone 20 years older than you would be interested in you!

My wife is 12 years older than me and my dominant is 20 years older than me.