Tasking man new to kink....

[SwitchSlade]

I'm training, mentoring, etc. a man who wants an introduction into kink. As a sub to Domme currently. I am experienced as a Domme, Sub, and have trained specific skills into others but introducing them into alternative life is limited. I am of course beginning with reward method and earning my approval. Tasking is great. He has taken to that well.

I'd like to dust off and shine up my tasks to give him.

Suggestions would be welcome and if asked I'll post a random list that may give yall ideas on new tasks I can add. Not being cruel this is more about learning his place using an incremental system.

Thanks to any who provide interest and or insight. Keep it sexy!

 

[DVS]

I'm training, mentoring, etc. a man who wants an introduction into kink. As a sub to Domme currently. I am experienced as a Domme, Sub, and have trained specific skills into others but introducing them into alternative life is limited. I am of course beginning with reward method and earning my approval. Tasking is great. He has taken to that well.

I'd like to dust off and shine up my tasks to give him.

Suggestions would be welcome and if asked I'll post a random list that may give yall ideas on new tasks I can add. Not being cruel this is more about learning his place using an incremental system.

Thanks to any who provide interest and or insight. Keep it sexy!

No offense, but I think he would appreciate it more, if these ideas for tasks came from you. It's just how subs are. They can better take any length of time with not cumming, any task and even any punishment, if they know it came from your sexy brain with them in mind.

Me, I'm just another dom and a male, too. I don't think I'd be any good at giving you any ideas. If you do get some ideas, I think you should add your personal twist to them. Like I said...he would appreciate it more, if it came from your mind.

 

[RealConnection]

hey

Hey want to chat? I am new here though...

 

[Nezhul]

It's really hard to suggest something based on the info you provided. Is he into denial/edging? Crossdressing? Controlled masturbation? Pain? Pet play? Household chores? Findom? Some other thing?
And even if he is - we know nothing of his current progress, commitments and limits.

It's hard to tell and it's hard to give advice. I suggest you look at the map of human fetishes and think about each one, if it is something appropriate and what tasks could be given in line with it. This may give you quite a few of ideas.

Off the top of my head, you could task him to write daily reports of his sexy thoughts and wahtnot.
Optionally, you can task him with writing an erotic story from the perspective of a submissive. Each day, 1000 words (or more)

 

[cookiecat]

Is this online or face to face?

What are a couple of the tasks you've given him so far?

My lazy reply... Here are a few links that popped up when I googled "tasking a submissive"

https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=405

https://blog.swingtowns.com/fetish/submissive-tasks/

Ok, now I'm tired of linking. Just search"tasking a submissive"

I'll add that when I was a new, confused, lust crazed, needy submissive, I appreciated the task of "journaling." I'll add this was long distance. We did it via emails. I'd pour out all my angsty feeeeeeeeelings, he was able to address issues. Now, with the proliferation of blogs and even tumblr, it could be interesting to have him create a blog or a tumblr page to include images he likes, that make him squirm, he'd like to try, never try.