Task Master?

[leahdirtygirl]

I get off on completing tasks, can anyone help me?
Below is a little profile about me and my likes/dislikes

Experience level
c. un-experienced

Orientation
a. bi

Do you have a partner(s)?
a. not at the moment


Do you have a dominant?
d. No L

Do you have friends that you can ask to participate/help you with tasks?
c. no

Living arrangements
c. with parents

Do you have privacy?
b. at certain hours, yes

Bath arrangements
c. Both

Bed arrangements
a. Bed available

Are you able to perform activities during the night, for example being
cuffed while in bed?
a. Yes

What audio facilities do you have that are available for play?
Audio (listen)
a. Yes, listen only

Digital camera
a. Yes, somewhat willing to post

Web camera
a. Yes, but only after talking for a while

Are you willing to buy toys?
c. No

Are you willing to make toys?
a. Yes

Let us know the level of pain/discomfort you''re happy with or even like. It is subjective, but gives us an indication of what you like. How much pain do you like/can endure?
c. Medium

What toys do you own already?
Nothing much, a small plug and any household items. I’m usually just counting on people to be creative.


What medical issues do you have that we should know about?
Nothing.

Do you have any allergies?
No.

Rated Activities
Please choose one of the following types of performers, answer and remove the non-applicable options. Everyone is to complete the individual section.
• Female Performers Only
• Individual

Rating Scale

Taskmasters may not assign elements you have given the answer of 1. Elements that you have answered with a 2 can be assigned only after talking with you. A TM may assign any answer you list as a 3, 4, 5 or 6.

1 – No: No means no. Period. Hard limit.
2 – Soft Limit: Soft limit does not mean no. It means "ask me first." A soft limit item will be negotiated as part of a specific task.
3 – Curious: Activities you have yet to try, but want to.
4 – Neutral: I will do it but, only for the benefit of the TM assigning the task.
5 – Like: I enjoy this activity and have no problem with accepting tasks including this activity.
6 – Excited: This task activity excites the hell out of me!
Non chastity
extra short: less than 1 hour
short: 1 - 4 hours
medium: 4 - 8 hours
long: 8 - 12 hours
extra long: 12 - 24 hours
extended: more than 24 hours

Individual
age play, private 3
age play, public 1
anal plugs, extra short 6
anal plugs, short 5
anal plugs, medium 5
anal plugs, long 5
anal plugs, extra long 4
anal plugs, extended 2
animalism 1
bath/shower play 3
bathroom use control 3
behavior modification 4
being given away to another dominant, cyber 4
blindfolds 3
body writing, under clothes 4
body writing, visible 1
bondage, light 6
bondage, multi-days, non-restrictive 6
bondage, public, under clothes, hidden 6
bondage, public, under clothes, visible 1
cage 3 (but excites the hell out of me)
caning 1
chastity device, less than 12 hours 3
chastity device, 12 - 24 hours 3
chastity device, 24 - 48 hours 3
chastity device, up to one week 1
chastity device, one week - two weeks 1
chastity device, two weeks - one month 1
chores, self 1
chores, others 1
clamps, nipples 4
closet 2
clothespins, 1 – 10 5
clothespins, 11 – 50 4
clothespins, 50+ 3
clothespins, zipper 1
clothing restriction 1
collar, private 1
collar, public 1
corsets 3
crawling 1
crossdressing, private 1
crossdressing, public 1
cuffs/restraints 6
daily diary or report 2
daily mantra 2
diapers, wearing 1
diapers, wetting 1
diapers, soiling 1
diet restriction 2
dildo, anal 6
double penetration, toys 6
drink from shoe 1
drink from toilet 1
ear plugs 1
eat/drink from pet dish 1
eat from the floor 1
eat from the ground outside 1
enema, cleansing 3
enema, retention, extra short 5
enema, retention, short 5
enema, retention, medium 3
enema, retention, long 3
enema, retention, extra long 3
enema, retention, extended 3
enema, other liquids 5
erotic dancing, private 1
erotic dancing, public 1
exhibitionism, friends 1
exhibitionism, kinky strangers 1
exhibitionism, public 1
fetish clothing 2
figging 1
fingers, yours, anal 3
fisting, self, anal 3
food play 5
forced exercise 1
forced heterosexuality n/a
forced homosexuality 1
forced masturbation 3
forced nudity, private 1
forced nudity, public 1
gag 4
hair plucking 1
harness 1
heels, wearing, extra short 1
heels, wearing, short 1
heels, wearing, medium 1
heels, wearing, long 1
heels, wearing, extra long 1
heels, wearing, extended 1
hood 3
hot wax 1
humiliation, private 5
humiliation, semi-private 1
humiliation, public 1
ice, anal 6
ice, external 4
infantilism 1
jewellery, symbolic to BDSM 1
kneeling, extra short 1
kneeling, short 1
kneeling, medium 1
kneeling, long 1
leash, private 1
leash, public 1
lingerie, private 4
lingerie, public, under clothing 2
lingerie, public, visible 1
manicure/pedicure, receiving 4
mask 3
massage, receiving 5
name change, task only 2
nipple play 2
orgasm control 1
orgasm denial 1
outdoor scenes, semi-private 1
outdoor scenes, public 1
piercing, professional, permanent 1
piercing, professional, temporary 1
plastic wrap 5
position training 1
riding crop 1
roleplay, general 4
scat, eating 1
scat, external 1
scat, oral (ATM) 1
sensory deprivation 3
serving as ashtray 1
serving as furniture 1
sex with stranger, anal 1
sex with stranger, oral 1
shaving, body n/a
shaving, genitals 4
shaving, head 1
slutty/revealing clothing, private 2
slutty/revealing clothing, public 1
spanking 4
speculum, anal 3
speech restriction 4
spreader bars 3
standing in corner 1
suction device 4
tape 5
tattoo, professional, permanent 1
tattoo, temporary 1
urine, yours, external 1
urine, yours, oral 1
urine, wearing wet underwear/clothes 1
vibrator, anal 6
waxing, hair removal 1
whipping 2
zentai 3

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Hey leah,

I'm sure you'll have no problem finding what you're looking for over at the BDSM personals forum...

 

[Etoile]

I agree, this belongs in personals, but I would suggest writing it in paragraph form. I found this difficult to read. Writing it out will also give a potential dominant a better sense of who you are as a person, beyond just statistics. I'm also very curious about where you got this "TM list" from.

Edit: Ah, I see it's from bdsmtasks.org - may I suggest posting there?

 

[SirLeo]

Nfw

Any subbie that gave me a list like this would in my opinion be trying to top form the bottom. Not mention that it would jsut give me a headache. Best case would be a thorough ass whipping with a thin leather belt, followed by a face fucking (nice facial as well) and then be made to lay on the floor. Trying to do anything with that list would just be way to much work.

I would respond much better to " I am yours Sir, please do as you wish"

 

[Etoile]

That's certainly one way of looking at it, but if you imagine the checklist as suggestions rather than mandates (I realize THIS one has instructions otherwise) it can be quite fun. Perhaps you'd find someone with common interests, or know what buttons they don't want pushed (do with THAT what you will). It's a half-decent way to get to know someone further, if your chatting to date has sparked further interest, you can check out compatible interests. For example, if anal fisting is a must-do in your sex life, and the checklist calls it a hard limit, you'll know there will be trouble ahead. (Sure, the trouble might result in breaking the limit, but you won't be expecting an easy path.)

Checklists have their place, no doubt about that. I just don't think this is that place.

 

[SirLeo]

E- I was really hoping you would pick up my line and see where you would run with it. Unfortunatley, it seems you are in a really helpful mood instead. Ah well, good for you.

 

[Etoile]

I'm sure the mood will pass soon!

 

[SirLeo]

Well in case we don't have the opportunity again before they come and go, Happy Holidaze! Happy everything!
Leo

 

[Viciocaza]

Tasking Checklist


There is nothing wrong in providing a checklist for your tasking, although most would send it directly to one whom they are wishing to start a conversation with.

Sure issuing the tasks are far easier then proving you have completed them in proper fashion, sequence, or timing.

If your an obedient and reliable submissive then issuing tasks would make it an enjoyable exchange.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Uhhhh, hello...

What do you need a Dominant for? With that list, all you have to do is eenie-meenie-miney-moe and pick one from the list and do it.

All I want is someone to do the housework and yardwork. Need a task? I have laundry that needs to be done... Oh wait... you rated chores as a 1, they may not be assigned. Well then, never mind.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I find a list like this helpful. Even in a D/s relationship, the more shared interests, the better. Not that a list should dictate to a D, but it is a starting place. Those preferences can be pushed or stretched like Silly Putty.

 

[ZRT]

I'm still hanging up on the 'no laundry'. I have a pile of socks on the floor that I was hoping to get done after Geoff's load was finished.

Seriously though, the list was a 'my eyes glaze over' kind of thing. I'd do it a little more in paragraph form like Etoile suggested, and focus more on the 'what I can't/won't do' in specific with a more general list of 'what I'd like to do'. From the domly standpoint, the limits matter more than the desires.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Uhhhh, hello...

What do you need a Dominant for? With that list, all you have to do is eenie-meenie-miney-moe and pick one from the list and do it.

All I want is someone to do the housework and yardwork. Need a task? I have laundry that needs to be done... Oh wait... you rated chores as a 1, they may not be assigned. Well then, never mind.

I'm still hanging up on the 'no laundry'. I have a pile of socks on the floor that I was hoping to get done after Geoff's load was finished.

Seriously though, the list was a 'my eyes glaze over' kind of thing. I'd do it a little more in paragraph form like Etoile suggested, and focus more on the 'what I can't/won't do' in specific with a more general list of 'what I'd like to do'. From the domly standpoint, the limits matter more than the desires.

You men and your laundry I, too, thought the list was way too long. And isn't it the Dom's place to assign tasks? I understand limitations and all that but I've never seen someone come out with a list like this before.