Task Ideas for Inexperienced Sub

[Darkweather]

By strange circumstances I have agreed to help a submissive with very little experience in BDSM, but who is proving to be very keen and adept to taking on a submissive role. She is very much into being controlled, praise and restraint among other things.

Being restricted to online activities (at least for the present) and considering her relative inexperience, if any subs or Doms have task ideas that have proved to be successful I'd love to hear about them. DMs open to chat for more information and happy to share experience.

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

By strange circumstances I have agreed to help a submissive with very little experience in BDSM, but who is proving to be very keen and adept to taking on a submissive role. She is very much into being controlled, praise and restraint among other things.

Being restricted to online activities (at least for the present) and considering her relative inexperience, if any subs or Doms have task ideas that have proved to be successful I'd love to hear about them. DMs open to chat for more information and happy to share experience.

Try being naked in a common Keller or basement and lock your clothes inside home. The thrill of being caught heightens everytime someone crosses the staircase and it's absolute futile to escape when someone really comes down

 

[Darkweather]

Try being naked in a common Keller or basement and lock your clothes inside home. The thrill of being caught heightens everytime someone crosses the staircase and it's absolute futile to escape when someone really comes down

that does sound good! but she's a university student who still lives at home. Maybe a naked dash from bathroom to bedroom without family catching sight would work.

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

that does sound good! but she's a university student who still lives at home. Maybe a naked dash from bathroom to bedroom without family catching sight would work.

I've tried and most times it doesn't work out for me.

 

[Darkweather]

I've tried and most times it doesn't work out for me.

Sounds like you get caught out sometimes. Thrilling or embarrassing?

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Sounds like you get caught out sometimes. Thrilling or embarrassing?

When I get caught it's just embarrassing and when I get back to my room with close calls it's always a heart beating thrilling experience

 

[Darkweather]

When I get caught it's just embarrassing and when I get back to my room with close calls it's always a heart beating thrilling experience

how I thought it might be. thanks for sharing!

 

[Boat1]

By strange circumstances I have agreed to help a submissive with very little experience in BDSM, but who is proving to be very keen and adept to taking on a submissive role. She is very much into being controlled, praise and restraint among other things.

Being restricted to online activities (at least for the present) and considering her relative inexperience, if any subs or Doms have task ideas that have proved to be successful I'd love to hear about them. DMs open to chat for more information and happy to share experience.

As this is an online task, you might consider something like my Domme Wife gives me for a task when I'm away from Her for work a month at a time...
It's both, mentally and physically stimulating and titillating!

Post in thread 'What's the most satisfying task your Dom ever gave you?' https://forum.literotica.com/thread...your-dom-ever-gave-you.1629087/post-101158949

 

[Darkweather]

As this is an online task, you might consider something like my Domme Wife gives me for a task when I'm away from Her for work a month at a time...
It's both, mentally and physically stimulating and titillating!

Post in thread 'What's the most satisfying task your Dom ever gave you?' https://forum.literotica.com/thread...your-dom-ever-gave-you.1629087/post-101158949

Thanks - that does seem very challenging.
My name is rather long too and it will be a struggle for her to get through I'm sure!

 

[Boat1]

Thanks - that does seem very challenging.
My name is rather long too and it will be a struggle for her to get through I'm sure!

You're quite welcome... She has given me several of those (changing the assigned "goal or topic" of the assigned writing) and I ALWAYS love getting them, as they cause some deep introspection and are very thought provoking.

 

[Darkweather]

You're quite welcome... She has given me several of those (changing the assigned "goal or topic" of the assigned writing) and I ALWAYS love getting them, as they cause some deep introspection and are very thought provoking.

I do like setting tasks that reinforce the role and prompt some thinking. I think a mix of spontaneous tasks/chores with some deeper thinking is a good balance.

 

[Boat1]

I do like setting tasks that reinforce the role and prompt some thinking. I think a mix of spontaneous tasks/chores with some deeper thinking is a good balance.

I fully agree!

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

Perhaps you could adapt this:

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...reading-task-challenge.1637608/post-101385874

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Perhaps you could adapt this:

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...reading-task-challenge.1637608/post-101385874

Happy to see a post from my forum here.

 

[Tallcajun]

Something simple such as wear no panties today. You will be on her mind all day.

 

[Darkweather]

Perhaps you could adapt this:

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...reading-task-challenge.1637608/post-101385874

I like that one! I certainly will think of an adaptation, thanks!

 

[Darkweather]

Something simple such as wear no panties today. You will be on her mind all day.

She usually wears a bra and I have had her go braless, so this would certainly be on the list. thanks!

 

[cascadiabound]

I have read quite a few accounts of wardrobe control, especially underwear. Some doms like to have no panty days for their sub, others like to control exactly which panties/bras they wear. One way to do that is to have her create a panty/bra/lingerie catalog for you. Pictures of each maybe pictures of her wearing each. A daily task of you choosing her undergarments along with a picture of her wearing them before she leaves the house. This all works well for an online situation even when living with roommates etc.

Have her buy more sexy bathrobe/sleeping clothes that are more tranparent, shorter etc which she has to wear at times to go from her bedroom to the bathroom, or maybe on laundry day she has to wear her skimpy robe when she is going back and forth to the laundry facilities. Not naked, but maybe much more overtly sexual than she might ordinarily be comfortable with.

Think about temporary tattoos. You could pick what you want her to wear for you and where on her body you want it placed. All that determined by what would not get her in trouble with her parents etc. These often last for a week or more and can help a sub feel very owned /controlled etc.

If she has sex toys, make sure you know exactly what she owns. If she doesn't, have her acquire some at your direction. Just having to buy something like that will be thrilling/terrifying for her. Obviously the next step is directed use/play with said toys. You are only limited by your imagination. If funds are an issue, instead send her on a hunt for common household objects that can be used as sex toys or for self administration of pain, spanking etc, also of course, at your direction.

Have fun!

 

[seela]

When I was long distance, I had a specific color I had to be wearing at all times. I found it very effective and easy to execute for the D as well, more so than having to pick (parts of) an outfit every day. Because life happens and there may be days when the D won’t be able to pick what to wear, or won’t be able to do it in time, or something. It’s nice to have something steady to fall back on.

It was a small thing, no one would ever think anything of it, but it did require some planning on my part each day. So each day I felt the control and made an active choice to follow through.

And a general reminder, before you set her out for any flashing/streaking types of tasks, please be mindful of other people, the outsiders who haven’t consented to be a part of your games.

 

[Hypocrites]

By strange circumstances I have agreed to help a submissive with very little experience in BDSM, but who is proving to be very keen and adept to taking on a submissive role. She is very much into being controlled, praise and restraint among other things.

Being restricted to online activities (at least for the present) and considering her relative inexperience, if any subs or Doms have task ideas that have proved to be successful I'd love to hear about them. DMs open to chat for more information and happy to share experience.

There's an app I use with my sub as she's remote for now. It's the Obedience App by Embrace. It's on an app store and has a red collar and padlock for a label. Lest yo get the one for your dog by mistake.

Assigning tasks, in my case they are health habits or some other sub building affirmation. The sub earns points that can be used to purchase special rewards or banked to recieve a special reward when you meet FTF.

There are punishments you build. Deducting points, requiring some kind of penance, etc.

Mine often spends hers for guided masturbatory training as an example.

Added In Edit: This teaches a sub how to maintain discipline, become habitual in their habits and be obedient even when you're apart. Mine loves it. She found it.

 

[Tallcajun]

There's an app I use with my sub as she's remote for now. It's the Obedience App by Embrace. It's on an app store and has a red collar and padlock for a label. Lest yo get the one for your dog by mistake.

Assigning tasks, in my case they are health habits or some other sub building affirmation. The sub earns points that can be used to purchase special rewards or banked to recieve a special reward when you meet FTF.

There are punishments you build. Deducting points, requiring some kind of penance, etc.

Mine often spends hers for guided masturbatory training as an example.

Added In Edit: This teaches a sub how to maintain discipline, become habitual in their habits and be obedient even when you're apart. Mine loves it. She found it.

Agreed.
I once had an online submissive that lived in a ‘pig sty’. I would task her to clean and gave her time frames to complete. There was reward or consequences to face.

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

Then there was this one:

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/shoe-fetish.1294744/post-101385940

 

[Darkweather]

I have read quite a few accounts of wardrobe control, especially underwear. Some doms like to have no panty days for their sub, others like to control exactly which panties/bras they wear. One way to do that is to have her create a panty/bra/lingerie catalog for you. Pictures of each maybe pictures of her wearing each. A daily task of you choosing her undergarments along with a picture of her wearing them before she leaves the house. This all works well for an online situation even when living with roommates etc.

Thanks for the ideas! I know some of her underwear wardrobe but hadn't though of her cataloging it so I could decide which for her to wear easier. I also had her 'fantasy' shop for lingerie that she would wear to a first inspection, so have some idea which way to direct for new purchases or occasions.

If she has sex toys, make sure you know exactly what she owns. If she doesn't, have her acquire some at your direction. Just having to buy something like that will be thrilling/terrifying for her. Obviously the next step is directed use/play with said toys. You are only limited by your imagination. If funds are an issue, instead send her on a hunt for common household objects that can be used as sex toys or for self administration of pain, spanking etc, also of course, at your direction.

She doesn't have toys, but I have introduced her to the delights of an electric toothbrush which was a hit. I am also making an inventory of hair clips, clothes pins make up paraphernalia etc. that will certainly be coming in useful!

I like the temporary tattoo idea too! We are definitely going to be having some fun!

 

[Darkweather]

When I was long distance, I had a specific color I had to be wearing at all times. I found it very effective and easy to execute for the D as well, more so than having to pick (parts of) an outfit every day. Because life happens and there may be days when the D won’t be able to pick what to wear, or won’t be able to do it in time, or something. It’s nice to have something steady to fall back on.

It was a small thing, no one would ever think anything of it, but it did require some planning on my part each day. So each day I felt the control and made an active choice to follow through.

And a general reminder, before you set her out for any flashing/streaking types of tasks, please be mindful of other people, the outsiders who haven’t consented to be a part of your games.

Thanks for the great suggestion. Having a standing order like a particular colour item of clothing each day would be good.

Absolutely agree on being mindful of public tasks. I keep it at no risk to all.

 

[Darkweather]

There's an app I use with my sub as she's remote for now. It's the Obedience App by Embrace. It's on an app store and has a red collar and padlock for a label. Lest yo get the one for your dog by mistake.

I didn't know such an app existed so I will def. be checking it out! Thanks!