talking to men in real life

[muycurioso]

Thanks to this forum, now when I talk to a guy my age or so, or he makes it a point to talk to me, I wonder if he is bi-curious too. Heck the same with younger guys talk to, or talk to me.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Yes

Thanks to this forum, now when I talk to a guy my age or so, or he makes it a point to talk to me, I wonder if he is bi-curious too. Heck the same with younger guys talk to, or talk to me.

Yes… he is bisexual. He's wondering if you're the same...

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

It would be interesting to find out somehow if there were any guys you know we're curious too but keep the feeling to themselves too. It isn't something can comes up in a conversation.

 

[bikurinpa]

I was always told, eye contact is the best que but eye contact is very hard for me to pick up on!
I am sure there is a lot of other men out there that we are around every day who have same thoughts but just like me, they dont know how to bring it up or express it.

 

[carln3346]

Thanks to this forum, now when I talk to a guy my age or so, or he makes it a point to talk to me, I wonder if he is bi-curious too. Heck the same with younger guys talk to, or talk to me.

I've been doing this for a few years now - getting more comfortable with it as I get older. I still can't tell for sure if he's interested, but I'm starting to get better at 'semi flirting' if that's a real thing for men . . .

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

It would be interesting to find out somehow if there were any guys you know we're curious too but keep the feeling to themselves too. It isn't something can comes up in a conversation.

BUT IT IS--, something that comes up in conversation. Every time a comment is made about this girl or that girl or "whats he trying to prove".
Just as "SEX" is the biggest thing on YOUR (collectively speaking) mind(s) it is the BIGGEST THING ON THEIR MIND TOO.
The same way that you try to work sexual innuendo's into your conversation to determine 'how far' you can press a subject before the other person flinches or backs off. You can rest assured that 'they' are trying to do the same thing.
And just because the person your conversating with DOES back off the subject or changes the subject doesn't necessarily mean that they are figuratively running form the subject-, but perhaps their wanting to see how far you are willing to pursue a subject so that they can try gauge your interest.

But the point I'm trying to make is that YES-, it does come in conversation is just that we don't or aren't willing to take that step, to confirm or deny their suspicions.

 

[cuck72]

I worked with this black friend a few year ago, I'm talking like 5 or 6 years ago, and we've known each other for over 10 years.. I know he liked white women, he's had a couple of white GF's. We are both older men, he's mid 50's I'm mid 60's. And we would like talking shit about stuff, and giving each other a hard time.

Anyway, he use to like being touchy feely with me, messing around with me a lot. I'd be standing next to him at work and he'd like put his big black hand on the lower part of my back, like just above the crack of my butt. Then there was times he would grab my hand and pull it towards his crotch. He liked doing this gay messing around shit with me. I'd always say, get the fuck out of here, and pull away, but not in a mad tone. I just didn't want others around us to think I liked it, I felt a little embarrassed.

OH MAN! I'd go home from work, and masturbate a lot thinking of a fantasy of sucking his BBC. I'm retired now, and he works part time at this car wash. So I still see him and we talk at times when I get my car washed. I like going over there and seeing him with my submissive gay fantasies in my head. I just wonder if he was just being a cocky ass messing with me at work, OR! if he had real thoughts of me being like a bottom bitch for him. I'm afraid of asking him, and don't know if I'd be grossed out sucking his BBC, He's a big like 6' 3" 260lbs black bear looking guy. I tell myself I'd love it though. Like I said I masturbate a lot, thinking of him either fucking my wife, or me being his bitch.

 

[Nekidinaz]

I think it depends....

It would be interesting to find out somehow if there were any guys you know we're curious too but keep the feeling to themselves too. It isn't something can comes up in a conversation.

...on how well one knows the other person. I think the better I know someone, the more likely I am to have a more "open" conversation about my own "curiosities"...I've found some "curious" guys are just that, curious...while others, like myself, are willing to explore those curiosities a little more, either in conversation or by actually talking about and arranging to meet up and explore some. I think the least "threatening" scenario for me is to have fun talking about and maybe even suggesting sometime doing some mutual masturbation...

Not everyone who is "curious" is going to want to act on their curiosity but I bet you'd be surprised how many are

 

[carln3346]

...on how well one knows the other person. I think the better I know someone, the more likely I am to have a more "open" conversation about my own "curiosities".. and maybe even suggesting sometime doing some mutual masturbation...

Not everyone who is "curious" is going to want to act on their curiosity but I bet you'd be surprised how many are

If you get to talking about masturbation, guys will either quickly back off and change the subject, or complain about how often they have to do it because wife won't put out. I tend to think the latter group might be curious . . .

 

[muycurioso]

I've been doing this for a few years now - getting more comfortable with it as I get older. I still can't tell for sure if he's interested, but I'm starting to get better at 'semi flirting' if that's a real thing for men . . .

flirting a bit is a good way to put it