Talking Dirty

[rgraham666]

Amen!!!

And Doc, if a guy said to me, "I'm going to nail your ass to the bed with my cock so you won't get away again," I'd totally lose it. Wow. *fans self*

(Puts a star after this note)

 

[Aurora Black]

Degrading name calling arouses nothing in me except my temper.

I prefer to be the one doing the dirty talking during lovemaking, asking things like how I feel to him, if he likes what I'm doing, etc. I love it when he gets excited from my moans and words as I tell him what I want him to do to me, and I absolutely crave the rough animal sounds of the groans he makes as I suck and fuck him senseless.

Time for a cold shower.

 

[Raine D8]

I don't like to be called bitch, whore, slut or any of those kind of names. That isn't for us.

But what I love is when my husband holds my wrists above my head, then leans in and whispers what he's going to do to my body next. He calmly discusses which part of me he's going to start with, what positions I'll end up in, the condition of certain spanked parts, etc.

Such a turn on. I'm writhing, he's stoking the fires.

And except for holding me down, he isn't even touching me. Not yet, anyway.

Yum.

Dare I suggest that the whispered, and yet very even toned commanding word is mightier than the filthy slut?

Your hubby sounds like a powerful Femme Domme who know what she's doing.

 

[CharleyH]

For women who like to hear dirty talk during sex-- What kind of thing do you like to hear? Is there a common theme or emotion behind it, or will any sort of obscene babbling fit the bill?

For example: I've heard some women say they like to hear the man say how much he wants them, his desire being so extreme that his words break all the conventional taboos. Other have said they want to hear obscene descriptions of what he's going to do to them. Some like being called names like slut and whore, others hate it.

What does it for you?

Dirty talk is simply that and it is not nice, it is, quite frankly offensive on most levels, but it turns one on. Think of a ghetto and "forget the prudishness you cunt ... bitch, whore, slut, I'm going to do things to you that you can't imagine, that you've never experienced in your filthy, frugal little life, even if you've been fucked more times than ... a pig."

This is extreme, but dirty talk is extreme. It's getting to the base of what the lover feels - how do they feel dirty and less than you? I think a Dom/mme is a psycholgist of sorts, which is why people submit in part to them.

Dirty talk can also be gender and racial specific, I think. One feels dirty either because of what they look like (race/religion based), where they came from (trailer/Bel Air), what they do (career), how they are inside (lie to selves or honest) or how they had been abused, so ... carefulness is necessary with subs, and knowing a lovers passion and boundaries is what is important - kinda . (I prefer other phrases and approaches, but such is me).

Being a Dom, I know you understand this.

You will have to ask me in PM what I like with a real dirty taking "man".


Charley

 

[Guest]

Dare I suggest that the whispered, and yet very even toned commanding word is mightier than the filthy slut?

Your hubby sounds like a powerful Femme Domme who know what she's doing.

(I am very blessed.)

 

[CharleyH]

(I am very blessed.)

With a gay boy

 

[Boota]

I was with a girl once who wanted me to talk dirty to her. That seems like a very personal thing, to know what she wanted to hear. I didn't really know her well enough to be fucking her, much less what she wanted said while I did it. She insisted, though. The only thing I could think to do was to go back and recite dialogue from the last porno movie I had seen.

"You like my black dick, don't ya, baby?"

Me being white, I kind of think that threw her.

 

[Aurora Black]

I was with a girl once who wanted me to talk dirty to her. That seems like a very personal thing, to know what she wanted to hear. I didn't really know her well enough to be fucking her, much less what she wanted said while I did it. She insisted, though. The only thing I could think to do was to go back and recite dialogue from the last porno movie I had seen.

"You like my black dick, don't ya, baby?"

Me being white, I kind of think that threw her.

*tea spew*

 

[Guest]

With a gay boy

Tramp.

I never did chide you for your PM solitication with Zoot.

Naughty, naughty girl.

 

[CharleyH]

I was with a girl once who wanted me to talk dirty to her. That seems like a very personal thing, to know what she wanted to hear. I didn't really know her well enough to be fucking her, much less what she wanted said while I did it. She insisted, though. The only thing I could think to do was to go back and recite dialogue from the last porno movie I had seen.

"You like my black dick, don't ya, baby?"

Me being white, I kind of think that threw her.

ROFLOL! lol great story. lol.

 

[Guest]

I was with a girl once who wanted me to talk dirty to her. That seems like a very personal thing, to know what she wanted to hear. I didn't really know her well enough to be fucking her, much less what she wanted said while I did it. She insisted, though. The only thing I could think to do was to go back and recite dialogue from the last porno movie I had seen.

"You like my black dick, don't ya, baby?"

Me being white, I kind of think that threw her.

BWAH!!!