Talking Dirty

[dr_mabeuse]

For women who like to hear dirty talk during sex-- What kind of thing do you like to hear? Is there a common theme or emotion behind it, or will any sort of obscene babbling fit the bill?

For example: I've heard some women say they like to hear the man say how much he wants them, his desire being so extreme that his words break all the conventional taboos. Other have said they want to hear obscene descriptions of what he's going to do to them. Some like being called names like slut and whore, others hate it.

What does it for you?

 

[Guest]

I don't like to be called bitch, whore, slut or any of those kind of names. That isn't for us.

But what I love is when my husband holds my wrists above my head, then leans in and whispers what he's going to do to my body next. He calmly discusses which part of me he's going to start with, what positions I'll end up in, the condition of certain spanked parts, etc.

Such a turn on. I'm writhing, he's stoking the fires.

And except for holding me down, he isn't even touching me. Not yet, anyway.

Yum.

 

[impressive]

I don't like to be called bitch, whore, slut or any of those kind of names. That isn't for us.

But what I love is when my husband holds my wrists above my head, then leans in and whispers what he's going to do to my body next. He calmly discusses which part of me he's going to start with, what positions I'll end up in, the condition of certain spanked parts, etc.

Such a turn on. I'm writhing, he's stoking the fires.

And except for holding me down, he isn't even touching me. Not yet, anyway.

Yum.

That works. *nods*

 

[rgraham666]

(furiously scribbles notes)

 

[impressive]

(furiously scribbles notes)

Write this down: The humiliation & name calling bit does NOTHING for me. I don't need to be "released" or "freed" or given some sort of permission to get off or be my whole damned slutty self.

Now, tell me what you're gonna do -- in as much detail as you choose -- and I'm lovin' it. Tell me what you'd like me to do -- or how you feel about what I'm doing -- using words or grunts or whimpers or growls -- and I won't stop 'til you pull me off you or pass out.

 

[CrimsonMaiden]

Now, tell me what you're gonna do -- in as much detail as you choose -- and I'm lovin' it. Tell me what you'd like me to do -- or how you feel about what I'm doing -- using words or grunts or whimpers or growls -- and I won't stop 'til you pull me off you or pass out.

Yep, this is what I'd like to experience. Unfortunately, the SO has not a clue how to pull it off.

 

[rgraham666]

Write this down: The humiliation & name calling bit does NOTHING for me. I don't need to be "released" or "freed" or given some sort of permission to get off or be my whole damned slutty self.

Now, tell me what you're gonna do -- in as much detail as you choose -- and I'm lovin' it. Tell me what you'd like me to do -- or how you feel about what I'm doing -- using words or grunts or whimpers or growls -- and I won't stop 'til you pull me off you or pass out.

In other words, just do what comes naturally.

 

[Guest]

Write this down: The humiliation & name calling bit does NOTHING for me. I don't need to be "released" or "freed" or given some sort of permission to get off or be my whole damned slutty self.

Now, tell me what you're gonna do -- in as much detail as you choose -- and I'm lovin' it. Tell me what you'd like me to do -- or how you feel about what I'm doing -- using words or grunts or whimpers or growls -- and I won't stop 'til you pull me off you or pass out.

Indeed.

He isn't as interested in listening to my spoken plans for him, by the way. He'll indulge me, but he prefers my actions to words. So I oblige him.

And oh, how I love to hear a big man groan.

 

[Belegon]

Write this down: The humiliation & name calling bit does NOTHING for me. I don't need to be "released" or "freed" or given some sort of permission to get off or be my whole damned slutty self.

Now, tell me what you're gonna do -- in as much detail as you choose -- and I'm lovin' it. Tell me what you'd like me to do -- or how you feel about what I'm doing -- using words or grunts or whimpers or growls -- and I won't stop 'til you pull me off you or pass out.

Rob, I'm with you...meaning that I'm taking notes.

 

[Bridget69]

I don't like the vulgar names either, but I do like descriptions of what he wants to do to me, as well as what he wants done to himself.

 

[BBWetKitty]

Different moods command different words.

If I'm feeling submissive, it makes my heart race to feel him clasp my wrists and growl in my ear what delicious things he's going to do to me in the most graphic detail. I want to hear that I'm his possession while his hand grasps my hair and pulls my head back. I want him to call me a slut, cunt, naughty pussy, at those times. It "makes it" for me.

If I'm feeling romantic, those whispers of "I really want to be inside of you... I am aching for you" that make me quiver and shiver with lust. The whisper of how good I taste followed by a kiss. That, also "makes it" for me.

Then of course, if he teases and mixes both up, well then it's curtains for me.

 

[MarkDouglas38FL]

response

"If I'm feeling submissive, it makes my heart race to feel him clasp my wrists and growl in my ear what delicious things he's going to do to me in the most graphic detail. I want to hear that I'm his possession ..."

mmmmmMMMmm

and what would you say back to your lover in response, once you feel as if your being overcome by sweet surrender? how would you let him know he's that you're ripe with lust?

 

[Richard_Smith]

Maybe Slightly Off Topic

On the subject of talking during sex…

Isn’t one of the major drawbacks of being an Atheist the fact that when one achieves an orgasm, he/she would have no one to talk to?

 

[BBWetKitty]

On the subject of talking during sex…

Isn’t one of the major drawbacks of being an Atheist the fact that when one achieves an orgasm, he/she would have no one to talk to?

are you saying the atheist doesn't talk to himself when he masturbates?

 

[Richard_Smith]

are you saying the atheist doesn't talk to himself when he masturbates?

No, no.

I'm saying that if one were an Atheist, at the critical moment whose name does he/she call out?

"Oh, No-One-Is-There, Oh, No-One-Is-There. Yes-Yes-Yes. Oh, NO-ONE-IS-THERE!"

????

 

[Guest]

Hmmmm

This depends on the mood...

Slow and Gentle...
I love hearing what he wants to do to me and with me, the gentle love words the softness and the tender, I love his hands all over my touching me and stroking me until I just cannot take it anymore and I am begging him to finish

Hot, Hard, Rough....
I want to be held down, fucked, owned, dirty names and obscene language just makes me wildly hot when I am this mood... then again bend me over the bed and just take me does it for me as well when I am in this mood

Migraine time....
Hard, hot, wild taking... nothing verbal even registers... all my body craves is the unending wildness of the taking and the release

 

[human_male]

How am I doing, fuckface? Works every time.

That's not mine actually, there's a comedian. I forget his name.

 

[asian_princess]

For women who like to hear dirty talk during sex-- What kind of thing do . Some like being called names like slut

They do? ... LOL well, let me tell you...being one of them, some of us sure do But two months ago? I would've given you a different answer to that question...but dynamics can change so dramatically in different relationship that sometimes what gets you off...just plain surprises you. But what does is it for me is being called "HIS little slut", the dichotomy of being lust filled, sex crazed but being reigned in, belonging only to him speaks nicely to my submissive side.

Other than that, there's nothing like the build up of anticipation, soft whispered words mixing with his hot breath against my neck as he describes to me word for word how he's going to make me cum like i've never cum before.

As for me, i've always gotten the best response and reactions when i phrase things in the form of a question...um, kinda like,(ahem, excuse the cliches)
"dont you want me to slide my wet hot tongue all over your hard throbbing cock until you beg me to slide my lips over you, suck you, fuck you with my mouth...?" ...there's nothing like the throaty, moany "yes" you get back...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I just think it depends on the scene.

 

[MissBri]

 

[English Lady]

Oh, i love dirty talk, and my husband, wow, he is good at it.

I love to be called slut and whore and dirty/naughty little girl and all kinds of combinations of the above. I especially love him saying "your my hot, sexy slut." marking me as his, I like to know he wants me and that he wants me so much it drives him wild.

I also like the descriptives of what he wants to do with me or to me but we don't tend to whisper those much, our dirty talk tends towards telling stories. He will whisper in my ear a deep, dark personal fantasy which he knows will get me off. He doesn't tend to do this during penetrative sex but when he is getting me off with his fingers, he'll more often than not be whispering a really dirty fantasy in my ear...oh yeah baby! It stimulates my imagination as well as my body and I go into over drive.

My husband loves to hear dirty talk from me too, again, if I'm getting him off with my hands I'll often tell him a tale that i know will drive him wild. I'll call him names, he likes to be my slut too. *grins*

 

[impressive]

He doesn't tend to do this during penetrative sex but when he is getting me off with his fingers, he'll more often than not be whispering a really dirty fantasy in my ear...oh yeah baby!

Nice.

 

[MissBri]

 

[Selena_Kitt]

I like being called a slut, a whore, even the "c" word... that's actually one of my favorites <grin>... but it has to be in context... I don't like the sense or feeling of being used, of being an object... although I do love rough sex and am incredibly submissive... I want to know that the words, whatever they are, are being spoken with love, if that makes sense. It don't mean the sweet, romantic kind... I mean that we are deeply connecting in the moment...

and anything with "my" in front of it... oh yes... my little cock whore... my fuck slut... you name it... love it... I love when he takes possession...

We used to do sexual fantasies together, hot whispered stories in the dark... but now it's much more about being in the moment, and with each other... so the talk turns more to the physical... what it feels like, what we're experiencing... I don't like the "prelude to sex" talk... "I'm gonna do this next and this after that"... I find it gets so wrapped up in the fantasy that I start to feel like, "then do it already!"lol but I enjoy hearing his responses, especially to my body, "I love your tits" or "your cunt tastes so fucking sweet." yumm...

and I, personally, love to talk dirty... and he seems to really respond when I do... which just creates that delicious spiral of rising arousal...

 

[Guest]