Talking Dirty

[LovelyNicole]

Hello Everyone,
I have been seeing this guy and he wants me to talk dirty to him during sex.....The problem is I really don't know what to say. So I was wondering if someone out there could give me a few pointers and or examples.

Thanks in advance,
Nicole

 

[badbabysitter]

alaways praise his dick, lol

even if you've had bigger.use this line

' oh god..i love your big fucking dick'

always seems to work

 

[RavenousRae]

Well I think one of the easiest ways is to think about what turns you on or what you enjoy about being intimate with him and then say it - exactely as it is going through your mind. I highly suggest reading some of the stories on this site - they will give you lots of pointers and inspiration!

 

[SweetErika]

There were several threads on this very topic in here recently. Try a search and see if you can pull them up...they had detailed advice.

Also, check out The Blank Manual sticky at the top of this forum...I'm willing to bet Blue Sugar has something on talking dirty in there!

 

[herecomestherain]

LovelyNicole you may enjoy Violet Blue's article on the subject at tinynibbles.com,

http://tinynibbles.com/dirtytalk.html

 

[GeorgeWBush]

I had a girl do this while we were having sex.

Oh name here fuck me hard shove that cock in me shove it in deep do it oh do it now.

Or she would say o h name here lick my cunt suck my clit stick that tounge in my cunt thats it oh god yes.

Just think of things like that when you are with him and he wants you to talk dirty.

Good luck and have fun.

 

[tigerjen]

Pick up ideas for dirty talk from erotic stories!

 

[LovelyNicole]

Thanks to everyone for all of the great links and sugesstions.

 

[Guest]

Pick up ideas for dirty talk from erotic stories!

Exactly!

But really, when men usually say that, they want to be praised. It gets them off. And as a woman, I love to talk dirty. I just started a new relationship, so I'm taking 'that' part slow. I wouldn't want to shock him and say "Damn it, just bend me over, and fucked me, would ya? " LMAO!!

Mm...you taste good.

Your mouth just knows how to eat my pussy (moan)

I like it when you...ect.

I could go on, but I'm going to get horny

 

[jeforest]

I really don't think it's a big deal for him... even if he says so.

I too wanted my wife to talk dirty while we were having sex but her dilemma was the same as yours... she didn't know what to say. Once she admitted to me that the way I talked to her during sex drove her wild that was enough for me.

One: I was talking the way I wanted which in itself turned me on.

Two: The fact that it turned her on as well compensated for her lack of verbal participation.

 

[lisasmurf]

leason to any rap songs they got all the words on them

guys like it yes

like put that big d ck in me you stud
F ck me and make it hurt
it does take much,, it all in his head

when his small ishead hard it doesn't take most to make him happy....
read some of the stories on this


http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=72904
sure you find more

 

[SmilinAngel]

When you're new at talking dirty, it's best to start of slow and work you're way up, like this:

That feels so good
Your dick feels so good inside me
I want to feel your dick in deeper
My pussy loves being wrapped around your dick
My pussy is so tight for your thick, throbbing dick
Fuck my tight pussy with your big dick

So forth and so on ... that way, you can start of semi-innocent, and get more "dirty" as he/you get into it. Hope that helps and good luck!

 

[VirginDebs]

Ive never spoke dirty, but when my guy was rubbing my clit he was telling me how he'd get another guy to fuck me while his cock was in my mouth..and god it made my orgasm come so much quicker!

 

[Meat Whistler]

Hello Everyone,
I have been seeing this guy and he wants me to talk dirty to him during sex.....The problem is I really don't know what to say. So I was wondering if someone out there could give me a few pointers and or examples.

Thanks in advance,
Nicole

First of all, I think it's great that he expressed his desire for you to talk dirty to him. Secondly, there has been some great advice already, so I'm only going to provide my input with what others have said.

I would definitely suggest you think about what you desire sexually, think about what you enjoy sexually, and compliment him with your words. In addition, you can easily search through erotic stories for ideas and watch porn for some ideas.

I believe that sexual talk/dirty talk can make a huge difference in sex.

If you're nervous about it, perhaps you could have a glass or two of wine/liquor to where you're simply more relaxed than normal and able to express your dirty side.

 

[MissLusty]

Where to start...there are so many thinks one can say.

Descriptions are a fairly easy thing to do. Describes how he feels, what you want him to do to you, what you want to do to him, descibe what he tastes like, smells.

You could talk about how he's so deep inside you, how his cock is big and hard.

Guys like flattery when it comes to their penises, so the more the better.

Name calling is fairly effective in dirty talk but this is a bit riskier as you have to find the right phrase.

He'll love to hear about how the things that he's doing are affecting you, such as he's making you so wet it's dripping down your thighs.

He may even like to hear one of your fantasies, you can tell him that you've always wanted to experiment with another girl. That you've always been curious about how her skin would feel and what it would feel like as you brush your bodies together.

 

[jnd_rn]

Be Prepared!

Being new here, I'm still a little shy to even use those "dirty" words in posts. Honestly, after reading stories and posts here, I'm pretty embarrassed! :0 A friend of mine sent me this website to help me get out of my “innocent” sex life and thinks my Honey would appreciate the new information! Very Interesting stuff here! HeHeHe

My Honey and I have always had an average sex life, OK but pretty much the same all the time. I’m a little embarrassed to do anything different in fear that he may not like it. About 2 months ago, after a few wines and we were making love I did blurt out a bit of nasty talk. It shocked him and I so much we both started laughing. He wasn’t laughing at me at all, it was just really different for me to talk that way and surprised him. The job still got done and all was fine, but it was pretty funny. He’s asked me to do it again, but I haven’t been able to find the right words at the right time. It’s OK to laugh and have fun with sex, but I really don’t want a laugh-fest every time I do something out of the ordinary for me.

 

[SweetErika]

Being new here, I'm still a little shy to even use those "dirty" words in posts. Honestly, after reading stories and posts here, I'm pretty embarrassed! :0 A friend of mine sent me this website to help me get out of my “innocent” sex life and thinks my Honey would appreciate the new information! Very Interesting stuff here! HeHeHe

My Honey and I have always had an average sex life, OK but pretty much the same all the time. I’m a little embarrassed to do anything different in fear that he may not like it. About 2 months ago, after a few wines and we were making love I did blurt out a bit of nasty talk. It shocked him and I so much we both started laughing. He wasn’t laughing at me at all, it was just really different for me to talk that way and surprised him. The job still got done and all was fine, but it was pretty funny. He’s asked me to do it again, but I haven’t been able to find the right words at the right time. It’s OK to laugh and have fun with sex, but I really don’t want a laugh-fest every time I do something out of the ordinary for me.

Welcome...get comfortable and have fun!

We've laughed over dirty talk as well. Apart from the suggestions above, one of the things that helped both of us get over our inhibitions and fend off giggling was a little role play. For instance, you could take a more dominant role (add a few touches like restraints, a blindfold, or pinning him down), and use words to tease him and make him tell you exactly what he wants (then you can expand on that) and vice versa. Because you're "acting" even just a little bit, you have license to be more wild and do things you wouldn't normally do in support of the role you're playing.

 

[TheCentaur]

Well I think one of the easiest ways is to think about what turns you on or what you enjoy about being intimate with him and then say it - exactely as it is going through your mind.

From a guy's perspective, this is some of the best advice. I love dirty talk as long as its an honest expression of how the woman is feeling. Don't say what you think he'd like to hear, say what turns you on. And don't be afraid to push your boundaries a bit.

 

[sweatinganal]

How ironic it is that I 'cum' upon this thread only to see the very topic that was addressed by my wife last night. Literally.

I was having a hard time getting it up after jelq'ing (going to try and see if the penis exercise do in fact increase the size of the penis...my wife said my penis definitely felt a little bigger, so who knows), so she started talking about a fantasy that she's had.

Just hearing her say "and you dance around my asshole a little bit with your tongue. I want you to just stick it anywhere, but you won't. You then put your cock in just a little bit, enough to tease me". In no time I was cumming away.

What makes it especially hot for my wife and I is that she USED to be a heavily religious girl. She had never had sex (let alone a man seeing her naked) until I got to her just after her 34th birthday) before she met me, and NEVER would use words like asshole, cock and the like. Now she's really starting to get into it all, and I'm one very lucky man.

 

[EJFan]

I had a girl do this while we were having sex.

Oh name here fuck me hard shove that cock in me shove it in deep do it oh do it now.

Or she would say o h name here lick my cunt suck my clit stick that tounge in my cunt thats it oh god yes.

Just think of things like that when you are with him and he wants you to talk dirty.

Good luck and have fun.

i had a woman do this once... but she actually said "name here". next time i paid the extra $20.

 

[coffee_girl]

I have found that the best thing to say is "I like it when you..." That way you're letting him know what you like (which is always a good thing, but not always easy) and it's being cleverly disguised as dirty talk

 

[Eilan]

This was a bit of an issue for me when my husband and I got together. My ex-husband was the only other person I'd ever had sex with up to that point, and we just didn't talk dirty to each other. My ex thought it was disrespectful.

What worked for me at first was echoing, or rephrasing, what he'd said to me. Not word-for-word, of course; sometimes I'd turn what he said into a question. I found, though, that we were generally so caught up in the moment that it really didn't matter what we said to each other. It got easier every time.

Don't try to get TOO creative, though. My hubby and I were joking the other night about really funny things we could say to each other during sex. He completely cracked me up when he suggested that I take a ride on his "blood-gorged fuckpole." It's DEFINITELY best to keep it simple!

 

[kitten8668]

Indeed, simple is good.

A short, sweet "FUCK ME" always works wonders. And that can be embellished with so many other words and descriptions...

Oh, and announce when you're cumming.

Just the other day, I said this, in the middle of intercourse:

Me--Come ON!
Him--Huh? (He's never heard much from me before since we've only slept together a few times.)
Me--FUCK me. Do it.
He frantically started pumping, which spurred an orgasm for me.
Me--Oh yeah, I'm cumming all over your hard cock.
And....he blew his load immediately.

Hehe.

 

[herecomestherain]

I just remembered...

...this article, here at Lit by BatsandGlamour on dirty talk -

http://english.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=72904

 

[cjbj]

talk

I enjoy being told of past experiences. Or even what or whom she's seen that excites her. Fantasies are nice and even being told about her last bout of masterbation. Hard talk of oh your so big is just so cliched, almost makes me wanna stop. Tell him what excites you.