Talking Dirty

[Celtic Princess]

I used to talk dirty to my guy all the time....its :coughs delicately: stimulating to say the least for me.
However, it's just not the same when "ohhh baby, i love it when you fuck me like that, you're cock feels sooooo good. My pussy is dripping for you" gets met with silence. It's almost like an awkard pause. Such a turn off. oh and the always popular "yeah?".


I'm working on it though.

and i do have to say, that with his other attributes, i don't really notice the talking thing......::grinning widely::

 

[kaoskytton]

Yeah? Yeah? ~said to the beat of the dancing banana~

Hahah...I know exactly what you mean. It's almost like the feeling of lust deflating, no? Like missing the punchline of a joke or the last beat of a song. Catching the touchdown is important too! I mean, some subtle grunting or something is better than ignoring it.

 

[Celtic Princess]

Yeah? Yeah? ~said to the beat of the dancing banana~

Hahah...I know exactly what you mean. It's almost like the feeling of lust deflating, no? Like missing the punchline of a joke or the last beat of a song. Catching the touchdown is important too! I mean, some subtle grunting or something is better than ignoring it.

LOL~ someone who can relate I know most guys aren't known for their stimulating conversation, and if I had to pick between talking and a better orgasam I know I'll be picking the better orgasam. However, in true Princess mode, I want it all.

 

[kaoskytton]

That dancing banana is fucking hypnotic, isn't it? I feel somehow dirty for watching it for so long.

Yeah, talking dirty really sends me over the edge. I mean, I can make myself come easily, but I can't talk dirty to myself...well, I can, but I have to slum it on a New York streetcorner and twitch a lot in order not to get arrested.

Maybe it's the writer in me but words have some power, I can never forget them. My friend and I had to make a decision and we flipped a coin; he said he'd use a Georgia quarter because my ass looks like a peach. You know I carried a Georgia quarter in the bottom of my purse for like, two weeks? You can be hungry for the cock, pussy, or plastic love, but what each person says to you, I think is as unique as their fingerprint, from the sound of their voice to the way the way their voice changes in the activity of sex itself to...oh I have to stop myself. Can't type so well with one hand.

Anyway, my point is, it's 50/50 with me. A gorgeous car is just a $150,000 doorstop if it doesn't start. The equipment isn't the whole ride...then again, no meat=no man.

 

[Celtic Princess]

That dancing banana is fucking hypnotic, isn't it? I feel somehow dirty for watching it for so long.

Yeah, talking dirty really sends me over the edge. I mean, I can make myself come easily, but I can't talk dirty to myself...well, I can, but I have to slum it on a New York streetcorner and twitch a lot in order not to get arrested.

Maybe it's the writer in me but words have some power, I can never forget them. My friend and I had to make a decision and we flipped a coin; he said he'd use a Georgia quarter because my ass looks like a peach. You know I carried a Georgia quarter in the bottom of my purse for like, two weeks? You can be hungry for the cock, pussy, or plastic love, but what each person says to you, I think is as unique as their fingerprint, from the sound of their voice to the way the way their voice changes in the activity of sex itself to...oh I have to stop myself. Can't type so well with one hand.

Anyway, my point is, it's 50/50 with me. A gorgeous car is just a $150,000 doorstop if it doesn't start. The equipment isn't the whole ride...then again, no meat=no man.

*reflecting thoughfully* Damn! You are so right..... And I get "yeah?". Definitely going to have to work on this a little harder. Maybe telling him I'm only going to do what he tells me to (only for the night- I'm not into a serious Dom. complex) will inspire him.
*racing away from the pc to find her guy*

 

[kaoskytton]

I find that kink usually brings out the voice in people. It depends on what you're into, though. Setting a stage, as opposed to Pleasantville bedroom sex with the two twin beds pushed together in anticipation of 15 minutes of copulation isn't going to cut it.

Personally, I have a problem with familiarity, because you get stuck in a routine. It's really hard to fuck the brains out of someone who calls you "muffin," "baby," "pookie," "honey," "dear," etc. So, if you can't have distance, weekend love affairs, role-playing's my deal. But it doesn't have to be little maid outfits, either.

Also, people tend to be more open about their fantasies (and thus more expressive and vocal about their desires) if they feel like they're in a place where it's safe to explore it.

There's a bunch of cheap and easy little things. I like to play a game where I paint my body in a variety of flavors (you can use edible massage oils, essential oils, body shots, even dessert toppings), and make my partner guess each taste. Blindfolding them in this or in most things usually really brings out the beast in people, too, because they're detached from themselves and their insecurities. Just a thought.

Lemme know how it works out!

 

[likaway]

yeah....talking dirty

Oh God! I love to talk dirty and love it when my guy does the same. He can talk about fucking my cunt with his big cock anytime....and he does! He is constantly talking about my cunt and Yes I love it. The word 'cunt' doesn't offend me. That's what I call it when i talk to him. I also love the word 'prick', tho I do use 'cock' most of the time. Love Lisa

 

[lick4her]

Just say what you're thinking -- and if you're not thinking hot things, listen to what the previos posters have said. Also compliment your guy.

I had a previous girlfriend who would repeatedly shout "God, you're so fucking huge" over and over while I was fucking her with me on top. Sure she probably said that to all the guys she'd been with, but it made me feel like a God and really turned me on.

Say words like "cock" and "cunt" to let him know you're "too hot to care".

"Pound your cock into my cunt", "your tongue feels to good on my pussy." Whatever.

Tell him where to come too. "Come in my pussy" "I want to feel your hot come on my tits." "I need your big cock in my mouth 'cause I want to taste your come"

You'll see these what turns your guy on and what doesn't . Just pay attention and keep using the words that he gives good feedback too.

I also think dirty talk stimulate partners to share ideas so be attentive to your guy sharing ideas with your during dirty talk.

And don't limit the dirty talk to the bedroom. Next time your having dinner with friends, lean over and whisper in his ear "I can't wait to feel your cock in my pussy tonight and your come all over my face."

 

[Gus Aspar]

dirty phone calls?

Why don't you phone him during the day, and tell him: "My cunt is dripping wet and I can't wait for you to fuck me! Can I come round now? Mmmm, my panties are dripping wet! What do you think I should do, darling?"

 

[ReadyOne]

Women,

What phases do you wnat to hear? (Besides, "I love you" )

Shoud I start a thread?

 

[CuteJenn]

I want to hear almost the exact thing I'm talking to him about, with all the same key words. And I want direction (mainly so I won't feel self concious), you know "Ride me! Slide that tight wet pussy down onto my cock" etc. Sometimes vulgar names make me hot, though I haven't convinced him to use them yet. Slut is my favourite. Makes me so wet.

 

[Lust Engine]

It's ALL good! To me, this is just additional stimulation to the entire scanario. The dirtier it gets, the hotter I can become. A few prompts of "fuck me harder!" can get me going in a heartbeat. It doesn't take much but when a lover can slip into that naughty mode... it's such a rush!

 

[Guest]

I love to talk dirty...for my lover, it only takes me to say "you feel so fucking good in my pussy", or "slam that cock into me, Baby", and he cums immediately...he also totally loves it when I tell him how much I want to tongue his ass.
For me, he tells me "I'm gonna fuck you like the fucking slut you are", or he calls me "his cumslut", or tells me how he can't wait to "fucking rail me with his huge cock"
The last one that made me breathless was him leaving me a message on my cell saying that he couldn't wait to see me so he could "annihilate me" with his cock.
I fucking love that! The dirtier, the better! It's all good!

 

[Lust Engine]

I love to talk dirty...for my lover, it only takes me to say "you feel so fucking good in my pussy", or "slam that cock into me, Baby", and he cums immediately...he also totally loves it when I tell him how much I want to tongue his ass.
For me, he tells me "I'm gonna fuck you like the fucking slut you are", or he calls me "his cumslut", or tells me how he can't wait to "fucking rail me with his huge cock"
The last one that made me breathless was him leaving me a message on my cell saying that he couldn't wait to see me so he could "annihilate me" with his cock.
I fucking love that! The dirtier, the better! It's all good!

Hoo wee...kinda warm in here alluva sudden!

 

[Carnus]

I have had women tall me everything from a soft whisper in my ear as we made love on how wonderful it was to feel the heat of my skin against hers, to sinking nails in the cheeks of my butt and screaming f$#k me harder dammit, and loved them both, so there really is no magic words or time to say them. My best advice, tell him exactly how you feel, if you feel warm and loving, tell him, if you feel hot, slutty and dirty, tell him that too, just don't worry about being laughed at or about laughing, tell him how you feel and what words are in your heart and mind. That will do more for him than any memorized script you can ever find.


Carnus

 

[lilpriss]

Carnus is right on target...

However we seem to have a difficult time saying what our hearts feel because we don't want them trampled on... naughty or nice, no one wnats to be rejected...

But if you don't go out on a limb, you'll never know if you could have... so you might break a few bones... or hearts, including your own... but that's part of what makes us who we are, doens't it?

 

[Noor]

Carnus is right on target...

However we seem to have a difficult time saying what our hearts feel because we don't want them trampled on... naughty or nice, no one wnats to be rejected...

But if you don't go out on a limb, you'll never know if you could have... so you might break a few bones... or hearts, including your own... but that's part of what makes us who we are, doens't it?

Some people are unwilling to take that chance, unwilling to investigate potential unless it appears to be a logical sure thing. I always figure if I see a possiblity I should take the chance and investigate it, never know what will happen and usually I am pleasantly surprised. Yes, that very much makes me what I am.

I don't think of myself as talking dirty during sex, I think that I am talking normally, just saying what comes to mind, what I am moved to say by my feelings and my partner, I could be more verbal, I think, I am not afraid to say what I feel, I just don't always express it as much as I could.

Noor

 

[Lust Engine]

Some people are unwilling to take that chance, unwilling to investigate potential unless it appears to be a logical sure thing.

Logic & sex??? Sounds like Star Trek Vulcan sex! Personally I'd still prefer the good ol' primal urges of letting it all out!

 

[MagicFingers]

Tanya_Rides_KaosKytton

If you two ever DO get together, please do post the pictures or stories of your encounter! It would be hot, fer sure.

Now, see, their talk about what they do to each other and what they WOULD do to each other are a real turn-on. It's their mental stimulation that got them ready to ravish each other.

So, say whatever you FEEL like saying at the time, not what other people tell you you should say. Say what your partner likes to hear. Start small, work up. He will respond to things he likes, and let you know somehow if he doesn't. If he says something like, "Squeeze my cock with your warm, juicy pussy", and you do just that, he will feel it. And you can reply, "Oh, fuck my wet pussy with your big, hard cock, baby!"
And, if he doesn't respond to THAT, get a live guy!