Talking about desires

[Cream_me]

I've not seen much on Lit about the physiological impact of simply expressing one's fantasies or desires.

It can get me so hot to share what I want in detailed prose. Part of it is clearly the taboo nature of expressing such lewd and wanton desires. It makes me feel dirty and sexy and libidinous.

Then, to think someone might read my words and imagine themselves as my partner - stroking and getting off on them - is enough to send me over the edge sometimes. But even if that's not the case, presenting myself through my words as a sexual being is incredibly hot to me.

Is there any place to just express a need and expunge it from one psyche without having to create an entire story? Does anyone else share this desire?

 

[PapaRomantic]

I think that roleplay can satisfy this, to a certain extent. I also see individuals that start threads for this very reason, to express themselves and their desires - especially if their particular desire has not been covered by another thread.

I also like the idea of being able to use my own imagination when I read the words of someone else who is expressing sexual thoughts, whether that be in story form or in threads or even in private messages. I think with proper authentication, a person can easily be swayed into a sexual mood simply by the words we read, without ever speaking personally to that person or seeing what they look like. I have a feeling that when I read someone else's words and put my own imagination to it, we likely have two different visions of each other, but there's nothing wrong with that.

 

[Replicant2018]

I've not seen much on Lit about the physiological impact of simply expressing one's fantasies or desires.

It can get me so hot to share what I want in detailed prose. Part of it is clearly the taboo nature of expressing such lewd and wanton desires. It makes me feel dirty and sexy and libidinous.

Then, to think someone might read my words and imagine themselves as my partner - stroking and getting off on them - is enough to send me over the edge sometimes. But even if that's not the case, presenting myself through my words as a sexual being is incredibly hot to me.

Is there any place to just express a need and expunge it from one psyche without having to create an entire story? Does anyone else share this desire?

As a man in his late 60s, i’d love to see fantasies become reality.

 

[Cream_me]

I suppose I wasn't really clear enough.

Actually, I'm not looking for an email or chat or role play partner. I just like the idea of a fantasy repository. If I'm writing for anyone other than myself, it biases my writing.

I just wish there was some place we could set our fantasy free and let them blow into the universe like a prayer flag.

 

[AlexBailey]

Why not write?

There is only a 750 word minimum for story submissions, no lower limit if it’s under ‘poetry’.

If having someone else look at it is a turn on, if you submit a story you get a count of every time someone has opened your story and you can read any feedback besides. If you aren’t interested in feedback you can disable it too, so there really aren’t any big downsides.

Otherwise you could always start a thread with a title like ‘Talking about desires’...

 

[hulvamulva]

Short of writing or making a video of describing one’s desires, I don’t think there is any other way to achieve what I think you are seeking. Particularly, for me anyway, when the spark and continuance of a sexual narrative requires a certain nuance imparted, so that others do not misinterpret. Knowing that you’ve effected another deeply, as close as possible with your desires, requires details.

 

[SquidProQuo]

Short of writing or making a video of describing one’s desires, I don’t think there is any other way to achieve what I think you are seeking. Particularly, for me anyway, when the spark and continuance of a sexual narrative requires a certain nuance imparted, so that others do not misinterpret. Knowing that you’ve effected another deeply, as close as possible with your desires, requires details.

This thread surprised me. I have always yearned to share my fantasies about my professor I had in college but never got over it. Perhaps I can finally just submit something to Lit to be published. The word minimum is only 750 words yet I never published anything about him except posts about in this forum over the years.

 

[HampshireBoy]

I suppose I wasn't really clear enough.

Actually, I'm not looking for an email or chat or role play partner. I just like the idea of a fantasy repository. If I'm writing for anyone other than myself, it biases my writing.

I just wish there was some place we could set our fantasy free and let them blow into the universe like a prayer flag.

Could you try the story ideas forum?

I have to say that I have quite a few ideas jotted down that have never made it to a published story, some have been shared with others and it turns me on when these people have commented how they "worked" for them.

I struggle to find the time to complete stories to a publishable state but the real turn on for me is twofold
1. The thinking about and creation of the story
2. The thought that others might be turned on by it and the actual feedback

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I've not seen much on Lit about the physiological impact of simply expressing one's fantasies or desires.

It can get me so hot to share what I want in detailed prose. Part of it is clearly the taboo nature of expressing such lewd and wanton desires. It makes me feel dirty and sexy and libidinous.

Then, to think someone might read my words and imagine themselves as my partner - stroking and getting off on them - is enough to send me over the edge sometimes. But even if that's not the case, presenting myself through my words as a sexual being is incredibly hot to me.

Is there any place to just express a need and expunge it from one psyche without having to create an entire story? Does anyone else share this desire?

No there is NO PLACE like you describe under the conditions you describe and the reason being is that regardless of how in depth you want to get or how sparse you want to detail a thing --, you have completed the same thing "an entire story."

 

[Bigaug]

My wife and I have done this and it is very exciting. I remember one night many years ago, we were at a friends place outside having a campfire with about 6 other couples, drinking and smoking. One couple encourages everyone to tell their sexual fantasies, so we go around the campfire, first the guy would go then the woman, it was pretty wild. When it came to my wife and I for some reason I balked, and when my wife started I interrupted and then we started on something else. My wife was pissed at me as she was ready to tell but extremely horny and repeated some of the women's fantasies, so we had a good fuck

 

[Islander55]

My wife and I have done this and it is very exciting. I remember one night many years ago, we were at a friends place outside having a campfire with about 6 other couples, drinking and smoking. One couple encourages everyone to tell their sexual fantasies, so we go around the campfire, first the guy would go then the woman, it was pretty wild. When it came to my wife and I for some reason I balked, and when my wife started I interrupted and then we started on something else. My wife was pissed at me as she was ready to tell but extremely horny and repeated some of the women's fantasies, so we had a good fuck

None of my business but just curious. Why did you balk? I can imagine it being difficult to share fantasies in a group but I sure wish hubby and I had started sharing fantasies years ago.

 

[Bigaug]

I was shocked I did, I thought my wife would be too shy to say anything, I was wrong, that was the same weekend she got naked on my buddies boat ....