Tales of Phone Sex

[lavender]

 

[Mischka]

I'm sorry. I'll stop.

 

[Rambling Rose]

I think you mean CUM, don't you?

 

[Starblayde]

If your SO dowsnt mind, and you want to... I dont see anything wrong with it...

just makes me somewhat jealous thats all

 

[BustyTheClown]

Why do people feel the need to give the graphic details of their phone sex sessions on the board?

Doesn't that impersonalize it? Doesn't it completely take away from the privacy and intimacy of the communication itself?

Why would they think we want to hear about balls that are drained of cum, or the cum that still remains on their chest? Why do they think we want to hear about how wet her pussy was or how good her fingers felt?

In real life, do you go around telling all the intimate details of your sex life to your friends? I tell some people the details of impersonal sex, like with a fuck buddy. But, aren't the intimate details of your sexual relationship with an SO, or someone you care about private?

Baffles me, truly does.

I don't know, I agree with Starblayde in that if it's ok with both people to be sharing, it's up to them. They may even get a kick out of sharing their intimate experiences with other people -- like those who have sex in public, getting turned on by the idea of being caught. This is a sexual board, so to be baffled that people are sharing sexual experiences -- however personal -- is a little strange, lol. Also, to question whether or not anyone would want to hear about others' sexual escapades, wherever they may be, on a sex board is a little strange.

Sharing stuff on these threads is not like sharing stuff in real life. Here people are relatively anonymous and don't have to worry about being judged. It's more of a fantasy forum than a real-life forum, and I know that I share more about myself here than I would to even my best friends. <shrugs> Others may just be very open sexually and not be afraid to tell anyone what they've experienced.

That said, if you don't like the posts about it, or think it's not "right" for people to post such material (although I'm not saying that's what you've concluded), then my suggestion to you would just be to not read such posts. We're all practicing free speech here, and although we can post pretty much anything we want, you certainly don't have to read or like all of it.

 

[Cherry]

Well, Lav

I guess some are just more open than others.

You won't see me describing personal details between me and my big guy ... unless of course, it was some irrisistable little tidbit that fit into the conversation ... but, that's not to say that I don't enjoy reading when somebody else does.

Some like to keep their lovin close to their hearts ... while others like to shout it from the treetops. It all works out to be a matter of preference.

We could all use some practice ... both voyeurism and exhibitionism. Why not give it a try?

Orignally posted by Ms Lavy
I tell some people the details of impersonal sex, like with a fuck buddy.

YOU first!

 

[lobito]

What's phone sex?

 

[Rubyfruit]

I'm sorry. I'll stop.

Thank you, Mischka. It really hurt me when you exposed our love life like that all over lit.

 

[AzureAngel]

Lav,

I'm sorry, but... lets face it. It looks good to complain about it, but I know you enjoy it just as much as anyone can when I start my weekly thread containing vivid detail about my 6 hour phonesex/masturbation marathons. I know you do, so don't try to save face.

As to the intimate details of private relationships, I've personally taken to replacing those billboards on the highway with images of my sexual endeavors with similar graphic language. I'm fiercely proud of it. I see no reason for shame, it's a glorious thing.

You should drive here, sometime. It's one hot highway. Mmf.

 

[Pixie]

If your SO dowsnt mind, and you want to... I dont see anything wrong with it...

just makes me somewhat jealous thats all

Yeah, what he said...

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Lav,

when I start my weekly thread containing vivid detail about my 6 hour phonesex/masturbation marathons.

Oh the hell did I miss that thread?

 

[kotori]

I agree with Lavy. I know it's partially to do with being shy, and partially to do with being brought up in a fairly conservative house, but I've never felt comfortable talking openly about intimate details of my sexual activity. I love to "talk dirty" to the one I love, and I wouldn't be shy to share specific items with a good friend in a one-on-one conversation. But I'd no more post written details than I would talk about it at a cocktail party.

Hell, Lexie was laughing at me 'cause I couldn't even write the word "horny" last week.

 

[BustyTheClown]

I agree with Lavy. I know it's partially to do with being shy, and partially to do with being brought up in a fairly conservative house, but I've never felt comfortable talking openly about intimate details of my sexual activity. I love to "talk dirty" to the one I love, and I wouldn't be shy to share specific items with a good friend in a one-on-one conversation. But I'd no more post written details than I would talk about it at a cocktail party.

Hell, Lexie was laughing at me 'cause I couldn't even write the word "horny" last week.

Lol kotori you know I love you, but your post and Lavy's make me wonder what you are doing on an erotic message board if that's the way you feel about sharing/hearing about other people's sexual experiences?

 

[ShamelessFlirt]

Personally, I don't kiss and tell so I can understand the question.

However, I did find it ironic that it was being asked by an exhibitionist.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Lol kotori you know I love you, but your post and Lavy's make me wonder what you are doing on an erotic message board if that's the way you feel about sharing/hearing about other people's sexual experiences?

Because there's a difference between sexual banter... enjoying erotica... and just plain having adult conversations... and giving out graphic details of the phone sex session Ruby, Lavy and I all had the other night.

 

[lovetoread]

Well shit,I'd tell you of mine,but all I did was moan alot and get off.

I think that to some people, phone sex is nothing,so whats the big deal about talking about it?

 

[lavender]

 

[Mischka]

However, I did find it ironic that it was being asked by an exhibitionist.

Huh?

Busty, it's not that we abhor the idea of people conversing on a sexual level. There's just difference between revealing contemporaneous intimate sexual details and general sexual banter. I think lavy is just curious about the motive behind the former. I guess it's similar to exhibitionism, but with two people involved.

 

[Kelly_Liscious]

What's phone sex?

What was your phone # .... * dialing ... beep ... beep .. beep ... *









Phone sex .... icky ... its nasty !

 

[Calamity Jane]

Huh?

Busty, it's not that we abhor the idea of people conversing on a sexual level. There's just difference between revealing contemporaneous intimate sexual details and general sexual banter. I think lavy is just curious about the motive behind the former. I guess it's similar to exhibitionism, but with two people involved.

Wow Mischka... that legal speak makes me all tingly like.

 

[BustyTheClown]

Ahh, it all makes sense to me now.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

If someone would like to have phone sex with me, just drop me a PM. Then, if and when it happens, I'll come back and let you know whether and why someone might want to share the intimate details.

 

[lavender]

 

[tortoise]

In real life, do you go around telling all the intimate details of your sex life to your friends?

Herein lies the rub, IMHO.

This is a place where we CAN do things that we wouldn't/couldn't/shouldn't do in real life. It's a place where we can all be as "open" or as "coarse" or as silly as we choose to be, with no repercussions (apart from the occasional whine, but those are VERY easily ignored).

 

[AzureAngel]

Re: Re: Tales of Phone Sex

Herein lies the rub, IMHO.

And I wait for MY rub.