Taboos

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What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

On the flip side, are there things you did once and wouldn't repeat, or have never tried and don't plan to?


I used to cringe at the thought of having sex in public for fear of embarrassing discovery. I'm still afraid, but the times I've done it have been among the most exciting of my adventures.
 
What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

On the flip side, are there things you did once and wouldn't repeat, or have never tried and don't plan to?


I used to cringe at the thought of having sex in public for fear of embarrassing discovery. I'm still afraid, but the times I've done it have been among the most exciting of my adventures.

Hotwifing/cuckolding...it is quite a rush being with another man's wife or girlfriend.
 
What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

Threesomes/polyamory, transgender, foot fetish. Which is strange because ever since I developed sexually, I've had a thing for non-consent - in stories and fantasies - and male homoerotica, in addition to hetero stuff. As I've grown older, consent between multiple people has opened my eyes to possibilities and I've erased gender barriers mentally. If I weren't asexual, I'd say I'm bisexual, because anything with the qualities of both man and woman is appealing to me, no matter the combinations or the levels present in individuals.

Something I'd not repeat is actual structured BDSM. When I first started writing, I actually got a bit into rp and reading BDSM stories on Fetlife. The whole contract, safe words, bondage, and rules kind of thing lost its appeal the first couple of times I played through it or read a story about it. They all feel kinda the same and I don't necessarily understand the tying someone up bit, especially in a complex manner that doesn't enable easy sexual contact. I know there's something enjoyable about the activity for those involved but I personally do not find it appealing.
 
Well when I was younger I thought facials were kind of gross. But then the first time a girl asked me to finish on her face I was kind of turned on that she wanted me to do that. Not so much the act of it. Not that at all, in fact. But that she was so into me that she wanted me to cum on her face. That was the hot part. So once I saw what it really was in reality I wasn't grossed out by it anymore and since then when asked it's kind of hot. I'm not into facials as a fetish or anything but if she's into it, yeah, it can be hot.

Anal is another one. When I was young I was under the impression that it was just something women didn't like and that it was always painful and just something some women did for the guys they were with. Well when I was in my later teens (by which I obviously mean 18 because of Lit rules.) I had a girlfriend who wanted to try it. Now believe it or not she was the one who talked me into it. She'd kind of hinted at it and planted a few seeds and then one day she asked me to finger her in her ass and I did that because why not and then it turned into rimming and then full-on anal. The first time we tried it I rubbed her clit and she came within ten seconds. Maybe even five seconds. It was almost instantaneous. So we kept going until she came again and then I did. She said she wanted to know what it felt like when I came in her ass so I did that too and I really dug it. It was fun. So then I realized most people just do it wrong. They're not patient or receptive to their partner's wants or needs.

So nothing too out there, sorry. But I'm not really into anything over-the-top so there you go.
 
Having another woman involved in our marriage. :heart:
It took me time to get use to it, but now we're committed, comfortable & we continue growing each day.

L:rose:
 
Would not mind hearing about the sex in public episodes

Over time, I've posted some incidents on various Lit threads. They are probably lost in the sea of posts. However, variations on sex in public or exhibitionism is at the center of several of my stories. Some are based on personal experiences, while others are from my over-aroused imagination. Two that are in that vein are: "Culture Night" and "Birth of an Exhibitionist". They can be found at the link to my stories below.
 
What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

On the flip side, are there things you did once and wouldn't repeat, or have never tried and don't plan to?


I used to cringe at the thought of having sex in public for fear of embarrassing discovery. I'm still afraid, but the times I've done it have been among the most exciting of my adventures.
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Sex with my cousin ... eating pussy ... sucking cock ... fucking my wife's sweet ass ... sex with a bi-sexual woman ... masturbating in front of my lover ... asking my lover to suck my nipples while I masturbate ... letting a woman finger my ass. I hope there are more adventures to CUM! :D
 
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Sex with my cousin ... eating pussy ... sucking cock ... fucking my wife's sweet ass ... sex with a bi-sexual woman ... masturbating in front of my lover ... asking my lover to suck my nipples while I masturbate ... letting a woman finger my ass. I hope there are more adventures to CUM! :D


It looks like you've overcome your inhibitions to create an exciting sexual life.
 
I can't remember ever thinking anything sexual was taboo. At least not anything that's not illegal or immoral.
 
What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

There was a time in my insular and inhibited youth when I thought explicitly sexy and erotic lingerie was trashy and not worth the money. Fortunately, as I matured and became more sensually aware, I completely went in the other direction. I came to see it as something to stimulate myself and others. It worked erotically on so many levels. The touch and look and feel (and depending on the situation, the smell and taste). It became a means to set a mood and persona; the means of a quick and raunchy public flash; to excite a lover; to generate foreplay; as a means for a teasing disrobing; etc. When I needed a lift, I'd look in my lingerie drawers and remember a particularly exciting evening the panties played a part in. Or, don a set to help generate a stimulating fantasy. Even with a large collection, it's fun to buy new pieces from the endless variety.
 
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Having another woman involved in our marriage. :heart:
It took me time to get use to it, but now we're committed, comfortable & we continue growing each day.

L:rose:

If it's the right person, the more the merrier.
 
What did you once find taboo, but now enjoy or find thrilling?

On the flip side, are there things you did once and wouldn't repeat, or have never tried and don't plan to?

Anal sex (loved doing it to her.)
spanking (ditto)
using toys (ditto)


I never want to do anything scat or piss related, beast related and such like.
 
Once personally taboo: fantasy sexual role play. It seemed too revealing and exposed. But with the right trusting lover, it was creative, stimulating and mind expanding.
 
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Sex with a cousin, two relatives (one more distant than the other), and a couple (maybe more than a couple) of other situations that I prefer not to mention here, one of which I would not do again!

Hello Lia Monde :rose:
 
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